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Nat you pose interesting questions. The idea of identity is always muddled if we don’t stop and examine who and what we are. I look female does this make me one? No. My idea of who I am is what makes me who and what I am. We live our identity and it is not what society deems worthy of handing to us. There is a constant search for who we are, if we decide to go looking for the names. The names we find are more for others to grab onto so they better understand us or me.
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The idea of identity is within the human spirit. We are all as different as night and day. Our identities will never match up. You and I may both like tomato soup. You might like more salt or pepper. You can’t really know how tomato soup tastes to me. So how would it ever be possible for you to really know who I am? I guess this concept is what makes these identities we carry around illusion. Does the idea of identity really keep us from being authentic or does it make us more authentic as it whispers to others how we define our being in words. I could say I identify and a woman. Well this helps make me more tangible. I can add I am queer. Now you know more as do I because this was something I learned about myself. I am therefore more authentic to me and to you. We can take the search even father and find more terms that can identify us as well. Quote:
Now in my search in today’s language I can define this so I am more authentic to you and me. I can truly hang a name on my identity. Does it matter not really because I am who I am. Through my search I can tell so much and you would know me better. I would be more authentic. Quote:
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Neither it promotes better understanding which can unite or divide depending on who is listening. It offers me a chance to tell you what it is like being me and who me really is or as closely as the words can get us. It takes away the mystery because I had to seek the words and the definitions. We are always in flux or I am but most of wht I would say about me is true enough of the time to be honest. Never, I have sought knowledge of self and this opens doors to realities I never knew existed. Quote:
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10-04-2017, 12:13 AM | #42 |
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I'm very authentic.. and genuine. That's the best way to be in my opinion. The people you attract by being your true self are the ones who like you for who you really are.
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