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Old 03-16-2011, 10:03 AM   #61
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Well, this is IT, folks!

Last chemo infusion today!
WOOO! I am incredibly excited on your behalf. You should have a PARTY.

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Also, a little shout out to Bete for being a wonderful support to me as well. I didn't know her before the chemo, so it is pretty cool that we became friends during this time and I had an online support friend.
Oh don't even. It's clearly been a two-way street - you've been a good friend to me as well. Which is a lot of work, because I just happen to be batshit crazy.



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Thanks so much for this good news! I'm sorry I haven't kept up with You (I started to say "haven't kept up with Your ass..." but that would have been over the top, I'm thinkin'... )
Silly, there is already precedence in this thread for ass and poop jokes. I started it - don't let the grand tradition die!
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Mazel Tov, Dapper! Being new to BFPlanet, I had no idea you were hang to walk such a tough road:-( I am delighted for you and your honey that you are doing well and are done with chemotherapy.

Sending continued healing energy and wishes for many years of goods health and happiness.
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The support I have received through my gf (tantalizingfemme), has been incredible over this time, and I just want to give a thanks to her here at bfp! I truly couldn't have asked for a better partner!
By the way, I think you need to buy her lots of presents. And pay her lots of attention. I like that woman.
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What wonderful news Dapper! It's amazing what supportive friendships & love can do for your health... powerful stuff!

A happy & healthy road ahead!
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WOOO! I am incredibly excited on your behalf. You should have a PARTY.

I AM. Remember Nick is coming and you are not? I thought we went over this?



Oh don't even. It's clearly been a two-way street - you've been a good friend to me as well. Which is a lot of work, because I just happen to be batshit crazy.

This would be accurate. But, no you have been great.



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Sweet Dapper....
Thanks so much for this good news! I'm sorry I haven't kept up with You (I started to say "haven't kept up with Your ass..." but that would have been over the top, I'm thinkin'... )..... I have no excuse for that....

But THIS! THIS is grand news and I'm so happy for You and Tantalizing Femme....and God bless her for helping You through this hard part...and onward!





Silly, there is already precedence in this thread for ass and poop jokes. I started it - don't let the grand tradition die!
Good point! I repped Diva telling her she could call me an ass, anytime! You know, as long as I could have a piece of her a....<cough..oops that would be over the top to say, I'm thinkin' ...>

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By the way, I think you need to buy her lots of presents. And pay her lots of attention. I like that woman.
Presents? But I am a cheap bastard! Actually, I'm not. I think you are right!
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I AM. Remember Nick is coming and you are not? I thought we went over this?
This joke was funnier when I invited your ladyfriend to the Lesbian Film Fest and said that you had to stay home. Don't recycle my jokes, bro!

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This joke was funnier when I invited your ladyfriend to the Lesbian Film Fest and said that you had to stay home. Don't recycle my jokes, bro!

WhatEVA!


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You know, as long as I could have a piece of her a....<cough..oops that would be over the top to say, I'm thinkin' ...>
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Or over the bottom.....as it were.....
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ya know......... i dont know why i have not ever seen this thread.....
Dapper... thats great news .... glad to read how well your coming along.
makes one just wanna dance .. lol


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I hadn't seen this thread either. I wish you continued healing and a very long, happy life.

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CLEAN UP ON AISLE DIVA.......................
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Just whatever you do don't let anybody use that cottonelle with aloe to do the cleanup. Like I've said - it leaves a filmy residue on yer nethers.

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YEY Dapper, this is great news, always knew you'd kick it's ass, rawk on Bro!
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Fantastic news. We are sending you healing and happiness and so glad you had support from your wonderful girlfriend through all of this.
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That's awesome Dapper, my thoughts and prayers for you for a complete and awesome recovery!!! Congrats!!
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FINALLY!!! Now I can stop being nice to your ass.



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Dapper, thanks for sharing your good news. I sense you are a one of a kind sort of guy. I am very happy to know you are going to be here with us and posting more things to ponder.
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Thanks everyone for all the well wishes. It is very much appreciated! :-)
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