The Need to Know

Nina · 02-24-2010, 04:34 PM

So...I was thinking that we should have a place to ask things we 'need to know'...something which crosses our mind and needs to be clarified... a place where we can check in with fellow planet-eers and see what they think...
let's be careful not to judge harshly the questions (or the question-eers)...we could have a bit of fun and, maybe even, satisfy the need to know...

I'll start :

if someone calls me " a hot mess" it means they think I'm hot, and want to mess around, right?

in the need to know,

neen

Apocalipstic · 02-24-2010, 04:59 PM

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Originally Posted by Neen

So...I was thinking that we should have a place to ask things we 'need to know'...something which crosses our mind and needs to be clarified... a place where we can check in with fellow planet-eers and see what they think...
let's be careful not to judge harshly the questions (or the question-eers)...we could have a bit of fun and, maybe even, satisfy the need to know...

I'll start :

if someone calls me " a hot mess" it means they think I'm hot, and want to mess around, right?

in the need to know,

neen

The first time I heard "Hot Mess", it was in Memphis. It was used in a "you seem to be a mess and need to pull yourself together" way.

It also could be said in a flirtation....."you are a hot mess, let me fix you up" way.

It may mean something else in different parts of the country.

DapperButch · 02-24-2010, 05:30 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Neen

So...I was thinking that we should have a place to ask things we 'need to know'...something which crosses our mind and needs to be clarified... a place where we can check in with fellow planet-eers and see what they think...
let's be careful not to judge harshly the questions (or the question-eers)...we could have a bit of fun and, maybe even, satisfy the need to know...

I'll start :

if someone calls me " a hot mess" it means they think I'm hot, and want to mess around, right?

in the need to know,

neen

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Originally Posted by apocalipstic

The first time I heard "Hot Mess", it was in Memphis. It was used in a "you seem to be a mess and need to pull yourself together" way.

It also could be said in a flirtation....."you are a hot mess, let me fix you up" way.

It may mean something else in different parts of the country.

See, and when it has been said to me I have just taken it to mean that the person finds you hot, and that maybe they are feeling a bit *hot under the collar*, at that moment (due to you). Yes, a flirtation...may just be in fun...not them actually seeking anything sexual from you.

The_Lady_Snow · 02-24-2010, 05:42 PM

Here up on the North Side of Columbus when someone says

"Gurllllll, you are a hot mess"

It basically means you are fuckin up and get your head out cho ass before I come slap some sense into you...

Gemme · 02-24-2010, 06:25 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Neen

So...I was thinking that we should have a place to ask things we 'need to know'...something which crosses our mind and needs to be clarified... a place where we can check in with fellow planet-eers and see what they think...
let's be careful not to judge harshly the questions (or the question-eers)...we could have a bit of fun and, maybe even, satisfy the need to know...

I'll start :

if someone calls me " a hot mess" it means they think I'm hot, and want to mess around, right?

in the need to know,

neen

Up here in the PNW, it basically means what Snow and apocalipstic said, that whoever is being told that is messed up in one way or another (looking all sloppy and still hungover from the night before...tweeking out on something...generally messing their life up...etc). A 'hot' mess is more dire than just being 'a mess'. So, if someone says you are a hot mess, and they are not teasing (whether flirting or friendly), then it means you have some problems which are VERY evident to others.

Daywalker · 02-24-2010, 06:25 PM

Why?

cinderella · 02-24-2010, 06:27 PM

If water came in powdered form, what would you mix it with?
Piss and vodka do not count...

SuperFemme · 02-24-2010, 06:44 PM

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Originally Posted by cinderella

If water came in powdered form, what would you mix it with?
Piss and vodka do not count...

well. then it wouldn't be H20 at all, would it?

SuperFemme · 02-24-2010, 06:45 PM

uh oh. hot mess is bad?

DapperButch · 02-24-2010, 07:16 PM

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Originally Posted by SuperFemme

uh oh. hot mess is bad?

That's what I was thinking....

Gemme · 02-24-2010, 07:50 PM

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Originally Posted by SuperFemme

uh oh. hot mess is bad?

Yeppers.

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Originally Posted by DapperButch

That's what I was thinking....

Bingo!

weatherboi · 02-24-2010, 07:59 PM

[ame="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AXBFun0ijYQ"]YouTube- Cobra Starship - Hot Mess [OFFICIAL VIDEO][/ame]

SuperFemme · 02-24-2010, 08:01 PM

oh hell.

Ryobi · 02-24-2010, 08:02 PM

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Originally Posted by The_Lady_Snow

Here up on the North Side of Columbus when someone says

"Gurllllll, you are a hot mess"

It basically means you are fuckin up and get your head out cho ass before I come slap some sense into you...

It means pretty much that here too, if said one female to another.

Otherwise, it means "pretty to look at but, wouldn't wanna 'deal' with it." used most often like the second, in these parts.

sweetcali · 02-24-2010, 08:03 PM

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Originally Posted by SuperFemme

oh hell.

Yeah what she said.

sweetcali

SassyLeo · 02-24-2010, 08:07 PM

in my world...we kinda use it 2 ways

the same as others...someone is a "hot mess" if they are screwing up, making stupid decisions, acting ridiculously, have crazy issues, and drama.

and also, along those lines about someone who is hot, as in attractive.

a friend might say to me: girl, that butch TJ , she is so fucking sexy and funny, i'd totally date her, but she is a hot mess

SuperFemme · 02-24-2010, 08:11 PM

Well of COURSE nobody wants to deal with me.
See my avatar? I took that pic last week. My winter skin is so dry it's a hot mess.

weatherboi · 02-24-2010, 08:18 PM

this song sucks and is a hot mess!!!

[nomedia="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8r9UNiw9WAY"]YouTube- Ashley Tisdale - Hot Mess (Full Song)[/nomedia]

Apocalipstic · 02-25-2010, 09:15 AM

Hot Mess could be used in a fond way I guess....

You are a hot mess, but you are MY hot mess?

02-24-2010, 04:34 PM	#1
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02-25-2010, 09:15 AM	#19
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SuperFemme Timed Out How Do You Identify?: Permanently Banned 10/24/2010 Preferred Pronoun?: She. Relationship Status: Married (one of 18,000) Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Atascadero, CA Posts: 4,933 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 2,309 Thanked 7,109 Times in 2,327 Posts Rep Power: 0	Well of COURSE nobody wants to deal with me. See my avatar? I took that pic last week. My winter skin is so dry it's a hot mess.

02-24-2010, 08:18 PM	#18
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