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Advice is always great - but we as human beings tend to listen to our inner thoughts and learn the lessons needed. Don't beat yourself up over this - mistakes are made and gotten over. Hearts get broken and mend.... The best part is when the time is right - you will be available for the perfect person for you.....
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I love this sight....everyone is so helpful and things aren't sugarcoated!! Makes it easier for a baby butch to find her way.
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Light bulb moment!! Being new to this butch/femme dynamic I had no idea how my mind and body would react to it. It made me physically feel things that were foreign to me and sent my mind in to a tail spin. Having that strong attraction to a femme was as new to me as it was natural. I don't know if anyone else has felt this way, but I never saw myself as "butch". I can thank a good friend of mine....who for a "new" lesbian, suprisingly saw it before I did......for opening my eyes and unknowingly helping me be who I am. Then out of nowhere there's this beautiful femme. She drew me to her like a magnet without knowing it. I didn't even know it and I didn't understand it. But it felt like home. If there are "baby butches", (i don't know if that's the right term, but it works) out there like myself, the one thing I can say to them is to educate yourselves, take it slow and don't let it overwhelm you. It's a crazy, beautiful, intense wonderful ride.......this butch/femme dynamic and I have so much more to learn. You all have helped in more ways than you know. I'm looking forward to continuing my journey. I never knew the touch of a femme could drop me to my knees!! Wow!
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Hi there baby butch!
The right femme will be dropping to her knees for you in a hot minute
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I prefer my femme to drop to her knees, but who's mincing...
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Knees???
It's cause you found the kind that does, some of us, not so much....
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Hey Blu,
I gotta tell you it takes a lot of guts to admit things went wrong or that it just didn't work and trust me, it's okay to stumble. You will stumble and trip along the way but you will always find your feet again. Just take your time don't rush it. Life takes us to the path, you get to choose which path to take. Will it be left, right or forward? It's all up hill for you now.. learn from it. Ask yourself those questions I wrote earlier to find a better path for next time. I try not to say any relationship was a regret because honestly you do get something out of each relationship, good or bad. Hopefully you will learn from each one. Listen to your self dig deep and do it better next time. If you don't dig into it you will find yourself repeating the pattern (the pickers off) and you don't want that. Good luck to you in the future. There are a lot of amazing people on here, listen, take what you need, throw out the rest. |
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Baby butch,
There are many layers to this journey of ours. I think that when we first come out or recognize our true identity, regardless of what that means to us; the world is like a brand-new place. We may have always lived in it but all of a sudden, we are looking at it through brand-new eyes. No matter our age, there is a certain adolescent quality to it. I laid eyes on my 1st honest-to-god butch at age 16 and did go weak in the knees ( though did not fall to my knees). I had a circuitous route to finally coming out but when I did, at about age 25, I was about in love with everyone I laid eyes on. It does take some time and experience to get to the place where you do not want to jump the bones of every hot one that you see ( well some never get to that place), to not think you are in love with everyone you are seriously attracted to and really learn the difference between attraction/love and lust. It is a process and can be hot, fun and painful- not necessarily in that order but a wonderful journey it is-into this world of ours. Buckle up baby, it can be a bumpy ride!
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