The Loft: Butches and Femmes in their 40s, 50s and over. - Page 140

WingsOnFire · 05-27-2012, 08:28 PM

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Originally Posted by OS Butch

LOL! I bet it is like some buildings don't use the 13 in elevators....Maybe Oregon city has decided ya'll don't need to use Mondays

I would happily take Monday's off and consider it the twilight zone...

ruthie14 · 05-27-2012, 09:33 PM

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Originally Posted by OS Butch

Another hot one here in DC. Thunderstorms are on their way and power outages are being reported. In my neighborhood it has yet to arrive, though there were 3 water main breaks, so I am without water.

I hope everyone has had a great weekend and Happy Memorial Day tomorrow. Thank a Soldier!

lol Friends of mine were at the White house for the memorial day concert. They start evacuating because of thunderstorms that were on their way. Never heard if they actually stopped the concert. We were laughing because they said that the hot dog vendor was still there and selling hot dogs so everything MUST be ok! lol

Hope everyone is having a great holiday weekend.

Ruthie

ruthie14 · 05-28-2012, 10:29 AM

Having a rough day. Too much stress... Friends think that my job is going to force me out somehow because of all the recent events. Workmans comp I have NOT heard from. Surgery is suppose to be june 13... worse case is that workmans comp and ins company refuse to pay which means I will have to pay for all the tests up to this point and cancel the surgery I need. I HATE my job! Aunt is giving my mom a hard time about moving into an assisted living place nearby. She is driving her room mate crazy, falling a lot, yelling etc. My mother has had to take over her finanaces and has been traveling to her place way too often. It's too far for her and I can't help her much. We want to place her closer to us, but she is going to fight it tooth and nail. I feel like I can't talk too much about my job and maybe losing it bc my Mom is under enough stress. Not sure if I can get a different job with my hand and arm the way they are. Going to have to try though. When all is settled with work/arm situation... I am sooooooooooooo out! Sigh... so wishing I had a partner right now. I am usually ok with my single status... but right now, I could use cuddle!!!

Ruthie

Okiebug61 · 05-28-2012, 11:40 AM

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Originally Posted by ruthie14

Having a rough day. Too much stress... Friends think that my job is going to force me out somehow because of all the recent events. Workmans comp I have NOT heard from. Surgery is suppose to be june 13... worse case is that workmans comp and ins company refuse to pay which means I will have to pay for all the tests up to this point and cancel the surgery I need. I HATE my job! Aunt is giving my mom a hard time about moving into an assisted living place nearby. She is driving her room mate crazy, falling a lot, yelling etc. My mother has had to take over her finanaces and has been traveling to her place way too often. It's too far for her and I can't help her much. We want to place her closer to us, but she is going to fight it tooth and nail. I feel like I can't talk too much about my job and maybe losing it bc my Mom is under enough stress. Not sure if I can get a different job with my hand and arm the way they are. Going to have to try though. When all is settled with work/arm situation... I am sooooooooooooo out! Sigh... so wishing I had a partner right now. I am usually ok with my single status... but right now, I could use cuddle!!!

Ruthie

How about a virtual BFPlanet Hug from us all. ((((((((((((((((((Ruthie)))))))))))))))). Hope things get better soon.

cuddlyfemme · 05-28-2012, 12:40 PM

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Originally Posted by MidnightBlueEyes

I hope you are doing well cuddlyfemme.. I have missed you too!!! I miss you in the daddy house too.. I hope that you get over your culture shock really soon!! I know I am just finally settling into Oregon although I do like it here alot.

Thanks sweetie, I hope I get over my culture shock too but at least I'll try to remain connected even with the shock ((((MBE))))

cuddlyfemme · 05-28-2012, 12:40 PM

Happy Memorial Day!!!!

morningstar55 · 05-28-2012, 05:56 PM

(((((((((((((((((((((

Ruthieee poohss

)))))))))))))))))))))))

Licious · 05-28-2012, 06:01 PM

Hi Lofters! Happy Memorial Day. *hugs for Ruthie*

Have a good week everyone.

ruthie14 · 05-28-2012, 07:06 PM

Thanks everyone. I will keep you posted. Mom takes aunt home tomorrow and mom will be at her boyfriends tomorrow night. So after I work my second job I will have the house to myself and a little peace and quiet. I need it!!

OS Butch · 05-28-2012, 08:00 PM

Good evening everyone and sending more hugs to Ruthie!

Ruthie, I thought I had a tough day, I only had to cook for 13! I hope you enjoy your peace and quiet.

It is early to bed for me, back to work after this long weekend, it is gonna be hot work, but hey, I got a really nice farmers tan going...If everyone does a rain dance, I might be off another day

morningstar55 · 05-29-2012, 05:50 AM

morning lofters

ruthie14 · 05-29-2012, 05:29 PM

Talked to workman's comp today. Had to cancel surgery for now. Have to wait on them to make a decision on whether or not they will cover it before I can move forward. Did I tell you I hate my job? Just want all this done and over with so I can move on! I finally have a couple possibilities and now this! Jeeze!

BrownEyedAngel · 05-29-2012, 07:04 PM

Hate to hear that Ruthie.....hope things get better soon...

ruthie14 · 05-31-2012, 04:16 AM

Had 2nd acupuncture treatment. She got a release out of my wrist. Feeling a lot better. The acupuncture is working far better than anything else. She thought at first I would need 10 treatments, but now she thinks just 4! I'm going to have her work on my neck and back next!! This is totally awesome!!

Have a wonderful thursday friends!
Ruthie

morningstar55 · 05-31-2012, 04:56 AM

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Originally Posted by ruthie14

Had 2nd acupuncture treatment. She got a release out of my wrist. Feeling a lot better. The acupuncture is working far better than anything else. She thought at first I would need 10 treatments, but now she thinks just 4! I'm going to have her work on my neck and back next!! This is totally awesome!!

Have a wonderful thursday friends!
Ruthie

ha, thats good news Ruth ..

i thought about acupuncture , for stress , and such...

goood morning Loft dwellers and peekers

OS Butch · 05-31-2012, 05:38 AM

Good morning MS.What are you up to today?

Looks like a grand day here in the Nation's Capitol

morningstar55 · 05-31-2012, 06:00 AM

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Originally Posted by OS Butch

Good morning MS.What are you up to today?

Looks like a grand day here in the Nation's Capitol

morning OS ...

...... im up to doing some home projects and getting myself set up for some painting, for that womens fest and dyke picnic thingie here at the end of JUne... I need to get to Home depot for some more slate rock tiles , this weekend a friend and I are going rock hunting

I can't believe all the sponsers and venders they have already its a 1st annual fest. rent space is only $30 and dead line is june 15th .. soo i need to get busy wish you could join me with some of your glass stuffs.

morningstar55 · 05-31-2012, 06:47 PM

evening Lofters
i made a bunch of these banana splits for the birthday girls and well had some extra ones...

help yours before they melt... heh

OS Butch · 05-31-2012, 07:02 PM

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Originally Posted by morningstar55

morning OS ...

...... im up to doing some home projects and getting myself set up for some painting, for that womens fest and dyke picnic thingie here at the end of JUne... I need to get to Home depot for some more slate rock tiles , this weekend a friend and I are going rock hunting

I can't believe all the sponsers and venders they have already its a 1st annual fest. rent space is only $30 and dead line is june 15th .. soo i need to get busy wish you could join me with some of your glass stuffs.

It would be fun. Too bad I have to work to pay bills. I would much rather work on my glass art! Good luck!

OS Butch · 05-31-2012, 07:03 PM

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Originally Posted by morningstar55

evening Lofters
i made a bunch of these banana splits for the birthday girls and well had some extra ones...

help yours before they melt... heh

LOL! My favorite is hot apple pie ala mode

05-28-2012, 05:56 PM	#2787
morningstar55 Senior Member How Do You Identify?: femme,she Preferred Pronoun?: she,her, Relationship Status: very single Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: western NY Posts: 3,809 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 5,280 Thanked 4,241 Times in 1,845 Posts Rep Power: 21474854	(((((((((((((((((((((Ruthieee poohss))))))))))))))))))))))) __________________ -------------------------------------------- life is to short to wake up in the morning with regrets so love the people who treat you right, forget about the ones who dont, and believe that everything happens for a reason. If you get a chance take it... if it changes your life let it.

05-28-2012, 06:01 PM	#2788
Licious Member How Do You Identify?: femme Preferred Pronoun?: she, her Relationship Status: single Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: California Posts: 686 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 3,502 Thanked 1,974 Times in 546 Posts Rep Power: 21474851	Hi Lofters! Happy Memorial Day. hugs for Ruthie Have a good week everyone. __________________ Don’t be satisfied with stories, how things have gone with others. Unfold your own myth. ~Rumi

05-28-2012, 08:00 PM	#2790
OS Butch Member How Do You Identify?: Butch-BLW Preferred Pronoun?: Default-She Relationship Status: Closed Join Date: Dec 2009 Location: Northern Virginia Posts: 636 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 488 Thanked 1,378 Times in 461 Posts Rep Power: 12988703	Good evening everyone and sending more hugs to Ruthie! Ruthie, I thought I had a tough day, I only had to cook for 13! I hope you enjoy your peace and quiet. It is early to bed for me, back to work after this long weekend, it is gonna be hot work, but hey, I got a really nice farmers tan going...If everyone does a rain dance, I might be off another day __________________ You know that place between sleep and awake, the place where you can still remember dreaming? That's where I'll always love you. ~Tinkerbell~

05-29-2012, 05:50 AM	#2791
morningstar55 Senior Member How Do You Identify?: femme,she Preferred Pronoun?: she,her, Relationship Status: very single Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: western NY Posts: 3,809 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 5,280 Thanked 4,241 Times in 1,845 Posts Rep Power: 21474854	morning lofters __________________ -------------------------------------------- life is to short to wake up in the morning with regrets so love the people who treat you right, forget about the ones who dont, and believe that everything happens for a reason. If you get a chance take it... if it changes your life let it.

05-29-2012, 07:04 PM	#2793
BrownEyedAngel Junior Member How Do You Identify?: High Femme Preferred Pronoun?: She, her Relationship Status: 15 years & still in love.... Join Date: May 2012 Location: Benton, AR Posts: 44 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 103 Thanked 98 Times in 27 Posts Rep Power: 1371504	Hate to hear that Ruthie.....hope things get better soon... __________________ Kimbo's Baby Girl

05-28-2012, 10:29 AM	#2783
ruthie14 Member How Do You Identify?: femme Preferred Pronoun?: she Join Date: Feb 2010 Location: NJ Posts: 844 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 1,904 Thanked 1,243 Times in 461 Posts Rep Power: 5731586	Having a rough day. Too much stress... Friends think that my job is going to force me out somehow because of all the recent events. Workmans comp I have NOT heard from. Surgery is suppose to be june 13... worse case is that workmans comp and ins company refuse to pay which means I will have to pay for all the tests up to this point and cancel the surgery I need. I HATE my job! Aunt is giving my mom a hard time about moving into an assisted living place nearby. She is driving her room mate crazy, falling a lot, yelling etc. My mother has had to take over her finanaces and has been traveling to her place way too often. It's too far for her and I can't help her much. We want to place her closer to us, but she is going to fight it tooth and nail. I feel like I can't talk too much about my job and maybe losing it bc my Mom is under enough stress. Not sure if I can get a different job with my hand and arm the way they are. Going to have to try though. When all is settled with work/arm situation... I am sooooooooooooo out! Sigh... so wishing I had a partner right now. I am usually ok with my single status... but right now, I could use cuddle!!! Ruthie

05-28-2012, 12:40 PM	#2786
cuddlyfemme Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Stone Femme Preferred Pronoun?: her/she Relationship Status: single Join Date: Jun 2010 Location: South Carolina Posts: 2,271 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 717 Thanked 2,452 Times in 1,270 Posts Rep Power: 11496121	Happy Memorial Day!!!!

05-28-2012, 07:06 PM	#2789
ruthie14 Member How Do You Identify?: femme Preferred Pronoun?: she Join Date: Feb 2010 Location: NJ Posts: 844 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 1,904 Thanked 1,243 Times in 461 Posts Rep Power: 5731586	Thanks everyone. I will keep you posted. Mom takes aunt home tomorrow and mom will be at her boyfriends tomorrow night. So after I work my second job I will have the house to myself and a little peace and quiet. I need it!!

05-29-2012, 05:29 PM	#2792
ruthie14 Member How Do You Identify?: femme Preferred Pronoun?: she Join Date: Feb 2010 Location: NJ Posts: 844 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 1,904 Thanked 1,243 Times in 461 Posts Rep Power: 5731586	Talked to workman's comp today. Had to cancel surgery for now. Have to wait on them to make a decision on whether or not they will cover it before I can move forward. Did I tell you I hate my job? Just want all this done and over with so I can move on! I finally have a couple possibilities and now this! Jeeze!

05-31-2012, 04:16 AM	#2794
ruthie14 Member How Do You Identify?: femme Preferred Pronoun?: she Join Date: Feb 2010 Location: NJ Posts: 844 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 1,904 Thanked 1,243 Times in 461 Posts Rep Power: 5731586	Had 2nd acupuncture treatment. She got a release out of my wrist. Feeling a lot better. The acupuncture is working far better than anything else. She thought at first I would need 10 treatments, but now she thinks just 4! I'm going to have her work on my neck and back next!! This is totally awesome!! Have a wonderful thursday friends! Ruthie

05-31-2012, 05:38 AM	#2796
OS Butch Member How Do You Identify?: Butch-BLW Preferred Pronoun?: Default-She Relationship Status: Closed Join Date: Dec 2009 Location: Northern Virginia Posts: 636 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 488 Thanked 1,378 Times in 461 Posts Rep Power: 12988703	Good morning MS.What are you up to today? Looks like a grand day here in the Nation's Capitol __________________ You know that place between sleep and awake, the place where you can still remember dreaming? That's where I'll always love you. ~Tinkerbell~

05-31-2012, 06:47 PM	#2798
morningstar55 Senior Member How Do You Identify?: femme,she Preferred Pronoun?: she,her, Relationship Status: very single Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: western NY Posts: 3,809 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 5,280 Thanked 4,241 Times in 1,845 Posts Rep Power: 21474854	evening Lofters i made a bunch of these banana splits for the birthday girls and well had some extra ones... help yours before they melt... heh __________________ -------------------------------------------- life is to short to wake up in the morning with regrets so love the people who treat you right, forget about the ones who dont, and believe that everything happens for a reason. If you get a chance take it... if it changes your life let it.