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Old 05-30-2012, 03:28 PM   #1
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I read someone mentioning this in the stone thread and I quite like the term. Although I sometimes refer to myself as "fuck dolly" as a joke.

I am not a stone femme. To my own understanding that's an ID for iether sexually stone femmes or stonefemmes. I am neither.

However I go through fabulous periods of being a complete pillow princess/fuck dolly and I love it. I'm multi-orgasmic, squirty, messy, loud, scratchy, grabbing, occasionally with tears from how completely turned inside out I am from the cluster orgasms.

I personally love the periods of pillow princess I go through. I'm also a quite capable dominant pillow princess. I've tied my partners up, whipped their backs and asses for being filthy, horrible, dirty minded, nasty... and then when I undo them, they grab me, pin me down with the weight of their bodies, wrap an lovely arm around my back and fuck the life out of me afterwards. It's a fun game.

Pillow Princess crown is fun to wear. I'm more than happy to bring them off after they've spent all that time enjoying themselves turning me into a sex-mess. Many of my partners don't to want to bother with reaching their bonna everytime afterwards but I'm more than happy to suck them off properly. Personally I still think that's still within the realm of Pillow Princess/Fuck Dolly.

Some of them like a finger on their gspot when I suck them off, so it's not exactly stone. I'm happy with performing that ritual thanks. I'm fine with it not happening.

I'm not stone, but I love being a Pillow Princess/Fuck Dolly.

I'm not all the time... but it's a good 70-30 split. The other 30 percent is Holy Hell Domme Bitch, but I don't need to fuck anyone while I'm in that space. it's nice, but it's equally nice to just be a royal fucking nasty sadistic bitch and then, of course, hit the pillow...

Thought since there was space for expressing "other sexual ID's" I thought I'd speak up in defence of Pillow Bitch or Fuck Dolly or Pillow Princess...

I am also dying for a good shag at the moment so I'm funneling all that sexual energy someplace....
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I always thought the term "pillow princess" meant a girl who just lays there and doesn't participate and demands their partner to do all the work...

Would love to comapre sex terms with someone from another country...


I do, however, agree with a proper reward if one turns me into a sex-mess, especially if they didn't reach their bonna. :wink:
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I don't buy it, that meaning to the term. Stone isn't really a term that's known here, so they call everyone who doesn't "fuck them back" a pillow princess. Frankly, there's nothing wrong with not doing anything back. But jesus, not doing anything back dosen't mean you lay there like a lump. It means you turn into a writhing multi orgasmic response unit to someone else's prowess!

I'd say a good chunk of the time they don't want to be brought off. They reach their bonna by having their brain glow from what they do to someone else. I get it. I've done domme work before and I never want anything done to me when I'm in that headspace. The getting something back happens while doing it to someone else.

I don't really follow the "you do me then I do you" school of thought. I do them some other time when they want it.
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I always thought the term "pillow princess" meant a girl who just lays there and doesn't participate and demands their partner to do all the work...

Would love to comapre sex terms with someone from another country...


I do, however, agree with a proper reward if one turns me into a sex-mess, especially if they didn't reach their bonna. :wink:
yeah I thought so too! Damn I must be a pillow princess after all!
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i most often hear it as an insult.

but it could be a great screening tool, as in "i think you're cute too, here is my number. btw i am a pillow princess"

OMG THEY CALLED?????

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i kinda feel like doing some princessing right now!
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i most often hear it as an insult.

but it could be a great screening tool, as in "i think you're cute too, here is my number. btw i am a pillow princess"

OMG THEY CALLED?????

win.
I would like to conduct a study. "I am a pillow princess" vs. "I am a fuck dolly".

I have been called a "fuck toy" and "cum bucket" among other creative names in the heat of passion. I think I like "fuck dolly" a lot!
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it was an expression I used when a relationship ended where I was the top and the active member most of the time. I remember telling the stone butch I was out on a date with that all I wanted was to be a "fuck doll" for a little while, but far more animated and without the shocked expression. It morphed into fuck dolly and it kind of stuck. I quite like it myself. It's rather dirty. I like dirty.

This fuck dolly also enjoys dishing it out when it's wanted. I'm pretty skilled myself. But I do love being on my back and giving in.

maybe cause of my job being in control all the time that the chance to just let go and give over is a very sweet relief.
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Pillow Princess is a relatively derogatory term when used by many here in UK and means what previous posters have already said...in my experience.

Stone is not anathema here, in some circles, but it is uncommon if not unheard of outside the bft 'community'...also in my experience.

As for myself, well I don't attribute the negative connotations to the phrase and can *coff* appreciate a pillow princess
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I read someone mentioning this in the stone thread and I quite like the term. Although I sometimes refer to myself as "fuck dolly" as a joke.

I am not a stone femme. To my own understanding that's an ID for iether sexually stone femmes or stonefemmes. I am neither.

However I go through fabulous periods of being a complete pillow princess/fuck dolly and I love it. I'm multi-orgasmic, squirty, messy, loud, scratchy, grabbing, occasionally with tears from how completely turned inside out I am from the cluster orgasms.

I personally love the periods of pillow princess I go through. I'm also a quite capable dominant pillow princess. I've tied my partners up, whipped their backs and asses for being filthy, horrible, dirty minded, nasty... and then when I undo them, they grab me, pin me down with the weight of their bodies, wrap an lovely arm around my back and fuck the life out of me afterwards. It's a fun game.

Pillow Princess crown is fun to wear. I'm more than happy to bring them off after they've spent all that time enjoying themselves turning me into a sex-mess. Many of my partners don't to want to bother with reaching their bonna everytime afterwards but I'm more than happy to suck them off properly. Personally I still think that's still within the realm of Pillow Princess/Fuck Dolly.

Some of them like a finger on their gspot when I suck them off, so it's not exactly stone. I'm happy with performing that ritual thanks. I'm fine with it not happening.

I'm not stone, but I love being a Pillow Princess/Fuck Dolly.

I'm not all the time... but it's a good 70-30 split. The other 30 percent is Holy Hell Domme Bitch, but I don't need to fuck anyone while I'm in that space. it's nice, but it's equally nice to just be a royal fucking nasty sadistic bitch and then, of course, hit the pillow...

Thought since there was space for expressing "other sexual ID's" I thought I'd speak up in defence of Pillow Bitch or Fuck Dolly or Pillow Princess...

I am also dying for a good shag at the moment so I'm funneling all that sexual energy someplace....


I would like to say... You are the absolute shit! (thats a good thing) Thank you for sharing, thank you for putting that into words that are perfect and thank you for giving me my own issues of needing a good fuck.
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