The Loft: Butches and Femmes in their 40s, 50s and over. - Page 63

Andrew, Jr. · 06-28-2010, 11:46 AM

Hi Everyone! I hope all is well with each of you, and staying cool in this heat wave.

Enjoy your day.

Namaste,
Andrew

Luckydwg07 · 06-28-2010, 06:43 PM

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Originally Posted by ruthie14

I am such an idiot. Apparently I have trouble figuring out if someone is interested in me or not. Been dating this one woman... told me she was interested.. Asked me for dates... flirted.. etc etc.. now she tells me she is not "ready for a relationship". Is she? or is she just NOT interested. We found each other on a dating site for heavens sake. WTF... do I have a sign on my head? Having a stiff drink. My head says its her issue... but the rest of me is thinking there is something wrong with me. I give up.

I've met you Ruthie.....aint nothin wrong with you girl

Some people are just punks Ruthie & don't know their own mind or they are leading people on by have several to pick from the online dating pool and thinks its one of those bachelor shows on tv. Just plain rude!!

ruthie14 · 06-28-2010, 06:50 PM

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Originally Posted by Luckydwg07

I've met you Ruthie.....aint nothin wrong with you girl

Some people are just punks Ruthie & don't know their own mind or they are leading people on by have several to pick from the online dating pool and thinks its one of those bachelor shows on tv. Just plain rude!!

You have no idea how much I needed to hear that tonight. Feeling pretty blue.

Thanks honey

MysticOceansFL · 06-28-2010, 06:53 PM

Just dropping bye to say hello and that I hope everyone is having a great week!

cuddlyfemme · 06-28-2010, 06:55 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by ruthie14

You have no idea how much I needed to hear that tonight. Feeling pretty blue.

Thanks honey

(((((Ruthie))))))

Wryly · 06-28-2010, 07:00 PM

Hey all!
It was a fun and busy weekend - just now able to get on a computer.
Weekend in the country - visiting old friends and making a bunch of new ones. Lots of laughs around the fire. good times.

Ruthie - I know how you feel. It seems I can never figure out what the heck is going on! I hope things work out for you.

IttyBittyFem · 06-29-2010, 03:53 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by ruthie14

I am such an idiot. Apparently I have trouble figuring out if someone is interested in me or not. Been dating this one woman... told me she was interested.. Asked me for dates... flirted.. etc etc.. now she tells me she is not "ready for a relationship". Is she? or is she just NOT interested. We found each other on a dating site for heavens sake. WTF... do I have a sign on my head? Having a stiff drink. My head says its her issue... but the rest of me is thinking there is something wrong with me. I give up.

THERE IS
NOTHING
WRONG WITH YOU

Apparently, you two just didn't click. It happens Ruthie. However, your date was already showing poor signs of communication, so it just may be a good thing how it ended up.

Chalk this one up for experience. Not every single person you meet will work out. There's lots of weeding to be performed prior to walking in the Garden of Love.

I think you're super special and any Butch that's fortunate enough to cross your path, will know that instantly when you're just being you.

ruthie14 · 06-29-2010, 04:12 AM

Thanks folks.. Idk.. I thought we were hitting it off. I questioned her bc her words and her actions were telling me 2 different things. Anyway.. onward. *shrug*

Anybody have any career ideas? I need to change what I am doing. I don't make enough and I am 48 ... need to start trying to save something. Everything I have been able to come up with in the last 2 years either takes too much college... too hard on my back... don't have an apptitude for.. or there is no job market for. I need to figure out something soon. Thanks.

lipstixgal · 06-29-2010, 05:03 AM

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Originally Posted by ruthie14

Thanks folks.. Idk.. I thought we were hitting it off. I questioned her bc her words and her actions were telling me 2 different things. Anyway.. onward. *shrug*

Anybody have any career ideas? I need to change what I am doing. I don't make enough and I am 48 ... need to start trying to save something. Everything I have been able to come up with in the last 2 years either takes too much college... too hard on my back... don't have an apptitude for.. or there is no job market for. I need to figure out something soon. Thanks.

RUTHIE, there is a job market in healthcare. Nursing, medical assistant like I did and should have done nursing instead!! Will go back after I graduate from school want to make some money first. but you can't go wrong with the healthcare field its booming, just my .02 cents worth. Anyway, good morning lofters have a great day everyone!! sets out tea

and coffee

06-29-2010, 05:21 AM

G'day Lofters one and all.

I hope everyone had a fantastic weekend, there's been some proper sunshine and temperatures here in the UK for the last couple of weeks so Mrs.Incubus and I have spent the weekend whipping the garden back into shape and enjoying getting nekkid in the sun - the most enjoyable way of getting one's vitamin D!

Oooooh the vagaries of dating, keep kissing frogs Ruthie because eventually you'll find a lovely froggy to share a lily pad with.

Andrew, Jr. · 06-29-2010, 11:55 AM

Good Afternoon All!

I hope everyone is enjoying themselves today. I just wanted to jump on by here and say hello.

Ruthie,

Please ignore that person. You are a gem! Never forget that. Some lucky guy will be thrilled to have you on his arm!

Andrew

miss entycing · 06-29-2010, 12:08 PM

afternoon everyone

got home safe and sound from the cross country drive to Seattle...
tired, road weary and emotionally drained, but no speeding tickets, not sure how that happened, lol..... !
(have I mentioned how much I LOVEEEEE my new Camaro?)

hope everyone has been doing well, and has had a good past week-

Rockinonahigh · 06-29-2010, 03:46 PM

Afternoon everyone,hope ur day is going well.IT"S raining hear....yes!!! Every sence last night its been thundering,lightning,blowing wind and feels so good standing out in.Yep,I did that..even my fur kids injoyed a walk in the rain.

ruthie...I know how u feel about the probs in dateing as well as ppl showing one thing and saying another,we have all had this happen in one way or another.Beleave me finding out now is better than later.

cuddlyfemme · 06-29-2010, 04:03 PM

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Originally Posted by EntycingFemme

afternoon everyone

got home safe and sound from the cross country drive to Seattle...
tired, road weary and emotionally drained, but no speeding tickets, not sure how that happened, lol..... !
(have I mentioned how much I LOVEEEEE my new Camaro?)

hope everyone has been doing well, and has had a good past week-

hey sweetie, its great to see you back. i know what you mean about loving your new camaro...i love it too lol

ruthie14 · 06-29-2010, 05:14 PM

ok ... "She" and i had left it as friends right. So today I invite her to a 4th of July party I'm having on Sat. She turns me down, so I ask her... we are still gonna see each other as friends yes? She gets sarcastic... mean actually... and NO not friends. Really? she was the one who wanted to be friends again... OMG .. She was hurtful.. I am better off without her.. but ouch.. it still hurts. I am having trouble with "this" version of her and the one I saw the rest of the time. Dodged a bullet for sure.. Jeeze I sure can pick them.

Jet · 06-29-2010, 05:48 PM

Quick fly by
have a good one

ruthie14 · 06-30-2010, 04:15 AM

Tired today but just have one job to work so i should be able to rest tonight. Feeling better about things and myself. Not one to stay down long, life is wayyyyyyyyyy to short for that.

Anybody know anything about being an ultrasound tech? Gonna see if there is a job market for that around here.

Have a wonderful day friends!

Ruthie

lipstixgal · 06-30-2010, 05:14 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by ruthie14

Tired today but just have one job to work so i should be able to rest tonight. Feeling better about things and myself. Not one to stay down long, life is wayyyyyyyyyy to short for that.

Anybody know anything about being an ultrasound tech? Gonna see if there is a job market for that around here.

Have a wonderful day friends!

Ruthie

Ultrasound tech there are plenty of jobs in that area at least up north NJ. In fact there is a school in clifton that is starting classes in JUly 2010. YOu should definitely look into that or nursing. That's what I'm gonna do after I move out of NJ, look for schools of nursing in the state I'm living in. good luck Ruthie!!

cuddlyfemme · 06-30-2010, 10:37 AM

Hi Lofters! I hope everyone is having a good day. I'm really sleepy, I kept waking up in the middle of the night

*Magic_and_Silk* · 06-30-2010, 10:52 AM

Good Morning!

I had a wonderful morning.

And, I smell good...Nag Champa lotion!

Have a great day!

06-28-2010, 11:46 AM	#1241
Andrew, Jr. Timed Out How Do You Identify?: Me Preferred Pronoun?: He Relationship Status: Unavailable Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Over the Rainbow in a House Posts: 5,072 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 16,004 Thanked 5,249 Times in 2,216 Posts Rep Power: 0	Just a quick drive by hello Hi Everyone! I hope all is well with each of you, and staying cool in this heat wave. Enjoy your day. Namaste, Andrew

06-28-2010, 06:53 PM	#1244
MysticOceansFL Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Butch, Preferred Pronoun?: People call me by my nic name. Relationship Status: Not Single, Not Desperate. Join Date: Jun 2010 Location: Florida Posts: 3,833 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 4,645 Thanked 4,035 Times in 1,720 Posts Rep Power: 21474853	Dropping bye Just dropping bye to say hello and that I hope everyone is having a great week!

06-29-2010, 12:08 PM	#1252
miss entycing Senior Member How Do You Identify?: dangerous, but worth the risk. Preferred Pronoun?: just be nice.. it's that easy. Relationship Status: CapitalM's carved upon my skin. Join Date: Jan 2010 Location: on the southern edge of sanity, under a carolina moon. Posts: 3,276 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 8,341 Thanked 8,262 Times in 2,255 Posts Rep Power: 21474854	afternoon everyone got home safe and sound from the cross country drive to Seattle... tired, road weary and emotionally drained, but no speeding tickets, not sure how that happened, lol..... ! (have I mentioned how much I LOVEEEEE my new Camaro?) hope everyone has been doing well, and has had a good past week- __________________ True strength lies in submission which permits one to dedicate their life, through devotion, to something beyond themselves. Whenever someone awakens fully, it affects human consciousness at a collective level. It is like dropping a stone into a dark murky pond. Ripples of light... Not one word need be spoken.

06-30-2010, 10:52 AM	#1260
Magic_and_Silk Member How Do You Identify?: femme with a fetish for beautiful dresses. Preferred Pronoun?: she, her, Miss, girl, Red... Relationship Status: single Join Date: Apr 2010 Location: Show Low, AZ Posts: 229 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 118 Thanked 242 Times in 115 Posts Rep Power: 315	@}>---`---- Good Morning! I had a wonderful morning. And, I smell good...Nag Champa lotion! Have a great day! __________________ ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ My joy in life comes from the Journey.

06-28-2010, 07:00 PM	#1246
Wryly Member How Do You Identify?: bemused butch Preferred Pronoun?: polite ones, please Relationship Status: single butch Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: my little butch house Posts: 988 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 2,789 Thanked 1,568 Times in 620 Posts Rep Power: 14094253	Hey all! It was a fun and busy weekend - just now able to get on a computer. Weekend in the country - visiting old friends and making a bunch of new ones. Lots of laughs around the fire. good times. Ruthie - I know how you feel. It seems I can never figure out what the heck is going on! I hope things work out for you.

06-29-2010, 04:12 AM	#1248
ruthie14 Member How Do You Identify?: femme Preferred Pronoun?: she Join Date: Feb 2010 Location: NJ Posts: 844 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 1,904 Thanked 1,243 Times in 461 Posts Rep Power: 5731586	Thanks folks.. Idk.. I thought we were hitting it off. I questioned her bc her words and her actions were telling me 2 different things. Anyway.. onward. shrug Anybody have any career ideas? I need to change what I am doing. I don't make enough and I am 48 ... need to start trying to save something. Everything I have been able to come up with in the last 2 years either takes too much college... too hard on my back... don't have an apptitude for.. or there is no job market for. I need to figure out something soon. Thanks.

06-29-2010, 05:21 AM	#1250
Daktari Guest Tournaments Won: 1 Posts: n/a My Photo Gallery	G'day Lofters one and all. I hope everyone had a fantastic weekend, there's been some proper sunshine and temperatures here in the UK for the last couple of weeks so Mrs.Incubus and I have spent the weekend whipping the garden back into shape and enjoying getting nekkid in the sun - the most enjoyable way of getting one's vitamin D! Oooooh the vagaries of dating, keep kissing frogs Ruthie because eventually you'll find a lovely froggy to share a lily pad with.

06-29-2010, 11:55 AM	#1251
Andrew, Jr. Timed Out How Do You Identify?: Me Preferred Pronoun?: He Relationship Status: Unavailable Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Over the Rainbow in a House Posts: 5,072 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 16,004 Thanked 5,249 Times in 2,216 Posts Rep Power: 0	Good Afternoon All! I hope everyone is enjoying themselves today. I just wanted to jump on by here and say hello. Ruthie, Please ignore that person. You are a gem! Never forget that. Some lucky guy will be thrilled to have you on his arm! Andrew

06-29-2010, 03:46 PM	#1253
Rockinonahigh Senior Member How Do You Identify?: stone butch Preferred Pronoun?: makes no diffrence,I know who I am. Relationship Status: single,maybe looking if the right person comes along. Join Date: Dec 2009 Location: shreveport,Louisiana Posts: 4,907 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 4,682 Thanked 14,937 Times in 3,936 Posts Rep Power: 21474855	Afternoon everyone,hope ur day is going well.IT"S raining hear....yes!!! Every sence last night its been thundering,lightning,blowing wind and feels so good standing out in.Yep,I did that..even my fur kids injoyed a walk in the rain. ruthie...I know how u feel about the probs in dateing as well as ppl showing one thing and saying another,we have all had this happen in one way or another.Beleave me finding out now is better than later.

06-29-2010, 05:14 PM	#1255
ruthie14 Member How Do You Identify?: femme Preferred Pronoun?: she Join Date: Feb 2010 Location: NJ Posts: 844 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 1,904 Thanked 1,243 Times in 461 Posts Rep Power: 5731586	ok ... "She" and i had left it as friends right. So today I invite her to a 4th of July party I'm having on Sat. She turns me down, so I ask her... we are still gonna see each other as friends yes? She gets sarcastic... mean actually... and NO not friends. Really? she was the one who wanted to be friends again... OMG .. She was hurtful.. I am better off without her.. but ouch.. it still hurts. I am having trouble with "this" version of her and the one I saw the rest of the time. Dodged a bullet for sure.. Jeeze I sure can pick them.

06-29-2010, 05:48 PM	#1256
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06-30-2010, 04:15 AM	#1257
ruthie14 Member How Do You Identify?: femme Preferred Pronoun?: she Join Date: Feb 2010 Location: NJ Posts: 844 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 1,904 Thanked 1,243 Times in 461 Posts Rep Power: 5731586	Tired today but just have one job to work so i should be able to rest tonight. Feeling better about things and myself. Not one to stay down long, life is wayyyyyyyyyy to short for that. Anybody know anything about being an ultrasound tech? Gonna see if there is a job market for that around here. Have a wonderful day friends! Ruthie

06-30-2010, 10:37 AM	#1259
cuddlyfemme Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Stone Femme Preferred Pronoun?: her/she Relationship Status: single Join Date: Jun 2010 Location: South Carolina Posts: 2,271 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 717 Thanked 2,452 Times in 1,270 Posts Rep Power: 11496121	Hi Lofters! I hope everyone is having a good day. I'm really sleepy, I kept waking up in the middle of the night