FAT LINKS (aka snausages)

nycfem · 09-22-2011, 07:14 PM

I thought I'd start a thread just for cool fat positive blogs or links. A central place to go for celebrating one's fat, political, badass self! Please include a description with the link unless you are feeling lazy.

Here is a fave of mine to start things off:

http://www.therotund.com/

This is a blog by Marianne Kirby. The description reads:

I'm on a mission here to let you know that fat people are not your enemy. And skinny people aren't your enemy either.

Here, the body is a political one no matter its size or shape. We are going to unpack society's standards of beauty, the oppression of the dominant social paradigm when it comes to body conformity, and talk about clothes. Maybe even makeup. Because I do love makeup.

Here, I hope, we will come to a place of acceptance. Acceptance for our own bodies and for the bodies of others.

dykeumentary · 09-22-2011, 08:27 PM

Here are some of my favorites:

http://queerfatfemme.com/

http://alysiaangel.blogspot.com/

http://intimatevolution.hubpages.com/hub/fat-femme

So sexy!

dykeumentary · 10-10-2011, 11:23 AM

http://www.giovannisroom.com/event/reading-hanne-blank

Anyone want to go to this with me?

"A comprehensive guide on the how-tos and why-tos of love, romance, and great big sexuality for everyone--regardless of gender or orientation--from the chubby to the supersized.
"Big Big Love" is the only handbook on sex, sexuality, and sexual self-confidence for people who know that a love life isn't dictated by the number on a bathroom scale. Covering the ins and outs of sex toys, sex aids, and positions for larger lovers, this guide also takes on tricky topics like the fear of being seen naked and living in a culture where no body is ever perfect enough. Featuring advice on medical issues and activism, along with expert interviews on topics like fat-admirer culture, "Big Big Love" tackles every hot-button issue people of size will confront in the bedroom and in love."

Apocalipstic · 10-10-2011, 11:36 AM

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Originally Posted by dykeumentary

http://www.giovannisroom.com/event/reading-hanne-blank

Anyone want to go to this with me?

"A comprehensive guide on the how-tos and why-tos of love, romance, and great big sexuality for everyone--regardless of gender or orientation--from the chubby to the supersized.
"Big Big Love" is the only handbook on sex, sexuality, and sexual self-confidence for people who know that a love life isn't dictated by the number on a bathroom scale. Covering the ins and outs of sex toys, sex aids, and positions for larger lovers, this guide also takes on tricky topics like the fear of being seen naked and living in a culture where no body is ever perfect enough. Featuring advice on medical issues and activism, along with expert interviews on topics like fat-admirer culture, "Big Big Love" tackles every hot-button issue people of size will confront in the bedroom and in love."

Is it a convention? The book sounds awesome.

dykeumentary · 10-10-2011, 11:53 AM

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Originally Posted by Apocalipstic

Is it a convention? The book sounds awesome.

I think it's a book signing tonight.

Apocalipstic · 10-10-2011, 12:14 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by dykeumentary

I think it's a book signing tonight.

If I lived closer I would go! I hope you have a great time

!!

1QuirkyKiwi · 10-10-2011, 12:27 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by dykeumentary

http://www.giovannisroom.com/event/reading-hanne-blank

Anyone want to go to this with me?

"A comprehensive guide on the how-tos and why-tos of love, romance, and great big sexuality for everyone--regardless of gender or orientation--from the chubby to the supersized.
"Big Big Love" is the only handbook on sex, sexuality, and sexual self-confidence for people who know that a love life isn't dictated by the number on a bathroom scale. Covering the ins and outs of sex toys, sex aids, and positions for larger lovers, this guide also takes on tricky topics like the fear of being seen naked and living in a culture where no body is ever perfect enough. Featuring advice on medical issues and activism, along with expert interviews on topics like fat-admirer culture, "Big Big Love" tackles every hot-button issue people of size will confront in the bedroom and in love."

I bought the book as a "How to enjoy Me" for my Ex. She never readit, so, I kept it, lol!

nycfem · 11-27-2011, 12:30 AM

Here's a good article from MORE magazine:

Fat? Who Cares! Why Weight Doesn't Matter

http://www.more.com/weight-loss-diet-myth

Martina · 01-31-2012, 04:24 PM

This looks good. A teleconference on Fat Acceptance over two months. Hanne Blank on fat sex. Free.

Link

Link2

dark_crystal · 03-29-2012, 01:48 PM

this link looks messy, but this was a good list

top 50 self acceptance blogs

Ginger · 04-06-2012, 08:25 PM

"A 2008 study, done by Harvard researchers, looked into the effects of physical activity and body mass index on coronary heart disease and found that overweight women who walked more than four hours a week had a significantly lower risk of heart disease than those who didn’t exercise. This says to me that the most important risk factor isn’t being fat; it’s being sedentary."

http://www.more.com/weight-loss-diet-myth?page=2

OMG...talk about a paradym shift!

09-22-2011, 07:14 PM	#1
nycfem Moderator How Do You Identify?: femme sub Preferred Pronoun?: Baby Grrl Relationship Status: Attached Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: NYC Posts: 6,768 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 52,831 Thanked 21,717 Times in 5,082 Posts Rep Power: 21474857	FAT LINKS (aka snausages) I thought I'd start a thread just for cool fat positive blogs or links. A central place to go for celebrating one's fat, political, badass self! Please include a description with the link unless you are feeling lazy. Here is a fave of mine to start things off: http://www.therotund.com/ This is a blog by Marianne Kirby. The description reads: I'm on a mission here to let you know that fat people are not your enemy. And skinny people aren't your enemy either. Here, the body is a political one no matter its size or shape. We are going to unpack society's standards of beauty, the oppression of the dominant social paradigm when it comes to body conformity, and talk about clothes. Maybe even makeup. Because I do love makeup. Here, I hope, we will come to a place of acceptance. Acceptance for our own bodies and for the bodies of others.

09-22-2011, 08:27 PM	#2
dykeumentary Member How Do You Identify?: butch dyke Join Date: Jan 2010 Location: NJ Posts: 449 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 341 Thanked 1,547 Times in 359 Posts Rep Power: 19160662	Here are some of my favorites: http://queerfatfemme.com/ http://alysiaangel.blogspot.com/ http://intimatevolution.hubpages.com/hub/fat-femme So sexy! __________________ The Origins of Butch & Femme (a retelling): https://youtu.be/U7VkXpZl4Mk Watch more of my funny butch/femme movies here: https://www.youtube.com/dykeumentary1

10-10-2011, 11:23 AM	#3
dykeumentary Member How Do You Identify?: butch dyke Join Date: Jan 2010 Location: NJ Posts: 449 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 341 Thanked 1,547 Times in 359 Posts Rep Power: 19160662	http://www.giovannisroom.com/event/reading-hanne-blank Anyone want to go to this with me? "A comprehensive guide on the how-tos and why-tos of love, romance, and great big sexuality for everyone--regardless of gender or orientation--from the chubby to the supersized. "Big Big Love" is the only handbook on sex, sexuality, and sexual self-confidence for people who know that a love life isn't dictated by the number on a bathroom scale. Covering the ins and outs of sex toys, sex aids, and positions for larger lovers, this guide also takes on tricky topics like the fear of being seen naked and living in a culture where no body is ever perfect enough. Featuring advice on medical issues and activism, along with expert interviews on topics like fat-admirer culture, "Big Big Love" tackles every hot-button issue people of size will confront in the bedroom and in love." __________________ The Origins of Butch & Femme (a retelling): https://youtu.be/U7VkXpZl4Mk Watch more of my funny butch/femme movies here: https://www.youtube.com/dykeumentary1

03-29-2012, 01:48 PM	#10
dark_crystal Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: jenny Preferred Pronoun?: babygirl Relationship Status: First Lady of the United SMH Join Date: Jan 2010 Location: Houston, Texas Posts: 5,445 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 1,532 Thanked 26,589 Times in 4,691 Posts Rep Power: 21474856	this link looks messy, but this was a good list top 50 self acceptance blogs __________________

04-06-2012, 08:25 PM	#11
Ginger Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Femme lesbian Join Date: Mar 2012 Location: East coast Posts: 2,416 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 5,829 Thanked 12,309 Times in 2,057 Posts Rep Power: 21474851	Being Sedentary—the "real" risk factor "A 2008 study, done by Harvard researchers, looked into the effects of physical activity and body mass index on coronary heart disease and found that overweight women who walked more than four hours a week had a significantly lower risk of heart disease than those who didn’t exercise. This says to me that the most important risk factor isn’t being fat; it’s being sedentary." http://www.more.com/weight-loss-diet-myth?page=2 OMG...talk about a paradym shift!

11-27-2011, 12:30 AM	#8
nycfem Moderator How Do You Identify?: femme sub Preferred Pronoun?: Baby Grrl Relationship Status: Attached Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: NYC Posts: 6,768 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 52,831 Thanked 21,717 Times in 5,082 Posts Rep Power: 21474857	Here's a good article from MORE magazine: *Fat? Who Cares! Why Weight Doesn't Matter* http://www.more.com/weight-loss-diet-myth

01-31-2012, 04:24 PM	#9
Martina Senior Member How Do You Identify?: * Join Date: Feb 2010 Location: * Posts: 4,999 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 13,409 Thanked 18,366 Times in 4,171 Posts Rep Power: 21474854	This looks good. A teleconference on Fat Acceptance over two months. Hanne Blank on fat sex. Free. Link Link2