Femme Caves!

Medusa · 01-17-2013, 07:09 PM

Do you have a Femme cave? You know, a room or area in your house that is yours and only yours? What do you do there? What's in it?

Describe your Femmecave, whether it be a craft room, sewing room, or even a little nest where you like to knit!

Femme caves rock!!

Vivacious1 · 01-17-2013, 07:21 PM

Oh I do love this thread!!!

My femme cave is my bedroom. My favorite things reside here! My bed of course, the best sheets I can find (luxurious bedding is a must) seeing that napping and bedtime are a favorite of mine. I have beautiful framed pictures that are all sentimemtal in some way, whether given to me or a "find". My jewelry box that stays close to my bed (which indicates it's importance, lol) filled with things that have been given to me, either by people that have been in my life or passed down from my mom or grandmother. My treadmill of course because when I wake up it speaks to me (get on me) sometimes I listen, sometimes I don't. I can't forget my 5 foot tall giraffee that I scored at a furniture store that was closing down. (her name is Gertrude, yes I am insane) and let me not leave out my closet with lots of beautiful clothes and shoes which are truly things I cherish. Some are recent buys and some are not, some fit and some don't.... they are like family!!! So, in summary, my bedroom is truly my oasis and I have created a place that makes me feel happy and peaceful.

The_Lady_Snow · 01-17-2013, 07:31 PM

Besides the man cubs room, garage and laundry room.. The whole house is my cave..

aishah · 01-17-2013, 07:41 PM

i just got a new chair and rearranged my femme cave in my bedroom slash office! i'll try to take pics soon.

starryeyes · 01-17-2013, 07:48 PM

No!! I wish. I have a 4 bedroom house with only 2 of the rooms occupied... This is giving me ideas! I would love to start sewing and designing clothes again! Rawr.

TheMerryFairy · 01-17-2013, 08:04 PM

Someday I WILL have a room just for my crafts and little projects!

DanzAmazon · 01-17-2013, 08:06 PM

Right now my bedroom is in such a state of dissaray, that I certainly would call it a cave, but not a femme cave. I have carved out a corner in the living room for a femme office/writer's corner which I'll keep. Then if my room survives the planned napalming, I'll take pictures of my brand new world.

Ginger · 01-19-2013, 09:55 AM

And PS, what a sweet idea for a thread. Having a sanctuary is so central to feeling safe. It's a base where you can lick your wounds and indulge yourself and celebrate in privacy I will never take for granted again.

Erryl · 12-30-2013, 11:16 AM

Everyone is welcome in my femme cave. We all do a little crafting. We even have a nerdy little craft blog. lol

In my femme cave is where all my craft supplies live. Scrapbooking, cardmaking, party decor, cake tools/supplies and painting stuff. The wifey like woodburning too so that's in there. Also, the kiddo's jewelry stuff... pretty much it's a room packed with shelves that are covered in crafts.

Here's what it looked like a few months ago. I've been pairing down stuff so it's a little busy in there in these pics.

ConCrtAnge1 · 03-02-2014, 09:48 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Erryl

Everyone is welcome in my femme cave. We all do a little crafting. We even have a nerdy little craft blog. lol

In my femme cave is where all my craft supplies live. Scrapbooking, cardmaking, party decor, cake tools/supplies and painting stuff. The wifey like woodburning too so that's in there. Also, the kiddo's jewelry stuff... pretty much it's a room packed with shelves that are covered in crafts.

Here's what it looked like a few months ago. I've been pairing down stuff so it's a little busy in there in these pics.

I truly think I have fallen into love I this room..

I could only wish..

Bèsame* · 03-02-2014, 02:33 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by ConCrtAnge1

I truly think I have fallen into love I this room..

I could only wish..

if only my craft room looked that good. Even better...like this ...

Sweet Bliss · 03-02-2014, 05:55 PM

Wow. I'm thinking the walls are what makes this room spectacular. Rich bold blue?turquoise? not sure, but it's fabulous! Very nice. Would keep your energy level to the max all day. And it looks really big. Geez, look at the table!!

Thanks for finding and posting for us!!

morningstar55 · 03-02-2014, 07:14 PM

Queenie · 01-29-2014, 11:34 AM

My Femmecave is the spare bedroom in my flat. It is my walk-in closet, my shoe closet and where I do my hair and makeup. It really is the best room in my flat! Mostly because I don't have to share it with the husband. Its all mine!

Sweet Bliss · 01-31-2014, 12:40 AM

Ah... a room of one's own. Fabulous!

Sweet Bliss · 02-17-2014, 07:36 PM

This Sunday's found treasure is a dresser from the 30's, with lovely graceful lines and even a frame thingy to hold a mirror. Sorry, can't remember what the proper name for the frame thingy. Surfice it to say, I'm all excited about my new find. It's covered in tacky badly applied crackly paint, and I do mean badly applied. Under the white paint is a flat nasty shade of what looks like should have been teal but isn't.

So anyhoo, it's made of cherry wood..... ya how fabulous is THAT????!!!

So tomorrow I will commence to stripping and sanding down the crap on the surface. This afternoon I finally got brave and cut a hole in the solid wood door the roomie was tossing... bad roomie, solid wood, wth??

It has three square panels down the middle, so I cut out the one panel on one end, that's for the sink. Did not do my usual anal retentive detail work so it DOES NOT look the way I wanted it to look. BUT, being the creative genius I am, it will not deter me from having a Bohemian Kitchen. So there. The other panel on the opposite end will house the 2 burner stove top. Am so excited to finally see my Grace shaping up into a REAL FEMME CAVE on wheels. So any hoo, I've been busy scheming on how to get other things done. I started out with a beach theme but now its looking on the wild side,... Granny on LSD.

Saw some great Mermaid paintings at the Harbor Walk Art and Craft show. AND a Fabulous Mermaid painted on the side of a huge craft of some sort in the Harbor. She was beautiful!!

So now I'm inspired to do something fabulous on Grace's huge 38 ft length. Got my Elmer's Glue so I can papermache my Barbie collection into mermaids to hang in the windows and on the mirrors. Having more fun than people. Wish I had some Femme friends to hang with and make goodies. *big sigh

Well, any hoo, have jabbered enough about my lastest adventure, what's yours??

Would love to hear about it all....

toodles!

Sweet Bliss · 02-27-2014, 06:13 PM

http://www.flickr.com/photos/fundelu...holiday_jenny/

Holey socks! Is this chair delightful or WHAT???!!!

Adding it to "I want..." list.

Bèsame* · 03-02-2014, 12:55 AM

Who says it has to be a place for tools?

01-17-2013, 07:09 PM	#1
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Vivacious1 Member How Do You Identify?: femme Preferred Pronoun?: femme Relationship Status: taken Join Date: Aug 2012 Location: Louisiana Posts: 220 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 195 Thanked 796 Times in 178 Posts Rep Power: 6042524	Oh I do love this thread!!! My femme cave is my bedroom. My favorite things reside here! My bed of course, the best sheets I can find (luxurious bedding is a must) seeing that napping and bedtime are a favorite of mine. I have beautiful framed pictures that are all sentimemtal in some way, whether given to me or a "find". My jewelry box that stays close to my bed (which indicates it's importance, lol) filled with things that have been given to me, either by people that have been in my life or passed down from my mom or grandmother. My treadmill of course because when I wake up it speaks to me (get on me) sometimes I listen, sometimes I don't. I can't forget my 5 foot tall giraffee that I scored at a furniture store that was closing down. (her name is Gertrude, yes I am insane) and let me not leave out my closet with lots of beautiful clothes and shoes which are truly things I cherish. Some are recent buys and some are not, some fit and some don't.... they are like family!!! So, in summary, my bedroom is truly my oasis and I have created a place that makes me feel happy and peaceful. __________________ Well behaved women rarely make history ...

01-17-2013, 07:31 PM	#3
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01-17-2013, 08:06 PM	#7
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01-19-2013, 09:55 AM	#8
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12-30-2013, 11:16 AM	#9
Erryl Junior Member How Do You Identify?: Female Preferred Pronoun?: She Relationship Status: Married Join Date: Dec 2013 Location: Arkansas Posts: 42 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 23 Thanked 94 Times in 20 Posts Rep Power: 2317129	Everyone is welcome in my femme cave. We all do a little crafting. We even have a nerdy little craft blog. lol In my femme cave is where all my craft supplies live. Scrapbooking, cardmaking, party decor, cake tools/supplies and painting stuff. The wifey like woodburning too so that's in there. Also, the kiddo's jewelry stuff... pretty much it's a room packed with shelves that are covered in crafts. Here's what it looked like a few months ago. I've been pairing down stuff so it's a little busy in there in these pics. __________________ "Don't waste your breath proclaiming what's really important to you. How you spend your time says it all." -E. Zorn Last edited by Erryl; 12-30-2013 at 11:19 AM. Reason: Added a photo

03-02-2014, 05:55 PM	#12
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03-02-2014, 07:14 PM	#13
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01-29-2014, 11:34 AM	#14
Queenie Member How Do You Identify?: Queer Preferred Pronoun?: Her Relationship Status: Married Join Date: Jan 2010 Location: East Finchley Posts: 752 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 478 Thanked 1,891 Times in 523 Posts Rep Power: 16307163	My Femmecave is the spare bedroom in my flat. It is my walk-in closet, my shoe closet and where I do my hair and makeup. It really is the best room in my flat! Mostly because I don't have to share it with the husband. Its all mine!

01-31-2014, 12:40 AM	#15
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02-17-2014, 07:36 PM	#16
Sweet Bliss Senior Member How Do You Identify?: I Am Preferred Pronoun?: she Relationship Status: solo Join Date: Mar 2010 Location: the Beach, Pacific side Posts: 4,160 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 5,354 Thanked 7,264 Times in 2,158 Posts Rep Power: 21474855	This Sunday's found treasure is a dresser from the 30's, with lovely graceful lines and even a frame thingy to hold a mirror. Sorry, can't remember what the proper name for the frame thingy. Surfice it to say, I'm all excited about my new find. It's covered in tacky badly applied crackly paint, and I do mean badly applied. Under the white paint is a flat nasty shade of what looks like should have been teal but isn't. So anyhoo, it's made of cherry wood..... ya how fabulous is THAT????!!! So tomorrow I will commence to stripping and sanding down the crap on the surface. This afternoon I finally got brave and cut a hole in the solid wood door the roomie was tossing... bad roomie, solid wood, wth?? It has three square panels down the middle, so I cut out the one panel on one end, that's for the sink. Did not do my usual anal retentive detail work so it DOES NOT look the way I wanted it to look. BUT, being the creative genius I am, it will not deter me from having a Bohemian Kitchen. So there. The other panel on the opposite end will house the 2 burner stove top. Am so excited to finally see my Grace shaping up into a REAL FEMME CAVE on wheels. So any hoo, I've been busy scheming on how to get other things done. I started out with a beach theme but now its looking on the wild side,... Granny on LSD. Saw some great Mermaid paintings at the Harbor Walk Art and Craft show. AND a Fabulous Mermaid painted on the side of a huge craft of some sort in the Harbor. She was beautiful!! So now I'm inspired to do something fabulous on Grace's huge 38 ft length. Got my Elmer's Glue so I can papermache my Barbie collection into mermaids to hang in the windows and on the mirrors. Having more fun than people. Wish I had some Femme friends to hang with and make goodies. *big sigh Well, any hoo, have jabbered enough about my lastest adventure, what's yours?? Would love to hear about it all.... toodles!

02-27-2014, 06:13 PM	#17
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03-02-2014, 12:55 AM	#18
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