Single Butch-Femme Questionnaire - Getting to know one another intimately...

[Heavenleahangel]

The Single Butch-Femme Compatibility Questionnaire

QUESTIONNAIRE

PART I - General Info

Real Name (first only):Tammy

Age:42 almost 43

Astrological Sign: Leo

Birth Date: (day only - not year): August 7th

Location: Upstate, NY

Height: 5' 5"

Eye Color: sparkling blue

Hair Color: blond

Piercings - how many & where: just my ears

Tattoos - how many & where: 1 on upper left shoulder I *just* got!

Cat person or dog person: both

Job: caretaker of the developmentally delayed

What do you like about your job?: the love I get from the people most of society has thrown away.

What do you loathe about your job?: State and federal budget cuts forcing some people to decide whether to buy meds or eat!!! ARGH!!!

Favorite books / authors:

Favorite bands/musicians: Country, hip hop, some rap, oldies, classic rock....

Favorite movies:

Favorite websites: BFP of course!

Favorite TV shows: Crime, mystery, medical shows,

Chocolate, Vanilla, or ALL the flavors? ALL the flavors

A silly thing you do when no one is watching: let myself believe I can dance! Its quite comical!

What is your pet peeve: being late

Favorite curse word: Dayum!

Favorite magazine: Reader's Digest

A culture that intrigues you: the Amish

Do you like to dance? yes-if thats what you wanna call it..lol

If you could change a law which would it be? Allowing gay in every state

Do you collect anything? Monkeys


If you could travel back in time, which year would you visit, and
why? Somewhere in the era of Gone with the Wind. I love those dresses!!!!

Would you ever have plastic surgery? Yes if I could

Your idea of a good meal: steak, good salad bar and warm bread

If you could be invisible, where would you go, what would you do and
what would you want to see? not sure

Introvert or extrovert: both depending on the situation

Dream profession: to be a doctor

What are your Hobbies: writing, singing, cooking/baking

Do you have Phobias, what are they?:

Do you believe in past lives? If yes, do you have any thoughts on
yours? Im not sure. I sometimes believe that I lived before when I have bits and pieces of flashbacks and dreams.

What do you get complemented on most often? My beautiful blue eyes, writing abilities; how cute my son is

What frustrates you most often about your body, ruling out weight as
an acceptable answer? my diabetes being so fickle

If given the magical gift to make three global changes, what would
they be? end world hunger, stop the droughts in all countries, end human traficking

If you could walk in the shoes of one person for a day, whose shoes
would you choose? Jesus Christ

Describe your religious / spiritual beliefs, if any: Christian

Do you generally feel understood? Yes

Would you sacrifice your life if you could save the lives of ten
thousand others? Definitely!

Biggest concern about aging: Being financially under-prepared

What were you like in high school? a little quirky, I didn't fit in as it was such a hige taboo to be "gay"

Is the idea of marriage appealing to you? definitely

Issues that you feel most passionate about: human rights, equality

The person whose opinion matters the most to you: My son, Jacob. He is 5 so as long as it doesn't hurt him, then he's ok with it...


PART II: Love/Sexuality

Sexual orientation: Femme: I never considered myself as a "lesbian" though.

How do you identify yourself (if you use and identity): see above

Current relationship status: Single

What you look for in a partner: too many things to list here, but the common-sense basicsl the strong/confident type

The "type" of person you tend to attract: Ya really wanna know?? lol

Number of times you've been in love: 3

What surprised you most the first time you fell in love? How liberating it felt to be in love and appreciated

Monogamy or polyamory:

Who would you have in your arms right now if it could be anybody in
the world? My soulmate

Have you ever had a long-distance relationship? yes

Have you ever had a successful long-term relationship with someone
you met online? yes I have

Age when you had your first kiss: 14

Describe your best kiss: the first time I kissed my first love passionately

Describe your last kiss: Jacob's "mommy kisses" the best in the world

What are you most physically attracted to in women?: the "strong/confident" stone/butch type mind

What trait in a woman turns you off?: those that do not take care of themselves



PART III: SEX

The last person who saw you naked: Jacob when I thought he was sleeping

What are you self-conscious about naked?

When making love, making out, or just fucking etc. do you like the
lights on or off? both

Three things a person has done to you in a making out or sexual
situation that really turned you on: sensual massage, showed their confidence;

Three things a person has done to you in a making out or sexual
situation that turned you off: wet/sloppy kissing; being obnoxiously gropy/feely

Have you ever taken naked pics / videos of yourself? yes

Do you have any Fetishes: not sure

Name your fetishes:

Leather - yes or no?:

BDSM - yes or no?: some

Have you ever had a one-night stand? Honestly, no, I havn't

How often do you masturbate? very rarelly

Are you trimmed, shaved, or completely natural? trimmed

[lusciouskiwi]

The Single Butch-Femme Compatibility Questionnaire

QUESTIONNAIRE

PART I - General Info

Real Name (first only): Linda

Age: 47

Astrological Sign: Aries/Snake

Birth Date: (day only - not year): March 25th

Location: Malaysia (I'm a New Zealander)

Height: [B]5'8"

Eye Color: bluish/grayish with a bit of yellow

Hair Color: medium brown with quite a bit of grey, currently blonde

Piercings - how many & where: 3 in each ear

Tattoos - how many & where: one, lower belly, in from my left hip

Cat person or dog person: both

Job: Teacher Trainer

What do you like about your job?: being able to use my intellect, my teaching experience, being independent, helping others, teaching kids

What do you loathe about your job?: No ac in Malaysian classrooms

Favorite books / authors: so many! Judith Grahn, Witi Ihimaera, Patricia Highsmith, Janet Frame, Jennifer Levin, so many more!

Favorite bands/musicians: Joan Armatrading, Julia Fordham, Me'Shell NdegeOcello, kd lang, the pixies, Split Enz, The Topp Twins, Crowded House, disco, electronic/house, celtic, ... and more

Favorite movies: Strictly Ballroom, Shall We Dance (original Japanese version), Dirty Dancing, Ghibli anime, more ...B\

Favorite websites: [B]fb, bfp,

Favorite TV shows: Grey's Anatomy, Smash, Glee, Sherlock, So YOu Think You Can Dance...

Chocolate, Vanilla, or ALL the flavors? everything

A silly thing you do when no one is watching: riggling my glasses up my nose by twitching my nose

What is your pet peeve: selfishness, dropping rubbish anywhere

Favorite curse word: FUCK!, also BUGGER!

Favorite magazine: Flavours, a Singaporean/Malaysia food magazine

A culture that intrigues you: Bugis, Sulawesi, Indonesia, they have five genders

Do you like to dance? LOVE dancing and a butch to dance on , would love to go to ballroom dancing classes with my butch

If you could change a law which would it be? laws that discriminate based on gender, sexual orientation or ethnicity

Do you collect anything? not at the moment


If you could travel back in time, which year would you visit, and
why? to 1840 when the British Crown signed a Treaty with Maori - I would make it more legally binding in order to protect indigenous rights

Would you ever have plastic surgery? for surgical reasons already, for vanity, why not

Your idea of a good meal: either one I've cooked for my darling for a special occasion (or just to impress the pants of her) or somewhere special I've been taken to

If you could be invisible, where would you go, what would you do and
what would you want to see? John Key, Prime Minister of NZ, so I could then leak it

Introvert or extrovert: extrovert mostly

Dream profession: what I'm doing right now is pretty good

What are your Hobbies: bit of a boring fart these days - reading, watching tv, occasionally going to the movies

Do you have Phobias, what are they?: scared of heights

Do you believe in past lives? If yes, do you have any thoughts on
yours? nope

What do you get complemented on most often? n the past, my eyes

What frustrates you most often about your body, ruling out weight as
an acceptable answer? [COLOR="Indigo"]the size of my feet. Please don't laugh.

If given the magical gift to make three global changes, what would
they be? end global warming, clean drinking water for all, reliable and appropriate sanitation for all

If you could walk in the shoes of one person for a day, whose shoes
would you choose? Oprah Winfrey would be pretty cool

Describe your religious / spiritual beliefs, if any: be kind to everyone, torturing and abusing animals is not ok, give to others where and when you can

Do you generally feel understood? no, but maybe that's changing as I understand myself more

Would you sacrifice your life if you could save the lives of ten
thousand others? yes

Biggest concern about aging: diabetes

What were you like in high school? nothing much - didn't think I was intelligent or pretty or good at anything, didn't know I could question my identity or even that I had choices other than the ones presented to me

Is the idea of marriage appealing to you? yes, would love to

Issues that you feel most passionate about: discrimination, lack of education for girls and poor kids in general, animal cruelty

The person whose opinion matters the most to you: trying to focus on myself


PART II: Love/Sexuality

Sexual orientation: lesbian

How do you identify yourself (if you use and identity): femme/lipsick lesbian/lesbian feminist

Current relationship status: single

What you look for in a partner: a butch who's kind to themself, is comfortable in their own skin/body, where they are in their life and knows what they want, is an explorer and an active participant in life, understands and knows their own boundaries, enjoys seeking new experiences (in and out of bed), likes animals, has strong family/friend connections, smells good! Someone who wants to get to know me and is patient and persistent enough to do so, someone who can map every freckle on my body, someone who is proud of me and interested in me, someone who will seduce me to "ingenue"

The "type" of person you tend to attract: kind to others but doesn't look after themselves, passive (not always obviously passive). I'ma changing that!

Number of times you've been in love: three

What surprised you most the first time you fell in love? thought she was my friend, I was surprised when a lesbian I knew teased me about it, this was at the beginning of my coming out

Monogamy or polyamory: long term relationship, monogamy

Who would you have in your arms right now if it could be anybody in
the world? a couple of months ago I would have said my American ex, but now that I've been on bfp I'm ready for someone else ... if we're talking about fantasy, then kd lang

Have you ever had a long-distance relationship? es

Have you ever had a successful long-term relationship with someone
you met online? yes

Age when you had your first kiss: about 15 with a boy, early 20's with a lesbian

Describe your best kiss: in the shower with my darling, told her that she made me go kneak at the wees

Describe your last kiss: My Malaysian ex kissing me when I was almost asleep after we had broken up, trying to be dominant, too little too late

What are you most physically attracted to in women?: I must admit a tall, well built butch makes my grrly bits go all squishy apart from that lively eyes, nice hands, nice hair, energy, swagger , nicely shaped lips ...

What trait in a woman turns you off?: conceit, laziness, lack of drive/passiveness, unwilling and/or unable to hold a conversation, whiny or unsubstantial voice (I know that's not a trait but still ... there's not going to be any phone sex if your voice doesn't turn me on)



PART III: SEX

The last person who saw you naked: my Malaysian ex

What are you self-conscious about naked? generally no

When making love, making out, or just fucking etc. do you like the
lights on or off? either or

Three things a person has done to you in a making out or sexual
situation that really turned you on: stroking me - my arms, my side, my neck, stroking is nice, biting me on my shoulders, really looking into my eyes, groaning

Three things a person has done to you in a making out or sexual
situation that turned you off: asking me how long it was going to take me to cum, noisy wet sloppy kisses (shudder), kneading my breasts like they're loaves of bread

Have you ever taken naked pics / videos of yourself? photos yes

Do you have any Fetishes: don't think so

Name your fetishes:

Leather - yes or no?: maybe

BDSM - yes or no?: maybe

Have you ever had a one-night stand? yes

How often do you masturbate? sometimes up to three times a day, but sometimes I find it too emotionally painful to masturbate and so sometimes it can be weeks or months, sometimes it's every day

Are you trimmed, shaved, or completely natural? "down there"? natural but I can wax, trim or shave if you really want me too ...

[ferret]

My answers...

PART I - General Info

Real Name (first only): Sue

Age: 40

Astrological Sign: Leo

Birth Date: (day only - not year): 8/8

Location: KY

Height: 5'3

Eye Color: Blue

Hair Color: Dark brown

Piercings - how many & where: None

Tattoos - how many & where: 4; upper arms, upper back

Cat person or dog person: Dog

Job: Verification coordinator

What do you like about your job?: I can dress how I want, the work is interesting, and management leaves you alone to let you do your job.

What do you loathe about your job?: Having to talk on the phone

Favorite books / authors: Lori Lake or pretty much any lesbian fiction

Favorite bands/musicians: Fleetood Mac, Duran Duran, Elvis, Brian Setzer

Favorite movies: Rear Window, Fried Green Tomatoes, Batman Begins

Favorite websites: facebook, websites where I can buy graphic tees, Bella Books

Favorite TV shows: Grimm, Being Human, Walking Dead, Rachel Maddow Show

Chocolate, Vanilla, or ALL the flavors? Vanilla

A silly thing you do when no one is watching: Sing in my car

What is your pet peeve: People who are always late

Favorite curse word: Fuck

Favorite magazine: Curve

A culture that intrigues you: BDSM, even though it scares me

Do you like to dance? Yes, but I do it badly

If you could change a law which would it be? That gays would be allowed to get married in all 50 states

Do you collect anything? Batman memorabilia, books, movies


If you could travel back in time, which year would you visit, and
why? 1955. Rock music was just starting to come out, and Elvis was at his prime.

Would you ever have plastic surgery? No

Your idea of a good meal: A good steak, salad, potato, and a really good bread

If you could be invisible, where would you go, what would you do and
what would you want to see? I would want to go and be with my sister for a day. We have a polite relationship, and I don't think I have a really good idea as to what she's like.

Introvert or extrovert: Extrovert -aka fun-herder

Dream profession: Novelist

What are your Hobbies: Photography

Do you have Phobias, what are they?: I don't like spiders, bugs, or bats

Do you believe in past lives? If yes, do you have any thoughts on
yours? No

What do you get complemented on most often? My eyes

What frustrates you most often about your body, ruling out weight as
an acceptable answer? That I have aches and pains that I never used to.

If given the magical gift to make three global changes, what would
they be? Endless food supply, stopping deforestation, and hunting animals that are on the verge of extinction.

If you could walk in the shoes of one person for a day, whose shoes
would you choose? The president. He has a very difficult, stressful job, and I often wonder what it would be like to be in his position.

Describe your religious / spiritual beliefs, if any: None, besides everything happens for a reason

Do you generally feel understood? No

Would you sacrifice your life if you could save the lives of ten
thousand others? I'm not sure. It would depend on the circumstances.

Biggest concern about aging: Slowing down, being forgetful, or maybe having to be put in a nursing home

What were you like in high school? I didn't fit in anywhere, really. I had a few friends, but generally kept to myself.

Is the idea of marriage appealing to you? Not right now.

Issues that you feel most passionate about: Equality for all to get married and fair elections where our officials can't buy anything like, say, the presidency.

The person whose opinion matters the most to you: My mother's. Still.


PART II: Love/Sexuality

Sexual orientation: Gay

How do you identify yourself (if you use and identity): I identify as myself, if that makes sense.

Current relationship status: Single.

What you look for in a partner: Femme, but not helpless. And I mean no offense by that. Someone where there's a physical attraction, but what's on the inside also matters. She has to have a good sense of humor, is intelligent, and can carry on a good conversation.

The "type" of person you tend to attract: People who I'm not physically attracted to, or loons.

Number of times you've been in love: Once.

What surprised you most the first time you fell in love? I really didn't know it at the time; I just knew that I wanted to be around that person as much as possible.

Monogamy or polyamory: Monogamy

Who would you have in your arms right now if it could be anybody in
the world? A girl that belongs to a social group that I do, although, we haven't been officially introduced yet.

Have you ever had a long-distance relationship? Yes. And they suck.

Have you ever had a successful long-term relationship with someone
you met online? No

Age when you had your first kiss: 19

Describe your best kiss: Passionate and it lead to other things

Describe your last kiss: It was more out of lust, I think

What are you most physically attracted to in women?: Eyes, smile, intelligent

What trait in a woman turns you off?: If she's extremely overweight.



PART III: SEX

The last person who saw you naked: My ex

What are you self-conscious about naked? That I'm a little bit "pudgy"

When making love, making out, or just fucking etc. do you like the
lights on or off? I just want to be able to see the other person

Three things a person has done to you in a making out or sexual
situation that really turned you on: Kissing the back of my neck, sucking on my nipples, kissing in general

Three things a person has done to you in a making out or sexual
situation that turned you off: When that other person is in a rush to get me off

Have you ever taken naked pics / videos of yourself? No. Who in the hell would ever want to see me nekkid?

Do you have any Fetishes: Yes, but I've never been able to try it yet

Name your fetishes: Fisting

Leather - yes or no?: No

BDSM - yes or no?: No

Have you ever had a one-night stand? No

How often do you masturbate? Couple times a month, if that.

Are you trimmed, shaved, or completely natural? Completely natural. For now.

[Gráinne]

QUESTIONNAIRE

PART I - General Info

Real Name (first only): Ann

Age:49

Astrological Sign:Aquarius

Birth Date: (day only - not year):January 22

Location: La Petite Roche

Height:5'0

Eye Color: Hazel

Hair Color:Brown with highlights

Piercings - how many & where:2 in each ear

Tattoos - how many & where:Not yet

Cat person or dog person: Animal person, but currently owned by two cats.

Job:Educator

What do you like about your job?:When a student realizes they can "get" physics

What do you loathe about your job?:Social problems getting into the classroom

Favorite books / authors:e.e.cummings, Chekhov, Tolstoy, Dostoyevsky, Pushkin, about any Russian novel you can think of.

Favorite bands/musicians:That changes way too much. I love a bit of everything, except heavy metal and rap.

Favorite movies:It's a Mad, Mad, Mad Mad World; The Long, Long Trailer; Gone With The Wind

Favorite websites:Right here, FB, Livejournal, Huffington Post, Etiquette Hell

Favorite TV shows:Amazing Race, Top Shot, American Ninjas, Dance Moms, and Dance Moms, Miami (if it comes back), telenovelas

Chocolate, Vanilla, or ALL the flavors? Not a huge ice cream eater, but chocolate fudge.

A silly thing you do when no one is watching: Make like the cat is talking and give it a "voice"

What is your pet peeve:People who complain about something but never take a solution

Favorite curse word:Jiminy crickets (I try very hard not to swear)

Favorite magazine:Astronomy Today

A culture that intrigues you:Hasidic Jew, Russian, Chinese-oh, you name it

Do you like to dance?Slow and close with someone special, yes. I also did jazz dance (like in Dance Moms) when I was in high school. Fast dancing, not really.

If you could change a law which would it be?Equal funding for all school districts regardless of neighborhood

Do you collect anything?Cookbooks, if that counts

If you could travel back in time, which year would you visit, and
why?1862, in Sparta, Ontario to find out what in the world happened to my biological g-great grandparents and why their children lived with their aunt and uncle.

Would you ever have plastic surgery? If I had a disfiguring injury, but not just to take fat out or pump up boobs.

Your idea of a good meal:Really good spaghetti, salad and breadsticks followed by a great dessert

If you could be invisible, where would you go, what would you do and
what would you want to see? I would play in a hippo pond in Africa, so they wouldn't attack me but they're so cute.

Introvert or extrovert:Very shy until you know me better.

Dream profession:I'm doing that now, but maybe I'd move it to Saint Petersburg or Moscow.

What are your Hobbies:Reading, playing keyboard, genealogy, learning languages, swimming, astronomy

Do you have Phobias, what are they?:Not great at heights, those rickety staircases, escalators, or bugs

Do you believe in past lives? If yes, do you have any thoughts on
yours?Not sure about reincarnation but I sometimes have conversations that I know I've had before-I can fill in the "blanks".

What do you get complemented on most often? Eyes, smile

What frustrates you most often about your body, ruling out weight as
an acceptable answer?Being shorter than most everyone else

If given the magical gift to make three global changes, what would
they be? 1)clean water for all, 2) universal literacy and 3) safe and effective birth control for all

If you could walk in the shoes of one person for a day, whose shoes
would you choose? The President. I think we'd all have a better feeling for his job.

Describe your religious / spiritual beliefs, if any:I am Jewish but don't follow kosher. It's far more based on doing good than theology.

Do you generally feel understood?Not by most people, unless someone's as weird as I am.

Would you sacrifice your life if you could save the lives of ten
thousand others? Yes.

Biggest concern about aging:Becoming a financial or emotional burden to my children.

What were you like in high school?A big nerd and a band geek! Very quiet but liked by people from all groups, though I didn't have a lot of close friends.

Is the idea of marriage appealing to you? A colossal no.

Issues that you feel most passionate about: Education, health, capital punishment (abolish), child abuse

The person whose opinion matters the most to you:My own, followed by my mature, common-sense led daughter

PART II: Love/Sexuality

Sexual orientation:Coming to like "queer"

How do you identify yourself (if you use and identity):I don't fit any one thing, but femme-ish, I guess.

Current relationship status:Not looking but open to it

What you look for in a partner:Kindness, a sense of humor, intelligence, emotional openness, honesty, responsible

The "type" of person you tend to attract:Until recently, people with significant problems who needed "rescuing"

Number of times you've been in love:Twice

What surprised you most the first time you fell in love?How strong that feeling is

Monogamy or polyamory:Monogamy

Who would you have in your arms right now if it could be anybody in
the world?Platonically, any Russian friend because that would mean I was there (probably)

Have you ever had a long-distance relationship? Yes

Have you ever had a successful long-term relationship with someone
you met online? "Successful" in the sense that we're still great friends today, yes, but it didn't work out romantically for reasons other than distance.

Age when you had your first kiss:15 for a boy, 42 for a girl!

Describe your best kiss:In the rain, of course.

Describe your last kiss:The last time I saw LDR woman from above. It was sad, but OK.

What are you most physically attracted to in women?:Eyes that smile, a great smile, nice hair, um..it depends

What trait in a woman turns you off?:Emotionally? Drama, "dumbing" themselves down, no confidence.

PART III: SEX

The last person who saw you naked:Romantically? LDR woman above. Sometimes daughter, if I'm in the shower.

What are you self-conscious about naked? Not much!

When making love, making out, or just fucking etc. do you like the
lights on or off? Dim light. It shouldn't look like a surgical suite

Three things a person has done to you in a making out or sexual
situation that really turned you on: Um...not forgetting about my back, making noise, really paying attention to all of me.

Three things a person has done to you in a making out or sexual
situation that turned you off: Not specific to gender: "testing the roast" to see if I'm "ready", asking "Did you come?", being way too rough

Have you ever taken naked pics / videos of yourself? I was a life model in college, so was painted and sculpted .

Do you have any Fetishes:that's personal

Name your fetishes:ditto

Leather - yes or no?:no

BDSM - yes or no?:not much

Have you ever had a one-night stand?no

How often do you masturbate?Enough

Are you trimmed, shaved, or completely natural?gadzooks, that's personal

not all questions need to be answered! this questionnaire is all in
friendly fun and used to introduce you to us and as an ice-breaker..
remember now.. all in fun!

[lusciouskiwi]

Come on folks, the water's fine, no sharks to bite you ... today at last

[StoneOne]

The Single Butch-Femme Compatibility Questionnaire

QUESTIONNAIRE

PART I - General Info

Real Name (first only): Damon

Age: 50

Astrological Sign: Water

Birth Date: (day only - not year): 02-06

Location: Denver Colorado

Height: 5'4

Eye Color: Brown

Hair Color: Salt and Pepper

Piercings - how many & where: Yes

Tattoos - how many & where: 12 arms, back and chest more to come wont stop until I run out of room

Cat person or dog person: both but none at this time roomate has both

Job: Warehouse

What do you like about your job?: the hours and peeps

What do you loathe about your job?: the liars if you can not tell the truth say nothing and if you are witness to a liar say so if you do not you are no better

Favorite books / authors: I used to love reading I have become to busy and do not have the time but I do need to change that

Favorite bands/musicians: anything with a Soul it needs to talk to me, Manson, Disturbed, Korn you get the Idea

Favorite movies: All the Underworlds, Queen of the Dammed

Favorite websites: Thunder, Fetlife, ITaboo the Planet

Favorite TV shows: Saving Grace

Chocolate, Vanilla, or ALL the flavors? All flavors

A silly thing you do when no one is watching: Sing to myself and the StoneButch Dance

What is your pet peeve: Liars

Favorite curse word: All LMFAO

Favorite magazine: Gamestop

A culture that intrigues you: Native Americans

Do you like to dance? Life is a dance and yes

If you could change a law which would it be? I do not smoke it but MaryJane

Do you collect anything? Knives, gaming stuff and hats


If you could travel back in time, which year would you visit, and
why? 1974 the year my aunt died I want to talk with her again just be close

Would you ever have plastic surgery? saving for top surgery

Your idea of a good meal: anyting you cook together

If you could be invisible, where would you go, what would you do and
what would you want to see? I can not share this

Introvert or extrovert: both

Dream profession: BDSM club owner and gaming store

What are your Hobbies: fishing and camping

Do you have Phobias, what are they?: clean. clean, and did i say clean

Do you believe in past lives? If yes, do you have any thoughts on
yours? yes, I must work harder on why I am here again and what I made a contract to do

What do you get complemented on most often? how I care about others

What frustrates you most often about your body, ruling out weight as
an acceptable answer? top

If given the magical gift to make three global changes, what would
they be? sharing, caring and loving

If you could walk in the shoes of one person for a day, whose shoes
would you choose? my aunt

Describe your religious / spiritual beliefs, if any: we are here until we learn what we set out to Native american

Do you generally feel understood? I understand myself mostly working on the rest this is what matters

Would you sacrifice your life if you could save the lives of ten
thousand others? I would sacrifice for 1

Biggest concern about aging: less time to do what I want

What were you like in high school? quite but protecter of those would could not do it for themselves

Is the idea of marriage appealing to you? yes

Issues that you feel most passionate about: I am passionate about all I do

The person whose opinion matters the most to you: mine but I listen to all others and I care about what they are feeling


PART II: Love/Sexuality

Sexual orientation: StoneButch

How do you identify yourself (if you use and identity):

Current relationship status: Single

What you look for in a partner: personailty

The "type" of person you tend to attract: You would have to ask them

Number of times you've been in love: 2

What surprised you most the first time you fell in love? Her

Monogamy or polyamory: poly

Who would you have in your arms right now if it could be anybody in
the world? Her

Have you ever had a long-distance relationship? tried but I am not ment to

Have you ever had a successful long-term relationship with someone
you met online? Yes

Age when you had your first kiss: 5

Describe your best kiss: everyone of them

Describe your last kiss: full of desire and passion

What are you most physically attracted to in women?: who she is and of course breasts

What trait in a woman turns you off?: no reguard for others



PART III: SEX

The last person who saw you naked: Her

What are you self-conscious about naked? not gonna happen

When making love, making out, or just fucking etc. do you like the
lights on or off? On

Three things a person has done to you in a making out or sexual
situation that really turned you on: all of it

Three things a person has done to you in a making out or sexual
situation that turned you off: touched where they know not to

Have you ever taken naked pics / videos of yourself? yes

Do you have any Fetishes: yes you name it

Name your fetishes: it would be easier to name the ones I dont like, anal, scat and golden shower

Leather - yes or no?: Yes

BDSM - yes or no?: Yes

Have you ever had a one-night stand? nope

How often do you masturbate? never I am Stone

Are you trimmed, shaved, or completely natural?
none ya

[laruss]

Bumping...

[Tcountry]

QUESTIONNAIRE

PART I - General Info

Real Name (first only): T

Age: 32

Astrological Sign: Pisces

Birth Date: (day only - not year): 02-25

Location: SW Nebraska

Height: 5'7"

Eye Color: Blue

Hair Color: Mostly brown

Piercings - just ears

Tattoos - how many & where: 4 now(upper back, mid back, left upper arm & right forearm)...2 planned soon(upper right arm & left forearm)

Cat person or dog person: both

Job: Ethanol Expert

What do you like about your job?: I am good at it

What do you loathe about your job?: the circle of love...aka good ole boys club

Favorite books / authors: Anything that actually holds my interest long enough for me to finish the book

Favorite bands/musicians: Brad Paisley, Blake Shelton, Reba, most country stars

Favorite movies: The Ultimate Gift, Loin King, The Last Holiday

Favorite websites: here...facebook, ehow, wikipedia

Favorite TV shows: Criminal Minds, Crossing Jordan, Numbers

Chocolate, Vanilla, or ALL the flavors? depends on the day

A silly thing you do when no one is watching: dance while cooking

What is your pet peeve: there's not a lot that really gets to me...

Favorite curse word: Shit

Favorite magazine: Smithsonian & Handyman

A culture that intrigues you: Native Americans

Do you like to dance? for the most part yes

If you could change a law which would it be? speed limit thru Iowa (travel a lot)
Do you collect anything? patriotic stuff

If you could travel back in time, which year would you visit, and
why? 1990...I have some unanswered questions I would like to solve

Would you ever have plastic surgery? not unless absolutely necessary

Your idea of a good meal: there are so many....I love food...

If you could be invisible, where would you go, what would you do and
what would you want to see? OH the possibilities...

Introvert or extrovert: introvert almost always

Dream profession: Anything where I am actually valued

What are your Hobbies: bowling, studying, spending time in nature

Do you have Phobias, what are they?: not that I know of

Do you believe in past lives? If yes, do you have any thoughts on
yours? No...not really, altho sometimes I wonder

What do you get complemented on most often? eyes & smile

What frustrates you most often about your body, ruling out weight as
an acceptable answer? scars, but they all have stories

If given the magical gift to make three global changes, what would
they be? food crops for all, edible animals for all who eat them, and world peace

If you could walk in the shoes of one person for a day, whose shoes
would you choose? The US President

Describe your religious / spiritual beliefs, if any: Christian mostly...with a lot of nature thrown in

Do you generally feel understood? depends on the topic and by whom

Would you sacrifice your life if you could save the lives of ten
thousand others? most definitely, and it wouldn't take 10,000...

Biggest concern about aging: health getting worse

What were you like in high school? "brown noser"...lol but I learned a lot

Is the idea of marriage appealing to you? not really

Issues that you feel most passionate about: equality, work ethic, character

The person whose opinion matters the most to you: person? me...I'm the only one who really gets the whole picture of me...evereyone else gets what I show them

PART II: Love/Sexuality

Sexual orientation: lesban

How do you identify yourself (if you use and identity): Butch

Current relationship status: Single

What you look for in a partner: personailty, character, connection

The "type" of person you tend to attract: my bff's & I have theories...nothing specific to all

Number of times you've been in love: too many...there are rules now

What surprised you most the first time you fell in love? love does not surprise me...

Monogamy or polyamory: 1 please

Who would you have in your arms right now if it could be anybody in
the world? The 1 who fulfills me...body, mind, soul

Have you ever had a long-distance relationship? yes

Have you ever had a successful long-term relationship with someone
you met online? depending on your definition of success...but I believe so

Age when you had your first kiss: 8...soccer field...

Describe your best kiss: so far...making her so weak in the knees I had to catch her so she didn't fall over...

Describe your last kiss: sweet tender small kisses

What are you most physically attracted to in women?: eyes, smile, hair, the way she carries herself...

What trait in a woman turns you off?: too high maintenace...(yes I have a scale)


PART III: SEX

The last person who saw you naked: someone who shouldn't have...damn doors should lock

What are you self-conscious about naked? not much anymore

When making love, making out, or just fucking etc. do you like the
lights on or off? depends on the mood

Three things a person has done to you in a making out or sexual
situation that really turned you on: *evil laugh* can't give away all the secrets

Three things a person has done to you in a making out or sexual
situation that turned you off: going beyond the boundaries

Have you ever taken naked pics / videos of yourself? yes

Do you have any Fetishes: yes

Name your fetishes: skin contact

Leather - yes or no?: no

BDSM - yes or no?: no

Have you ever had a one-night stand? um...yep

How often do you masturbate? enough

Are you trimmed, shaved, or completely natural? depends on the weather, and my mood

[CharmingButch25]

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The Single Butch-Femme Compatibility Questionnaire

QUESTIONNAIRE

PART I - General Info

Real Name (first only):T

Age:

Astrological Sign:Cancer

Birth Date: (day only - not year):June 27

Location:Oregon

Height:5'3

Eye Color:ice Blue

Hair Color:Brown

Piercings - how many & where:none

Tattoos - how many & where:none

Cat person or dog person:dog

Job:Cleaning and Painting Apartments, Writing Erotica on the side

What do you like about your job?:lol i like to paint up and down

What do you loathe about your job?:its boring

Favorite books / authors:Lisa Shapiro,Sheila Walsh

Favorite bands/musicians:Too Many to name, Snow patrol,lifehouse, a lot more

Favorite movies:Friend green tomatoes,Steel magnolias,Repo the genetic opera,Hello dolly,To kill a mockingbird SO many others

Favorite websites:This one, and Facebook lol

Favorite TV shows:Bones,New girl,Law and order Svu,Criminal Minds,Greys anatomy
Chocolate, Vanilla, or ALL the flavors?Chocolate

A silly thing you do when no one is watching: sing

What is your pet peeve: fake people

Favorite curse word:i try not to curse

Favorite magazine:None

A culture that intrigues you:

Do you like to dance?Nope

If you could change a law which would it be?I would sentence all sex offenders to be castrated

Do you collect anything?m&m collectables


If you could travel back in time, which year would you visit, and
why?
1960 or earlier
Would you ever have plastic surgery?no

Your idea of a good meal:steak,carrots,pasta

If you could be invisible, where would you go, what would you do and
what would you want to see?

Dream profession:To help children that have been sexually or any kind of abused

What are your Hobbies:Writing

Do you have Phobias, what are they?:i hate spiders

Do you believe in past lives? If yes, do you have any thoughts on
yours?I am unsure on this

What do you get complemented on most often?My eyes

What frustrates you most often about your body, ruling out weight as
an acceptable answer? im too short

If you could walk in the shoes of one person for a day, whose shoes
would you choose? a homeless person

Describe your religious / spiritual beliefs, if any:I believe in God

Do you generally feel understood?Yes

Would you sacrifice your life if you could save the lives of ten
thousand others?
Yes
Biggest concern about aging:My memory

What were you like in high school?I didnt go

Is the idea of marriage appealing to you?nope i think its just a piece of paper

Issues that you feel most passionate about:child abuse,domestic violence

The person whose opinion matters the most to you:My Moms


PART II: Love/Sexuality

Sexual orientation:hmmmmmm

How do you identify yourself (if you use and identity):Butch

Current relationship status:Non existant LOL

What you look for in a partner:trust,understanding,loyalty,non selfish
The "type" of person you tend to attract:selfish types

Number of times you've been in lovence

What surprised you most the first time you fell in love?that it actually happened

Monogamy or polyamory:Monogamy

Who would you have in your arms right now if it could be anybody in
the world?April

Have you ever had a long-distance relationship?Yes

Have you ever had a successful long-term relationship with someone
you met online?Yes

Age when you had your first kiss:9

Describe your best kiss:most amazing kiss because I was actually IN love

Describe your last kiss: hmm was awesome

What are you most physically attracted to in women?:thier tummy

What trait in a woman turns you off?:Selfishness



PART III: SEX

The last person who saw you naked:Hmmm

What are you self-conscious about naked?

When making love, making out, or just fucking etc. do you like the
lights on or off?Off

Three things a person has done to you in a making out or sexual
situation that really turned you on: Played with my hair,kissed my inner arm,
Three things a person has done to you in a making out or sexual
situation that turned you off: Tried touching me,tried taking a pic of me naked,

Have you ever taken naked pics / videos of yourself?no

Do you have any Fetishes:LOL Yep

Name your fetishes:

Leather - yes or no?: No
BDSM - yes or no?:YES

Have you ever had a one-night stand?Yes

How often do you masturbate?multiple times daily does that count LOL maybe im kidding

Are you trimmed, shaved, or completely natural?Hmmmm

[CA_BabyCakes]

About Me.....

Originally Posted by wetfromashower

I saw this questionnaire in a few on online groups.. it helps break the ice and permits us to get to know one another intimately... Please keep in mind that if you feel uncomfortable answering any of the questions you don't have to answer them! This is to be used as an icebreaker only so that we may be better able to bring up topics of discussion through this thread. All in fun.

When Answering this Questionnaire - Copy n Paste this Questionnaire... Please State your Screen Name in the title with "My Answers"!

The Single Butch-Femme Compatibility Questionnaire

QUESTIONNAIRE

PART I - General Info

Real Name (first only): Ask me and i will tell you

Age: 34

Astrological Sign: Pisces

Birth Date: (day only - not year): March 13

Location: Southern California

Height:5'5 AND A HALF

Eye Color: Brown

Hair Colorark Brown

Piercings - how many & where: Just my ears

Tattoos - how many & where: One small one on my wrist

Cat person or dog person: CAT!

Job: Management

What do you like about your job?: EVERYTHING!!!

What do you loathe about your job?: Sometimes family dynamics get complicating

Favorite books / authors: Sookie Stackhouse series/ Charlaine Harris

Favorite bands/musicians: The Cure/ Depeche Mode

Favorite movies: Goonies, Gone with the Wind, Valley Girl

Favorite websites:This one

Favorite TV shows: Secret Life of the American Teenager, Adventure Time

Chocolate, Vanilla, or ALL the flavors? ALL!!!

A silly thing you do when no one is watching: Sing or Dance, everywhere and anywhere

What is your pet peeve: Constant self pity

Favorite curse word:Probably the F word

Favorite magazine: Time

A culture that intrigues you: Mexican American Culture

Do you like to dance? LOVE IT

If you could change a law which would it be? Law against Gay Marriage

Do you collect anything? Disneyland Maps, the covers are always changing, and Kermit stuff


If you could travel back in time, which year would you visit, and
why? I dont think i would like to travel back i wouldnt do well with opression.

Would you ever have plastic surgery? YES

Your idea of a good meal: Ceviche!! Made by ME, so it has plenty of avocado and shrimp.

If you could be invisible, where would you go, what would you do and
what would you want to see? I would go see animals in their natural habitat and not fear that they would tear me to shreds!

Introvert or extrovert:Extro, unless its very personal then im intro.

Dream profession:Physical Therapist

What are your Hobbies:Reading, Traveling (Locally), Painting Ceramics, Movies, Listening to Music, Nature walks.

Do you have Phobias, what are they?: Darkness, Deep Water, Dying

Do you believe in past lives? If yes, do you have any thoughts on
yours? Yes, although against my religion, I think i was a peasant of some sort.

What do you get complemented on most often? My hair

What frustrates you most often about your body, ruling out weight as
an acceptable answer? My belly!! Ughh

If given the magical gift to make three global changes, what would
they be? NO hate anywhere, no poverty, and end to preventable illnesses.

If you could walk in the shoes of one person for a day, whose shoes
would you choose? I like my shoes just fine!

Describe your religious / spiritual beliefs, if any: Im catholic, but not Roman, I do not follow vatican/Pope beliefs.

Do you generally feel understood? Yes

Would you sacrifice your life if you could save the lives of ten
thousand others? Yes i would as long as one of them swore to love my children as i do and assure their futures.

Biggest concern about aging: WRINKLES!!!

What were you like in high school? Mean, popular for the most part though.

Is the idea of marriage appealing to you? One day!

Issues that you feel most passionate about: Gay marriage and Healthcare

The person whose opinion matters the most to you: My kids


PART II: Love/Sexuality

Sexual orientation: Lesbian

How do you identify yourself (if you use and identity): All woman, femme

Current relationship status:Single

What you look for in a partner:Sense of humor!, companionship, comfort.

The "type" of person you tend to attract: All types

Number of times you've been in love:1

What surprised you most the first time you fell in love? That it could actually happen

Monogamy or polyamory: MONOGAMY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Who would you have in your arms right now if it could be anybody in
the world? There are many!

Have you ever had a long-distance relationship? No

Have you ever had a successful long-term relationship with someone
you met online? N/A

Age when you had your first kiss: 12

Describe your best kiss:

Describe your last kiss:

What are you most physically attracted to in women?: Sense of humor, smile, personality, height.

What trait in a woman turns you off?:Low self worth or esteem



PART III: SEX

The last person who saw you naked:

What are you self-conscious about naked? MY Tummy

When making love, making out, or just fucking etc. do you like the
lights on or off? Off

Three things a person has done to you in a making out or sexual
situation that really turned you on:

Three things a person has done to you in a making out or sexual
situation that turned you off:

Have you ever taken naked pics / videos of yourself?

Do you have any Fetishes:

Name your fetishes:

Leather - yes or no?: No

BDSM - yes or no?: Mebbe

Have you ever had a one-night stand? No

How often do you masturbate?

Are you trimmed, shaved, or completely natural?


not all questions need to be answered! this questionnaire is all in
friendly fun and used to introduce you to us and as an ice-breaker..
remember now.. all in fun!

[StoneOne]

Bump, Bump, Bump, Bump, love this thread

[easygoingfemme]

The Single Butch-Femme Compatibility Questionnaire

QUESTIONNAIRE

PART I - General Info

Real Name (first only): T-----

Age: 38

Astrological Sign: Taurus

Birth Date: (day only - not year): May 7
Location: Albany area, NY

Height: 5'4"

Eye Color: Brown-ish hazel

Hair Color: Brown- (curly and sort of long)

Piercings - how many & where: Ears, I think I have three holes in one and two in the other. I don’t often wear earrings though, they bother me.

Tattoos – One left shoulder, one lower stomach, one long run that runs from between my shoulder blades, down my back, and along my right hip.

Cat person or dog person: Both. One dog and two cats here.

Job: Health coach.

What do you like about your job?: I love the actual work of helping people heal painful relationships with food and make healthier life choices as well.
I also like that I mostly make my own schedule and it allows me time for lots of other good things in my life.

What do you loathe about your job?: That I’m in charge of creating my own income. It can be turbulent out there.

Favorite books / authors: So many… right now I’m delving to an old favorite, Dorothy Alison. Love Sarah Waters, Emma Donoghue, Leslie Fienberg, Maya Angelou, Audre Niffenegger, Wally Lamb, Jewel Gomez- love historic fiction too.

Favorite bands/musicians: Totally depends on the mood. Sometimes it’s all about fun 50s music, sometimes bluegrass and country, Swing bands, sometimes it’s Bach, other times some actual contemporary music- Florence and the Machine, Michael Franti…

Favorite movies: Hmmm depends on the mood of course! For scary I love the Halloween/Friday 13th movies though I may have OD on them… love Iron Jawed Angels, Foxfire, Fried Green Tomatoes, Cold Mountain, The Green Mile, Fingersmith…

Favorite websites:

Favorite TV shows: I actually don’t have a television. Sometimes I watch shows online. Big Bang Theory always makes me happy.

Chocolate, Vanilla, or ALL the flavors? Somewhere in the middle

A silly thing you do when no one is watching: Laugh at the jokes in my head, get excited out loud about ideas I like.

What is your pet peeve: People being late and people not saying what they want to say

Favorite curse word: Jesus Fucking Christ, because it avenges my religious upraising. Sometimes it’s more of a "Christ on a cracker" muttering.

Favorite magazine:

A culture that intrigues you: Morman/YFZ and Amish/Mennonite

Do you like to dance? Yup. Can’t say I’m so good at it, but I do enjoy it. Not like club dancing stuff though- I love contra dancing, am learning swing dancing.

If you could change a law which would it be? Equal marriage rights, obviously. Black and white harsh laws for sex crimes- none of this plea bargaining stuff and wishwashy consequences.

Do you collect anything? 50s memorabilia and books.

If you could travel back in time, which year would you visit, and
why? 60s, massive political surging and emerging, good music, and fun clothes.

Would you ever have plastic surgery? I actually did, to repair a severed tendon. I made the guy promise not to touch my face or boobs. So,unless it was a medical necessity, no.

Your idea of a good meal: Local grown, flavorful, and cooked with someone I love while fun music is playing in the kitchen.


If you could be invisible, where would you go, what would you do and
what would you want to see? Jeeze, I have no idea.


Introvert or extrovert: I think I’m 50/50 depending on the situation.

Dream profession: Hmmm, restaurant critic? Bike tour guide?

What are your Hobbies: Cooking, reading, writing, biking, trying to teach my dog tricks…

Do you have Phobias, what are they?: Heights. I’m working on it, a little.

Do you believe in past lives? If yes, do you have any thoughts on
yours? Yes. When I was a kid I thought I was Harriet Tubman. Now I think that was because she was the first woman in history I ever learned about and I latched onto her. I have no idea who I’ve been.

What do you get complemented on most often? My hair, if we’re talking physical. My cooking if we’re talking talent.

What frustrates you most often about your body, ruling out weight as
an acceptable answer? That I’m not as toned as I used to be.

If given the magical gift to make three global changes, what would
they be? Everyone would be financial equal, universal health care, complete global intolerance of all “isms”

If you could walk in the shoes of one person for a day, whose shoes
would you choose? A neighbor of mine who I really admire. She’s in her 70s and her husband is in his 80s. She designed the house they live in to be completely solar powered, with everything on one level with wide doors for if either of them are wheelchair bound, they grow all of their own food and are all kinds of awesome. House includes a greenhouse in the bedroom so they can grow their greens/veggies all year long. She is so wise and calm and centered. I want to be her for a day.

Describe your religious / spiritual beliefs, if any: Atheist, but really interested in religion all the same.

Do you generally feel understood? As much as I think I should expect others to understand me.

Would you sacrifice your life if you could save the lives of ten
thousand others? Not while I have a child in my care, sorry.

Biggest concern about aging: Making sure my daughter is alright.

What were you like in high school? In the beginning- honestly, anorexic rock girl. By the end, still not eating much but more of a hippie intellect. I knuckled down and doubled up on classes to graduate early and get the hell out of there.

Is the idea of marriage appealing to you? If the right person came along, but it’s never been a big life goal.

Issues that you feel most passionate about: LGBTQ rights, ending domestic violence, ending poverty, balance of power, quality of food being produced and marketed in America.


The person whose opinion matters the most to you: My daughter, my family, my friends.

PART II: Love/Sexuality

Sexual orientation: Lesbian, embracing the femme side more as I grow.

How do you identify yourself : Femme, or femmish. Loosely defined. I totally have my femme side- but not one so deep that I wear makeup and fancy shoes. I think there’s a part in me that could but it would take a special someone to draw that out.

Current relationship status: Single. Wasn't that a prerequisite to filling this out?

What you look for in a partner: Connection, emotional and physical. Humor. My partner needs to make me laugh and they need to get my sometimes wacky sense of humor- or at least pretend to. Someone who will know that even though I’m a mother that they are also valued and loved. One who doesn’t get jealous about my parenting responsibilities. Someone open to trying new things with me and who will encourage me to try new things with them. Someone who can step out of their comfort zone once in a while. Communication is key- I need open honest communication. And if we don’t communicate the same way that we take the time to learn how the other communicates so we still can understand each other. I look for that electricity, passion, connection, and commitment.


The "type" of person you tend to attract: Thankfully, the butch type Also tend to attract more earthy, grounded people.

Number of times you've been in love: 2

What surprised you most the first time you fell in love? That is was so smooth and easy.

Monogamy or polyamory: Monogamy

Who would you have in your arms right now if it could be anybody in
the world? No one springing to mind. Well, maybe an ex who died about 6 years ago- I didn’t get to say goodbye to her.

Have you ever had a long-distance relationship? Nope

Have you ever had a successful long-term relationship with someone
you met online? No, but I haven’t tried either.

Age when you had your first kiss: Boy, 13. Girl on my 18th birthday.

Describe your best kiss: A woman I’d been flirting it up with for a while. When we first finally got to it we were holding each other and in this awesome kiss and I felt both of our stomachs jump at the same time. Outside of that first, I love just getting lost in it- feeling the knees get weak as it goes on…

Describe your last kiss: Conflicted, someone I was seeing casually but broke up with last month.

What are you most physically attracted to in women?: I like someone a bit taller and more stocky than I am. Eyes, I like eyes.They should have eyes.

What trait in a woman turns you off?: Crude behavior, smoking, excessive drinking.

PART III: SEX

The last person who saw you naked: The person from the last kiss mentioned above.

What are you self-conscious about naked? Um, maybe just that I’m not as toned as I have been.

When making love, making out, or just fucking etc. do you like the
lights on or off? Generally lights off because it feels more intense to me that way but I also love afternoon sex so there’s sunlight then and I’m cool with that.

Three things a person has done to you in a making out or sexual
situation that really turned you on: Telling me how much they want me and how, neck kissing, taking charge.

Three things a person has done to you in a making out or sexual
situation that turned you off: Being rough when I wanted soft. Not respecting what I want.

Have you ever taken naked pics / videos of yourself? Nope

Do you have any Fetishes: Not that I’m aware of

Name your fetishes:

Leather - yes or no?: Not that I’m aware of

BDSM - yes or no?: Nope

Have you ever had a one-night stand? Yes

My goodness I've answered so many questions I think I'll stop here

How often do you masturbate?

Are you trimmed, shaved, or completely natural?

[Girl_On_Fire]

The Single Butch-Femme Compatibility Questionnaire

QUESTIONNAIRE

PART I - General Info

Real Name (first only): Jaime

Age: 32

Astrological Sign: Saggitarius

Birth Date: 29th

Location: Connecticut

Height: 5'3"

Eye Color: Blue

Hair Color: Blonde

Piercings - how many & where: None

Tattoos - how many & where: None

Cat person or dog person: Cat

Job: Writer

What do you like about your job?: Writing, promoting

What do you loathe about your job?: Editing, taxes

Favorite books / authors: Dean Koontz, Stephen King, James Patterson

Favorite bands/musicians: Tori Amos, Pink, Linkin Park, The Cranberries, Depeche Mode

Favorite movies: Labryrinth, Legend, Halloween (1978), The Strangers

Favorite websites: ButchFemmePlanet, CuteOverload, DamnYouAutoCorrect, Facebook

Favorite TV shows: Hot in Cleveland, The Client List

Chocolate, Vanilla, or ALL the flavors? Chocolate please

A silly thing you do when no one is watching: Talk to myself

What is your pet peeve: People chewing noisily

Favorite curse word: Fuck

Favorite magazine: Don't read magazines

A culture that intrigues you: Native American

Do you like to dance? LOVE to dance

If you could change a law which would it be? Oh my. Just one?

Do you collect anything? I used to collect rocks but I left them in North Carolina

If you could travel back in time, which year would you visit, and
why? I don't know

Would you ever have plastic surgery? Not unless I got mangled in a car wreck

Your idea of a good meal: Anything home cooked and gluten free

If you could be invisible, where would you go, what would you do and
what would you want to see? Hmmmm

Introvert or extrovert: Introvert

Dream profession: Writer

What are your Hobbies: Hiking, reading

Do you have Phobias, what are they?: Bees and highways

Do you believe in past lives? If yes, do you have any thoughts on
yours? Oh yes. I'm an old soul.

What do you get complemented on most often? My hair, my eyes, my boobs lol!

What frustrates you most often about your body, ruling out weight as
an acceptable answer? It's very delicate and sensitive and allergic to everything

If given the magical gift to make three global changes, what would
they be? End poverty. Universal health care (with no strings attached). No discrimination, everybody lives equally.

If you could walk in the shoes of one person for a day, whose shoes
would you choose? I'm not sure

Describe your religious / spiritual beliefs, if any: I'm a spiritualist

Do you generally feel understood? No, not at all

Would you sacrifice your life if you could save the lives of ten
thousand others? Without hesitation

Biggest concern about aging: Losing control

What were you like in high school? Geeky, quiet, terrified

Is the idea of marriage appealing to you? It used to be...

Issues that you feel most passionate about: Bullying, equal rights

The person whose opinion matters the most to you: My aunt's

PART II: Love/Sexuality

Sexual orientation: Queer femme

How do you identify yourself (if you use and identity): Queer femme

Current relationship status: Single

What you look for in a partner: A strong, patient, calm person with a good heart and a spiritual side. Somebody with intellect and a sense of humor. Confidence and a take-charge attitude in the bedroom is a must.

The "type" of person you tend to attract: I tend to attract needy, clingy bois but I need to stop

Number of times you've been in love: Madly, completely, and totally committed? Twice.

What surprised you most the first time you fell in love? How intense it is

Monogamy or polyamory: I'm on the fence about that

Who would you have in your arms right now if it could be anybody in
the world? Yeah. Lemme skip that.

Have you ever had a long-distance relationship? Yes

Have you ever had a successful long-term relationship with someone
you met online? Yes. It was trying but yes.

Age when you had your first kiss: Boy: 14 Butch: 22

Describe your best kiss: I've had a few good kisses. The best is always the one where someone completely takes me over.

Describe your last kiss: Painful. Lots of tears.

What are you most physically attracted to in women?: Arms, Butt

What trait in a woman turns you off?: Being clingy, obsessive

PART III: SEX

The last person who saw you naked: Her

What are you self-conscious about naked? My stomach. I'm thin but it's not flat.

When making love, making out, or just fucking etc. do you like the
lights on or off? Lights off please

Three things a person has done to you in a making out or sexual
situation that really turned you on: Pulled that clump of hair at the crown of my head, bit me, held me down

Three things a person has done to you in a making out or sexual
situation that turned you off: Hesitating, stopping, being uncertain

Have you ever taken naked pics / videos of yourself? Yes, a few

Do you have any Fetishes: Yes

Name your fetishes: I like to suckle ears, I love being held down, I love being bitten

Leather - yes or no?: Yes, in my fantasies (It hasn't quite become a reality yet)

BDSM - yes or no?: I'm open

Have you ever had a one-night stand? Yes and I regret it

How often do you masturbate? Um...yeah. Skip!

Are you trimmed, shaved, or completely natural? That's my secret

[Girl_On_Fire]

Originally Posted by Apocalipstic

The Single Butch-Femme Compatibility Questionnaire
What you look for in a partner: Great sense of humor, very liberal views and very very very laid back with some laid back thrown in and not too much family stuff. Not quite a hot, comatose orphan, but almost. Must be 4:20 friendly!

LMAO! I cannot stop laughing at this description. A hot, comatose orphan. I need me one of these! LOL!

[AnnRkey]

[QUOTE=wetfromashower;555289]I saw this questionnaire in a few on online groups.. it helps break the ice and permits us to get to know one another intimately... Please keep in mind that if you feel uncomfortable answering any of the questions you don't have to answer them! This is to be used as an icebreaker only so that we may be better able to bring up topics of discussion through this thread. All in fun.

When Answering this Questionnaire - Copy n Paste this Questionnaire... Please State your Screen Name in the title with "My Answers"!

The Single Butch-Femme Compatibility Questionnaire

QUESTIONNAIRE

PART I - General Info

Real Name (first only): tan

Age: 32

Astrological Sign: Virgo

Birth Date: (day only - not year):21st

Location: land of 10,0000 lakes

Height: 5'10

Eye Color: brown

Hair Color: brown

Piercings - how many & where: none

Tattoos - how many & where:none

Cat person or dog person: dog

Job: Ho Chunk

What do you like about your job?:

What do you loathe about your job?:

Favorite books / authors: Harry potter

Favorite bands/musicians: Sleater Kinney, bikini kill, bratmobile, heavens to Betsy, BT, Above as Beyond, Ian Van Dahl, Morgan Page, Cascada, Bad Boi Bill, Tiesto,

Favorite movies: Harry potter Sherlock Holmes anything with Jet Li

Favorite websites: eh

Favorite TV shows: Merlin, Hell on Wheels, Regular Show

Chocolate, Vanilla, or ALL the flavors? Chocolate

A silly thing you do when no one is watching: dance

What is your pet peeve: fake wood trim on vehicles

Favorite curse word: F**k

Favorite magazine: eh?

A culture that intrigues you: My own, duh!

Do you like to dance? Yes

If you could change a law which would it be? Hmmm.. Good question

Do you collect anything? Rocks, and some DVDs


If you could travel back in time, which year would you visit, and
why? I guess the early 1400 to see what natives in North America did

Would you ever have plastic surgery? No I'm perfect

Your idea of a good meal: wild rice? BBQ chicken! And grilled corn on the cob

If you could be invisible, where would you go, what would you do and
what would you want to see? The 7 wonders of the world

Introvert or extrovert: extrovert

Dream profession: hmm not sure anymore

What are your Hobbies: eh, hanging out

Do you have Phobias, what are they?: snakes,

Do you believe in past lives? If yes, do you have any thoughts on
yours? It was a interesting and fun ride

What do you get complemented on most often? I guess my height?

What frustrates you most often about your body, ruling out weight as
an acceptable answer? Nothing really. I'm perfectly happy with what I am

If given the magical gift to make three global changes, what would
they be? Stop trying to make other cultures more like your own, that's it really

If you could walk in the shoes of one person for a day, whose shoes
would you choose? My own because I am awesome

Describe your religious / spiritual beliefs, if any: eh

Do you generally feel understood? Nope

Would you sacrifice your life if you could save the lives of ten
thousand others? Hmm... Would you?

Biggest concern about aging: my skin not feeling As soft

What were you like in high school? Typical teenager

Is the idea of marriage appealing to you? Eh

Issues that you feel most passionate about: eh

The person whose opinion matters the most to you: family?


PART II: Love/Sexuality

Sexual orientation: lesbian

How do you identify yourself (if you use and identity): human

Current relationship status: unattached

What you look for in a partner: humor, understanding

The "type" of person you tend to attract: weirdos and Nutjobs

Number of times you've been in love: 1

What surprised you most the first time you fell in love? Being happy?

Monogamy or polyamory:m

Who would you have in your arms right now if it could be anybody in
the world? Hmm

Have you ever had a long-distance relationship? Yes

Have you ever had a successful long-term relationship with someone
you met online?
Yes
Age when you had your first kiss:16

Describe your best kiss: kissing my natural enemy

Describe your last kiss: my nieces cute chubby cheek

What are you most physically attracted to in women?: long dark curly hair, brown eyes

What trait in a woman turns you off?: smoking



PART III: SEX

The last person who saw you naked: hahaha stash

What are you self-conscious about naked?
No
When making love, making out, or just fucking etc. do you like the
lights on or off? Either way

Three things a person has done to you in a making out or sexual
situation that really turned you on: resisting slightly, giggling, tossing hair back

Three things a person has done to you in a making out or sexual
situation that turned you off: awnsered phone, eh that was the most annoying

Have you ever taken naked pics / videos of yourself? Lol

Do you have any Fetishes: yes

Name your fetishes:hair

Leather - yes or no?: eh why not

BDSM - yes or no?:yes

Have you ever had a one-night stand?yes

How often do you masturbate?enough

Are you trimmed, shaved, or completely natural?shaved


not all questions need to be answered! this questionnaire is all in
friendly fun and used to introduce you to us and as an ice-breaker..
remember now.. all in fun![/QUO


Well that was kind of fun

[dixie]

The Single Butch-Femme Compatibility Questionnaire

QUESTIONNAIRE

PART I - General Info

Real Name (first only): Crystal

Age: 33

Astrological Sign: Leo *rawr*

Birth Date: (day only - not year): July 26

Location: middle-of-nowhere, NC

Height: 5'4" (and a half...almost)

Eye Color:blue

Hair Color: dark reddish brown (my Irish blood is showing)

Piercings - how many & where: 7 in my ears, 2 in left brow (totally missing my Marilyn that was yanked out *ouch*)

Tattoos - how many & where: 4 on my legs, 3 on my back, one regretful one on my hip

Cat person or dog person: both

Job: photographer

What do you like about your job?: I work for myself

What do you loathe about your job?: I work for myself

Favorite books / authors: way too many to list

Favorite bands/musicians: too many of those too, but since I own every released track by Rob Zombie, System of a Down, and Marilyn Manson, I would say that those are my most favorite

Favorite movies: mostly comedy or action

Favorite websites: i spend a lot of time on photography, marathon, and cheeseburger kitteh sites

Favorite TV shows: Destination Truth, True Blood, SVU

Chocolate, Vanilla, or ALL the flavors? depends on what it is

A silly thing you do when no one is watching: carry on full conversations with my pets

What is your pet peeve: lateness

Favorite curse word: FUCK

Favorite magazine: lately, Fitness and Good Housekeeping lol

A culture that intrigues you: Indian/Hindi

Do you like to dance? yes but I can't...just ask Wolfy who's been trying to teach me for a couple years now

If you could change a law which would it be? oh, don't get me started on that

Do you collect anything? i'm a bit of a pack-rat so I collect everything. Don't worry, I haven't hit hoarder proportions yet.


If you could travel back in time, which year would you visit, and
why? That's a hard one. I have no idea.

Would you ever have plastic surgery? probably...i need new boobs anyway

Your idea of a good meal: lately, there's no such thing for me lol

If you could be invisible, where would you go, what would you do and
what would you want to see? hehehehehehe....well ya see, I'm a bit of a perv so I had better just keep my mouth shut.

Introvert or extrovert: depends on the situation/location

Dream profession: marine biologist living mainly at sea and specializing in the study of my favorite creature, the Carcharodon carcharias...that is one dream that i had the chance to follow and did not, much to my regret

What are your Hobbies: wildlife photography, painting, crafts, reading, treasure hunting/scavenging, travel, writing/journaling/blogging, shelling, gaming

Do you have Phobias, what are they?: extreme fear of heights

Do you believe in past lives? If yes, do you have any thoughts on
yours? possibly; I have a few glimpses

What do you get complemented on most often? my eyes

What frustrates you most often about your body, ruling out weight as
an acceptable answer? that it does not work quite right these days

If given the magical gift to make three global changes, what would
they be? peace of course, positive changes in nature and atmosphere (does that count?), end of poverty

If you could walk in the shoes of one person for a day, whose shoes
would you choose? that is another hard one...

Describe your religious / spiritual beliefs, if any: raised strict Southern Baptist yet shook that aside for my own mixture of a more earthen Native American spirituality mixed with witchcraft mixed with Buddhist principles

Do you generally feel understood? ha! not even close

Would you sacrifice your life if you could save the lives of ten
thousand others? I would sacrifice my life to save the life of one, let alone ten thousand.

Biggest concern about aging: superficial vanity

What were you like in high school? awkward and bullied in the beginning, champion of underdogs at the end

Is the idea of marriage appealing to you? eh, it's not as distasteful as i used to feel that it was

Issues that you feel most passionate about: anything related to the abuse/mistreatment of animals, children, or women

The person whose opinion matters the most to you: my father's


PART II: Love/Sexuality

Sexual orientation: queer

How do you identify yourself (if you use and identity): queer femme

Current relationship status: single yet perhaps interested

What you look for in a partner: a connection

The "type" of person you tend to attract: breathing lol

Number of times you've been in love: After much internalization and circumspection....if I am brutally honest? 1 (I have loved them all, but only been "in love" with one)

What surprised you most the first time you fell in love? how bad it hurts when it ends

Monogamy or polyamory: whatever tickles my fancy at the time

Who would you have in your arms right now if it could be anybody in
the world? they know

Have you ever had a long-distance relationship? more than one

Have you ever had a successful long-term relationship with someone
you met online? define *success*

Age when you had your first kiss: don't remember trivial shit like that

Describe your best kiss: intense

Describe your last kiss: mediocre at best

What are you most physically attracted to in women?: everything

What trait in a woman turns you off?: i despise the conceited superficial people of any gender



PART III: SEX

The last person who saw you naked: my doctor, sad huh

What are you self-conscious about naked? everything

When making love, making out, or just fucking etc. do you like the
lights on or off? don't care

Three things a person has done to you in a making out or sexual
situation that really turned you on: it's easier just to figure those out

Three things a person has done to you in a making out or sexual
situation that turned you off: I'll let you know if you make this list

Have you ever taken naked pics / videos of yourself? of course

Do you have any Fetishes: I do

Name your fetishes: not your business

Leather - yes or no?: yes

BDSM - yes or no?: sure why not

Have you ever had a one-night stand? yes

How often do you masturbate? pfffft, every other day at minimum

Are you trimmed, shaved, or completely natural? shaved/waxed completely

[CharmingLee]

he Single Butch-Femme Compatibility Questionnaire

QUESTIONNAIRE

PART I - General Info

Real Name (first only): Lee

Age: 48

Astrological Sign: Gemini

Birth Date: (day only - not year): June 18

Location: Ohio

Height: 5’2”

Eye Color: Brown

Hair Color: Black with touches of grey

Piercings - how many & where:

Tattoos - how many & where: Astrological sign in back of my neck, Baby Sylvester on my left shoulder.

Cat person or dog person: DOG

Job: Inventory Specialist

What do you like about your job?: It’s pretty easy.

What do you loathe about your job?: Its boring.

Favorite books / authors: I’m not a big reader.

Favorite bands/musicians: Stained, Three Days Grace, Metallica

Favorite movies: The Borne Series, anything with Mark Walberg in it. All of the Bond movies.

Favorite websites: too many to list.

Favorite TV shows: The Big Bang Theory, CSI, Hoarders.

Chocolate, Vanilla, or ALL the flavors?: Vanilla

A silly thing you do when no one is watching: have conversations with my furbaby.

What is your pet peeve: Ignorant people.

Favorite curse word: Fuckmerunning.

Favorite magazine: don’t really have one.

A culture that intrigues you: Humans…lol

Do you like to dance? Oh heavens NO!

If you could change a law which would it be? Paying taxes.

Do you collect anything? Air.


If you could travel back in time, which year would you visit, and
why? I would visit one of my past lives just to see if it was a happy one.

Would you ever have plastic surgery? Yes, would love to have top surgery someday.

Your idea of a good meal: Anything Italian

If you could be invisible, where would you go, what would you do and
what would you want to see? This one would get me into way to much trouble.

Introvert or extrovert: Depends on the situation, but more introvert.

Dream profession: Graphic Designer.

What are your Hobbies: Playing video games.

Do you have Phobias, what are they?: Fear of heights.

Do you believe in past lives? If yes, do you have any thoughts on
yours? Yes.

What do you get complemented on most often? My smile.

What frustrates you most often about your body, ruling out weight as
an acceptable answer? It doesn’t match my brain.



Describe your religious / spiritual beliefs, if any: Spiritual without specific religion.

Do you generally feel understood? No really.

Would you sacrifice your life if you could save the lives of ten
thousand others? probably

Biggest concern about aging: Ending up alone in a nursing home somewhere.

What were you like in high school? A huge DORK.

Is the idea of marriage appealing to you? Maybe someday again.

The person whose opinion matters the most to you: Both of my parents.


PART II: Love/Sexuality

Sexual orientation: Butch, is that an orientation?

How do you identify yourself (if you use and identity): Butch leaning towards Trans.

Current relationship status: SINGLE

What you look for in a partner: Honesty, ability to be loving and caring.

The "type" of person you tend to attract: The wrong kind if you go by me past relationships.

Number of times you've been in love: Not sure it was ever true love.

Monogamy or polyamory: Monogamy.

Who would you have in your arms right now if it could be anybody in
the world? My soulmate.

Have you ever had a long-distance relationship? Yes.

Have you ever had a successful long-term relationship with someone
you met online? No long term, but successful ones.

PART III: SEX

The last person who saw you naked: been so long, cant remember.

What are you self-conscious about naked? All of it.

When making love, making out, or just fucking etc. do you like the
lights on or off? Off

Have you ever taken naked pics / videos of yourself? Pics, once.

Leather - yes or no?: No

BDSM - yes or no?: No

Have you ever had a one-night stand? Nope.

How often do you masturbate? Not very often.

[Sweet Bliss]

QUESTIONNAIRE

PART I - General Info

Real Name (first only): Laree

Age: 56

Astrological Sign: Scorpio

Birth Date: (day only - not year): Sunday 4th

Location: Fort Walton Beach

Height: 5'3"

Eye Color: green/gold flecks

Hair Color: light brown/ white lifetime achievement awards

Piercings - how many & where: 2 in each ear

Tattoos - how many & where: none

Cat person or dog person: Both

Vocation: Artist/Writer

What do you like about your vocation?: learning, expression, sharing, all of it.

What do you loathe about your vocation?: not a darn thing

Favorite books / authors: Michael Brown, Patti Digh, Eckhart Tolle and many others

Favorite bands/musicians: none. I enjoy all kinds of music

Favorite movies: Off the Map, African Queen, Fifth Element, many others

Favorite websites: Mine, BFP others

Favorite TV shows: Touch

Chocolate, Vanilla, or ALL the flavors? all of em baby!

A silly thing you do when no one is watching: don't know, I don't care if I'm being watched.

What is your pet peeve: cigarette butts on the ground

Favorite curse word: all of them

Favorite magazine: Coastal Living

A culture that intrigues you: all of them

Do you like to dance? do american babies wear diapers? what a silly question to ask me!

If you could change a law which would it be? Rape and molestation of children would be capital crime punishable by death. It is soul murder

Do you collect anything? experiences


If you could travel back in time, which year would you visit, and
why? Italian Renaissance, because it was exciting

Would you ever have plastic surgery? of course might need it some day

Your idea of a good meal: a shared one

If you could be invisible, where would you go, what would you do and
what would you want to see? This question is an essay answer

Introvert or extrovert: depends on situation

Dream profession: Butch Whisperer

What are your Hobbies: Life

Do you have Phobias, what are they?: bugs that bite

Do you believe in past lives? If yes, do you have any thoughts on
yours? yes. yes.

What do you get complemented on most often? Me

What frustrates you most often about your body, ruling out weight as
an acceptable answer? [COLOR="Indigo"] It's refusal to cooperate

If given the magical gift to make three global changes, what would
they be? detox. restore. expand.

If you could walk in the shoes of one person for a day, whose shoes
would you choose? Buddha

Describe your religious / spiritual beliefs, if any: Live simply, do no harm, give joyously

Do you generally feel understood? no, lol

Would you sacrifice your life if you could save the lives of ten
thousand others? no

Biggest concern about aging: aging

What were you like in high school? quiet, the out crowd

Is the idea of marriage appealing to you? no

Issues that you feel most passionate about: sharing resources, food for all, clean water

The person whose opinion matters the most to you: mine and the people I communicate with


PART II: Love/Sexuality

Sexual orientation: Loving

How do you identify yourself (if you use and identity): femme/lipsick lesbian/lesbian feministWoman first, Femme second

Current relationship status: solo

What you look for in a partner: Compassion, empathy, humor, passion, wit, spiritual center, kindness, receprocity, etc

The "type" of person you tend to attract: Life lessons

Number of times you've been in love: all the time

What surprised you most the first time you fell in love? How natural it feels.

Monogamy or polyamory: Monogamous

Who would you have in your arms right now if it could be anybody in
the world? my Butterscotch Cowboy

Have you ever had a long-distance relationship? yes

Have you ever had a successful long-term relationship with someone
you met online? hell no

Age when you had your first kiss: 16

Describe your best kiss: her eyes rolled back in her head, almost fell on the floor

Describe your last kiss: I hope it wasn't my last one.

What are you most physically attracted to in women?: confidence

What trait in a woman turns you off?: cruelty