Do you have a crush on anyone here at The Planet? - Page 311

RebelDyke · 10-17-2019, 11:17 PM

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Originally Posted by JDeere

And if you tell them and they dont feel the same, that hurts. Rejection hurts.

No thanks i stopped crushing and im staying away from things in life that are more realistic.

Everyone is afraid of rejection. Rejection is definitely not pleasant. However, at our ages (1. we should all be acting like adults here) we should be able to say "I am flattered but I do not feel the same way", and guess what....we all go about our day. We can choose to drop it and still talk because we value the friendship..... or we can let it eat us up inside, feel like a fool and never speak to that person again.

But stay with me here JDeere....what if they do feel the same way and the both of you have been wasting time not making a move? What if it turns out to be something truly amazing? Is it worth the risk?

JDeere · 10-18-2019, 12:08 AM

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Originally Posted by RebelDyke

Everyone is afraid of rejection. Rejection is definitely not pleasant. However, at our ages (1. we should all be acting like adults here) we should be able to say "I am flattered but I do not feel the same way", and guess what....we all go about our day. We can choose to drop it and still talk because we value the friendship..... or we can let it eat us up inside, feel like a fool and never speak to that person again.

But stay with me here JDeere....what if they do feel the same way and the both of you have been wasting time not making a move? What if it turns out to be something truly amazing? Is it worth the risk?

😆at adults. Oh my sides hurt from laughing.

If they feel the same then go for it. But that's no guarantee it will turn out to be amazing or worth the risk.

RebelDyke · 10-18-2019, 12:10 AM

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Originally Posted by JDeere

😆at adults. Oh my sides hurt from laughing.

If they feel the same then go for it. But that's no guarantee it will turn out to be amazing or worth the risk.

I never once said it was a guarantee... I asked... if it was worth the risk for taking any chance... Please re-read that post.

lol wish that lil guy wasn't angry

Jedi · 10-18-2019, 02:22 AM

Still crushing hard after all this time.............

C0LLETTE · 10-18-2019, 06:35 AM

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Originally Posted by RebelDyke

I'll pm you my mailing addy... hahah

"Do it trembling if you must, but DO IT!" ~Emmet Fox

lol

RebelDyke · 10-18-2019, 07:44 AM

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Originally Posted by C0LLETTE

"Do it trembling if you must, but DO IT!" ~Emmet Fox

lol

haha. Yes, that quote has gotten me into trouble often. However, I definitely do not regret decisions I have made when I have utilized it. No matter how poorly the results turned out because it meant that I at least tried.

JDeere · 10-18-2019, 11:42 AM

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Originally Posted by RebelDyke

I never once said it was a guarantee... I asked... if it was worth the risk for taking any chance... Please re-read that post.

lol wish that lil guy wasn't angry

😆😆😆i read it 3 times im still laughing at the adult part.

Nothing is guaranteed, this i know. But to me its not worth the risk.

RebelDyke · 10-18-2019, 05:03 PM

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Originally Posted by JDeere

😆😆😆i read it 3 times im still laughing at the adult part.

Nothing is guaranteed, this i know. But to me its not worth the risk.

HAHA JDeere... I can HEAR said laugh of yours in my ear... and now I'm laughing and shaking my head at you...

JDeere · 10-18-2019, 09:07 PM

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Originally Posted by RebelDyke

HAHA JDeere... I can HEAR said laugh of yours in my ear... and now I'm laughing and shaking my head at you...

LOL Im glad I could be of laughing service!

cathexis · 10-19-2019, 01:12 AM

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Originally Posted by Jedi

Still crushing hard after all this time.............

Definitely not alone, Jedi. Got several crushes on BFP and any given time. Shut my eyes, they're right there. Fall asleep, and they appear. Fun, mischief, wild scenes and sex.

Too bad the body areas I expect to have residual sensation are as they were when I fell asleep....too bad!

A close-by hook-up or fwb would be ideal (but alas not likely possible with my partner in convalescence in a relative unfamiliar wee town).

She is as sexually radical as I am, but matching proclivities with a 25 year relationship may take some doing. However, not off the table for a good menage a trio. Would require just a matching of personalities.

RebelDyke · 11-11-2019, 01:28 PM

that is a hard yes. And I am thinking of taking it further.

kittygrrl · 11-11-2019, 01:42 PM

no, i don't...but i am crushing on this

adorable cat

RebelDyke · 11-11-2019, 02:02 PM

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Originally Posted by RebelDyke

that is a hard yes. And I am thinking of taking it further.

JDeere · 11-11-2019, 07:09 PM

Nope unless you count the one on myself! 😆

RebelDyke · 11-11-2019, 07:34 PM

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Originally Posted by JDeere

Nope unless you count the one on myself! 😆

i am not even going to touch that one

JDeere · 11-11-2019, 07:43 PM

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Originally Posted by RebelDyke

i am not even going to touch that one

HAHAHAHAHAHAHA skeered?

Stone-Butch · 11-11-2019, 07:46 PM

If I tell you then you will know. Uh uh.

RebelDyke · 11-11-2019, 07:57 PM

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Originally Posted by Stone-Butch

If I tell you then you will know. Uh uh.

then you should at least tell the one you are crushin on!

RebelDyke · 11-11-2019, 07:58 PM

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Originally Posted by JDeere

HAHAHAHAHAHAHA skeered?

pah lease... i do not scare easily... lookin at that fine print... where does it say I have to touch everything of yours???

FireSignFemme · 11-11-2019, 10:03 PM

10-18-2019, 02:22 AM	#6204
Jedi Member How Do You Identify?: Butch Preferred Pronoun?: she Relationship Status: they are my world Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: In a galaxy far, far away Posts: 959 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 1,002 Thanked 1,763 Times in 549 Posts Rep Power: 12678952	Still crushing hard after all this time............. __________________ May the Force be with you!

11-11-2019, 01:28 PM	#6211
RebelDyke Senior Member How Do You Identify?: butch Preferred Pronoun?: She/Her/Hers...please no male ID..it's insulting Relationship Status: settled and content Join Date: Mar 2011 Location: oz Posts: 2,568 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 4,565 Thanked 3,221 Times in 1,574 Posts Rep Power: 21474852	that is a hard yes. And I am thinking of taking it further. __________________ *"Do it trembling if you must, but DO IT!" ~Emmet Fox* "The cave that you fear holds the treasure you seek" Please, cancel my subscription to your issues.

11-11-2019, 01:42 PM	#6212
kittygrrl Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: je ne sais quoi Preferred Pronoun?: baby grrl Relationship Status: vibing Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: real close Posts: 8,805 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 21,382 Thanked 21,373 Times in 6,723 Posts Rep Power: 21474859	no, i don't...but i am crushing on thisadorable cat __________________ "All cruelty springs from weakness" Seneca

11-11-2019, 07:46 PM	#6217
Stone-Butch Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Stonebutch Preferred Pronoun?: she Relationship Status: single Join Date: Jan 2013 Location: Canada Posts: 3,202 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 12,188 Thanked 8,469 Times in 2,635 Posts Rep Power: 21474851	crush If I tell you then you will know. Uh uh.

11-11-2019, 07:09 PM	#6214
JDeere Practically Lives Here How Do You Identify?: Transgender Preferred Pronoun?: He/him/his Relationship Status: Single Join Date: Jul 2014 Location: Oklahoma Posts: 17,752 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 31,018 Thanked 28,871 Times in 9,718 Posts Rep Power: 21474863	Nope unless you count the one on myself! 😆

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