What TO DO in a relationship..... - Page 11

Abigail Crabby · 09-23-2011, 07:29 AM

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Originally Posted by LaneyDoll

OMG you are so right!!! Even words that seem harmless carry a huge sting. I will get over the fight but those words stick. I always wonder, "Do I really seem needy/ridiculous/mean?"

Indeed, is there ever a reason to call someone stupid or be hateful. How can someone say they love you when all that comes from their mouth are obscenties about you?

Tawse · 09-23-2011, 07:37 AM

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Originally Posted by Abigail Crabby

How can someone say they love you when all that comes from their mouth are obscenties about you?

That should TOTALLY be left for sex

lol

Abigail Crabby · 09-23-2011, 07:39 AM

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Originally Posted by Tawse

That should TOTALLY be left for sex

lol

True dat - lol

Abigail Crabby · 09-23-2011, 07:40 AM

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Originally Posted by Tawse

She better not touch my ice cream.. them's fighten words.. O.o I'll buy her her own ice cream.. or make her her own dish... O.o lol

somethings are just sacred lol

I don't know if I could stick to that lol - I just know the Meester is gonna buy something I didn't think I wanted and now do want. hehehehehe

Bard · 09-23-2011, 08:04 AM

I share my Ice Cream with Desd and she with me unless she get some icky mix that is then she is on her own
we just have to watch out for the ice cream sniffing cat who will beg and try everything to get a lick

Tawse · 09-23-2011, 08:10 AM

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Originally Posted by Abigail Crabby

I don't know if I could stick to that lol - I just know the Meester is gonna buy something I didn't think I wanted and now do want. hehehehehe

Gillian can't stand dark chocolate - but just let me get some new dark chocolate something or another - she HAS to have a taste. I tell her "you won't like it" but she doesn't care. So she gets it.. tries it.. spits it out and all I can do is mourn the death of that bit of dark chocolate she spit out.

Abigail Crabby · 09-23-2011, 08:25 AM

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Originally Posted by Tawse

Gillian can't stand dark chocolate - but just let me get some new dark chocolate something or another - she HAS to have a taste. I tell her "you won't like it" but she doesn't care. So she gets it.. tries it.. spits it out and all I can do is mourn the death of that bit of dark chocolate she spit out.

OMG that is just not right !!!! Dark Chocolate is to be revered and savored.........I mourn with you my friend.......but I do understand her need to try.....it's innate......Yours just might taste better than mine lol

Liam · 09-23-2011, 09:13 AM

Own your own projections, or they will eat up energy and intimacy in your relationship.

Jess · 09-23-2011, 09:36 AM

Realize each moment is a future memory. Make as many good as you can.

Lazy Daze · 09-23-2011, 09:37 AM

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Originally Posted by Bard

I share my Ice Cream with Desd and she with me unless she get some icky mix that is then she is on her own
we just have to watch out for the ice cream sniffing cat who will beg and try everything to get a lick

Desd is as lucky as me! I eat his yummy chocolate gelatto and ice cream, and then go eat the flavors he buys for me!

Guy · 09-23-2011, 09:46 AM

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Originally Posted by Lazy Daze

Desd is as lucky as me! I eat his yummy chocolate gelatto and ice cream, and then go eat the flavors he buys for me!

uhh I hate to break it to you BUT one of your's is already El Gono.

Lazy Daze · 09-23-2011, 09:51 AM

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Originally Posted by Guy

uhh I hate to break it to you BUT one of your's is already El Gono.

OH NO U DIDN'T!! Lol...its ok honey, I know I can sweet talk you into more when I get there

girl_dee · 09-25-2011, 05:59 AM

Be present with them, what's so hard about that?

justkim · 09-25-2011, 12:06 PM

Keep it private...

Dreams · 09-25-2011, 12:36 PM

if you are having doubts or you are interested in someone else don't tell the the person you are presently speaking to in pm or an e-mail (weeks later)...you just look like a player and a coward..some might also see it as cheating ..especially if you were talking to this other person while you were creating a new romance..it can also create bad feelings and little chance of a friendship later down the line..

on the other hand it lets the person know exactly were you you stand as a person, your maturity level, any level of hope for a future/present serious relationship ..if you want an adult relationship then act like one..

girl_dee · 09-27-2011, 07:11 PM

always follow through with promises..........

Amber2010 · 09-28-2011, 07:58 AM

Respect the other person and always forgive.
Forgiveness helps the heart grow.

redrose · 09-28-2011, 08:47 AM

be committed,,, love is not just a feeling it is also a decision

ruffryder · 09-28-2011, 08:48 AM

"A great relationship is based on two main principles. First, appreciate your similarities, and second, respect your differences."

justkim · 09-28-2011, 10:20 AM

Some time's it isn't about WHAT you do so much as HOW you do it... This is a lesson I am learning...

09-23-2011, 08:04 AM	#205
Bard Family Man How Do You Identify?: TG Male Preferred Pronoun?: Masculine ones Relationship Status: She just gets me Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: ..... Posts: 2,828 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 2,997 Thanked 12,786 Times in 2,431 Posts Rep Power: 21474853	I share my Ice Cream with Desd and she with me unless she get some icky mix that is then she is on her own we just have to watch out for the ice cream sniffing cat who will beg and try everything to get a lick __________________ This is ten percent luck, twenty percent skill Fifteen percent concentrated power of will Five percent pleasure, fifty percent pain And a hundred percent reason to remember the name! Give yourself over to absolute pleasure. Swim the warm waters of sins of the flesh - erotic nightmares beyond any measure, and sensual daydreams to treasure forever. Can't you just see it? Don't dream it, be it.

09-23-2011, 09:13 AM	#208
Liam Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Guy Preferred Pronoun?: He, Him, His Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: The Evergreen State Posts: 2,269 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 14,865 Thanked 6,909 Times in 1,862 Posts Rep Power: 21474853	Own your own projections, or they will eat up energy and intimacy in your relationship. __________________ <3 Love is weird.

09-25-2011, 12:06 PM	#214
justkim Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Me... Preferred Pronoun?: ... Relationship Status: <3 myself Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: ... Posts: 2,023 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 3,062 Thanked 6,801 Times in 1,553 Posts Rep Power: 21474853	Keep it private... __________________ Kim "A word of encouragement during a failure is worth more than an hour of praise after success." - Unknown -

09-25-2011, 12:36 PM	#215
Dreams In memory of How Do You Identify?: self proclaimed ruler of nekid monday's Preferred Pronoun?: Hey you.. Relationship Status: busy.. Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: over there~~> Posts: 398 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 712 Thanked 804 Times in 255 Posts Rep Power: 10433810	moving into a friendship after a failed relationship.. if you are having doubts or you are interested in someone else don't tell the the person you are presently speaking to in pm or an e-mail (weeks later)...you just look like a player and a coward..some might also see it as cheating ..especially if you were talking to this other person while you were creating a new romance..it can also create bad feelings and little chance of a friendship later down the line.. on the other hand it lets the person know exactly were you you stand as a person, your maturity level, any level of hope for a future/present serious relationship ..if you want an adult relationship then act like one.. __________________ DREAMS.... It is good to have an end to journey towards, but it is the journey that matters in the end. Ursula Le Guin

09-28-2011, 08:47 AM	#218
redrose Member How Do You Identify?: femme Preferred Pronoun?: she Relationship Status: at peace Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Philippines Posts: 291 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 62 Thanked 251 Times in 122 Posts Rep Power: 276023	be committed,,, love is not just a feeling it is also a decision __________________ ... death leaves a heartache no one can heal, love leaves a memory no one can steal ... http://youtu.be/N0SgLJEtaok

09-23-2011, 09:36 AM	#209
Jess Timed Out - Permanent How Do You Identify?: decidedly indifferent Preferred Pronoun?: other Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Patrick Springs, VA Posts: 2,812 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 9,247 Thanked 5,703 Times in 1,684 Posts Rep Power: 0	Realize each moment is a future memory. Make as many good as you can.

09-25-2011, 05:59 AM	#213
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09-27-2011, 07:11 PM	#216
girl_dee Practically Lives Here How Do You Identify?: Femme Preferred Pronoun?: dee Relationship Status: Hitched up Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Livin’ the Dream Posts: 24,079 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 30,560 Thanked 54,956 Times in 13,922 Posts Rep Power: 21474873	always follow through with promises..........

09-28-2011, 07:58 AM	#217
Amber2010 Member How Do You Identify?: Happy, Crazy, Bubbly, Funny, Strong, Outgoing, Friendly Preferred Pronoun?: Femme Relationship Status: Complicated Join Date: Jun 2011 Location: Florida Posts: 200 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 920 Thanked 594 Times in 154 Posts Rep Power: 3787183	Respect the other person and always forgive. Forgiveness helps the heart grow.

09-28-2011, 08:48 AM	#219
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09-28-2011, 10:20 AM	#220
justkim Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Me... Preferred Pronoun?: ... Relationship Status: <3 myself Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: ... Posts: 2,023 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 3,062 Thanked 6,801 Times in 1,553 Posts Rep Power: 21474853	Some time's it isn't about WHAT you do so much as HOW you do it... This is a lesson I am learning... __________________ Kim "A word of encouragement during a failure is worth more than an hour of praise after success." - Unknown -