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Old 09-18-2010, 10:17 AM   #1
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Whenever I am feeling “Woe is Me!” or find myself focusing on drama, big or small, I use the Alphabet Gratitude to get me out of it. I find one thing I am grateful for using each letter of the alphabet. Today I decided to challenge myself and find two items for each letter, choosing a new letter each day.

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I am grateful for the name Andrea. I love my name!

I am grateful for the Affection I receive from my honey.
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I am grateful for the ambulance that saved my Mothers life.

I am grateful for the Attention my Daddy gives me everyday.
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I am grateful for the Aptitude for laughter that my honey and I share.

I am grateful for the Artichoke and spinach hummus that makes my honey happy.

I am grateful for the Abundance of music, love, laughter and light in my life recently.
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I am grateful for the Abilities I still have, which far outweight the disabilities I have

I am so grateful for the artistic streak within me. It has colored my world intensely
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I am grateful for Ambivalence because it keeps life interesting

I am grateful for Ambrosia Fruit Salad because it reminds me of Avon cookie cutter lives and it makes me laugh

I am grateful for my baby girls Apple bottom ~
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~My Attitude about life (and death)

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I am grateful for the Awesomeness of face to face friendship--something I didn't have in my life for a long time.

I am grateful for the Attention my beloved bestows on me.

I am grateful for Artemis of Stripes and Athene the Skitty Kitty.

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I am grateful for Blackberry preserves (seedless, woohoo).

I am grateful for our Bubba, the Tuxedo King.

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I am grateful for my Bed, especially when there are others that don't have one.

I am grateful for Books of all kinds.

And a bonus B: I am grateful for B-F Planet for soooo many reasons.

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I am grateful for The Beauty of mother nature.

I am grateful For the Blessings I have received.

I am grateful for the Blue skies overhead.
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I am grateful for The Beauty of mother nature.

I am grateful For the Blessings I have received.

I am grateful for the Blue skies overhead.
I am grateful for my Baby Girl

I am grateful for Banana Pudding (wish I had some right now)

I am grateful for Baby Girls Booooooottttttttyyyyyyy!
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My Baby, who loves me when I'm not entirely loveable.

Broccoli, steamed and yummy.

Books to read and bookstores to visit.

Boston Terriers, because they are so damn cute.

Birthday celebrations, cuz they are fun!

Best friends, because they hold your truth in their hearts.
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I'm grateful for:

~Babeh Kittehs

~Brilliant minds

~Boys & Bois & men who sometimes ACT like Boys (You know who You are!)

~Bingo (the game, not the dog...ok, ok...the dog too)

~Buns (all kinds )

~Being called Babygirl...it makes my heart race

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Hey, I like B day.

I am grateful for Butches.

I am grateful for Bois n Boys.

I am grateful for Books.

I am grateful for Bed.

Right now I am most especially grateful for Beef sausages!
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When reading your gratefuls, I find myself saying.... Oh, I am so grateful for THAT too.

Thank you all, again, for sharing your gratefuls and reminding of the things I am forgetting to be grateful for.

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