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05-03-2013, 04:41 AM | #1 |
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05-03-2013, 11:09 PM | #2 |
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Just be kind. In the end, it's all that really matters.
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05-04-2013, 01:17 AM | #3 |
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I don't know who wrote this and I'm google-lazy, but I think this sums it up:
You will carry this suture Into the future The past never passes It simply amasses. --------------- Also - there is probably no escape - you will likely see them again forever if you live in the same town. I dated a woman briefly back in 2005, and I still run into her. Thankfully, we get along great now, but there was a good year where it was pretty awkward.
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05-05-2013, 03:07 AM | #4 |
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Crazy-Spotting
Some people are in love with the IDEA of being in love. They'd rather be with ANYONE (you aren't special) than be alone. Learn to spot them, to observe, so you can "dodge the bullet" and save yourself a world of hurt later. If you make an error on this "type", misjudge things, they will go on to the next person who pays them some attention while you're left reeling, wondering WTF happened.
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05-21-2013, 09:23 PM | #5 |
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Like Bonnie Raitt's song..I Can't Make You Love Me. it's true..You can't. Long hard lesson learned.
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10-03-2017, 08:21 PM | #6 |
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To be extremely careful of who you enter a relationship with. Use much intellect along with emotions. Pause yourself and ask if this is really the right relationship for you. Looks can be deceptive.
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10-04-2017, 12:18 AM | #7 |
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Sort of inline with the above post.
Not to abandon true deep love and commitment to sizzling hot lust and blazing scenes. In short order, the sizzling and blaze will burn out. All that remained were cold embers and memories. Oh, and years of tears. |
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10-04-2017, 07:48 PM | #8 |
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I agree with this...in my twenties "hot" was what counted..but now ..there are more important things--of course you want both always but it's not wise to reject change--because change will always be with us and it's good and we shouldn't be afraid of it and learn to take advantage of it--life is a challenge and this is what keeps it interesting!
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10-04-2017, 09:50 PM | #9 |
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That the deep friendship in the relationship should come before anything else
That romance is not about grand gestures or words for me. It's about small, little acts of care that are natural. It's about stepping up for me when I can't but not in a "masculine hero" way, more like a "scrubbing bae's puke from around the toilet" way. <<< *that's* romance to me. I mean, that means someone sincerely loves me. That I find passion in humour, movement, and creative conversations. That loyalty is more important to me than fidelity That I'm no longer looking for the passion-romance-chemistry triad. What I want is maturity, skills, compatibility, self acceptance, self responsibility and wit. *fans self* |
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10-24-2018, 12:15 AM | #10 |
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Learning to wait at least 24hrs before reacting when I'm upset. No matter how hard it is to keep quiet.
Learning the difference between assertive and abusive. Learning to rediscover the raw vulnerable side of myself in the arms of another.
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