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02-12-2016, 01:32 AM
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Senior Member
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feminine dolly dyke Preferred Pronoun?:
Your Grace Relationship Status:
I put my own care first 
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Pissy. I feel like I've been having this fucking argument since 1998, a year after I came out: Femmes are NOT interchangeable with straight women!! Quit fucking posting pics of straight women in butch-femme groups and dribbling on them (I don't mean here, it's thankfully not done here). It's has as much to do with butch-femme desire as posting a pic of a straight cis man in tight underwear showing a huge cock and typing "phwoar" under it.
Straight cis dudes have nothing to do with butches Straight women have nothing to with femmes. Fucking stop it. I'm sick of having this stupid argument for almost 20 years now. Many, many femmes feel the same way. They don't want to go into butch-femme space and see they are interchangeable with straight girls. We feel invisible enough as it is on a daily basis, going into space where we are supposed to be seen and appreciated and seeing pics of straight chicks as wank fodder can really be the cherry on the fucking erasure cupcake. So, don't fucking do it. Ok? /rant. Last edited by imperfect_cupcake; 02-12-2016 at 01:44 AM. |
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02-12-2016, 06:29 AM
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Practically Lives Here
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Queer Stone Femme Girl of the Unicorn Variety Preferred Pronoun?:
She, as in 'She's a GEM' 
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I feel better than cupcake does.
 I get to run a bunch of errands today, so I'll be in and out of the office all day and I kind of like that. |
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02-12-2016, 07:47 AM
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Practically Lives Here
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Butch (Silver Fox) Dom Daddi Preferred Pronoun?:
50 Shades of Clay Darker & Deeper Relationship Status:
married to my forever 
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(very) mischievious....
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02-12-2016, 07:47 AM
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Superlative Soul Sister
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Lesbian stone femme Preferred Pronoun?:
She, her, shawty Relationship Status:
Single 
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Good, but will be glad when I'm on the other side of this weekend.
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02-12-2016, 10:32 AM
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Senior Member
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Femme-ish, tomboy lesbian Preferred Pronoun?:
She Relationship Status:
Together a really long time 
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Feelin pretty good. Calm, well rested, prepared to go in to work and earn my pay this afternoon.
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02-12-2016, 12:46 PM
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Senior Member
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lesbian femme Join Date: Oct 2014
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Everything is rather amusing to me today. I am in one of my weird moods. It's definitely a good weird, though.
Cheers to an extra long weekend. 
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02-12-2016, 03:42 PM
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with a distinct flair 
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Tense.
Okay overall, but rather tense with a dash of cranky - not so cranky that I can't see past it, though; you know what I mean? And at the same time, I feel a little bit good about some things, too.
Maybe out of sorts is the best way to describe it. Meditation practice has made me so aware of my own energetic undercurrents and of subtle shifts in my own emotional temperature that I'm never really sure if I'm above my baseline level of tension or if I'm just so attuned to it, that I notice and work on letting go of it at lower and lower levels. It's so interesting to sort of rest in that gap between stimulus and response. It completely changes the way one travels through the world.
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02-12-2016, 04:04 PM
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Infamous Member
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cleverly disguised as a responsible adult* Preferred Pronoun?:
wild woman Relationship Status:
No, thank you. 
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Location: in my heart I'm going to Carolina...but I'm in MA for now
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Purty stoked
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02-12-2016, 05:34 PM
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Practically Lives Here
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Depends on the day. Preferred Pronoun?:
"I" and "we" Relationship Status:
Very good. Thank you for asking. 
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I'm feeling ok though I've probably had one Coke Zero too many.
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02-12-2016, 07:30 PM
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Member
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Female Preferred Pronoun?:
she Relationship Status:
My rainbow is way overdue
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tonight?
60 shades of grey
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02-12-2016, 09:58 PM
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Senior Member
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Femme Preferred Pronoun?:
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That's Need to Know 
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relaxed and comfortable
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02-12-2016, 10:07 PM
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Member
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Lady Sunflower Preferred Pronoun?:
She/her 
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Hot as hell with running fever! lol
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02-12-2016, 10:27 PM
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Practically Lives Here
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Single 
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Tired
Relaxed Missing my girlfriend cuz she's at work |
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02-12-2016, 10:55 PM
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Member
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Butch, Non Binary, Trans, Always Me. :) Join Date: Jan 2013
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...fine...ok...who knows?
...whatever... 
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02-13-2016, 12:50 AM
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[FONT="Comic Sanfeeling kinda numb..turned 55 today. 50 was better. Not sure how I feel but numbs MS"][/FONT]
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02-13-2016, 03:23 AM
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Practically Lives Here
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Queer Stone Femme Girl of the Unicorn Variety Preferred Pronoun?:
She, as in 'She's a GEM'
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02-13-2016, 11:48 PM
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Senior Member
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Fiery, Sassy, Tough As Nails, Femme Tomboy Preferred Pronoun?:
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I am your favorite hello and hardest goodbye. Join Date: Nov 2009
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Very confident!!!
And very happy I accomplished so much on my Saturday.
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02-14-2016, 07:16 AM
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Practically Lives Here
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Queer Stone Femme Girl of the Unicorn Variety Preferred Pronoun?:
She, as in 'She's a GEM'
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I feel fine.
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02-14-2016, 07:32 AM
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Practically Lives Here
How Do You Identify?:
Butch (Silver Fox) Dom Daddi Preferred Pronoun?:
50 Shades of Clay Darker & Deeper Relationship Status:
married to my forever
Join Date: May 2011
Location: salt air & sandy beaches
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Incredibly loved!!!!!
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02-14-2016, 08:43 AM
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Senior Member
How Do You Identify?:
Femme-ish, tomboy lesbian Preferred Pronoun?:
She Relationship Status:
Together a really long time
Join Date: Jan 2016
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I feel very, very free.......... Getting toxic people out of your life makes you take a deep, long breath of fresh air and say ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh........
:koolai d:
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