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The documentary "For the Bible Tells Me So" has just started on the Sundance Channel. We hosted this film as part of Pride Charlotte in the past but I was never able to attend the showings.
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that my baby niece is theeeeee most adorable sweet lil girl ever...
my stepsister arrived yesterday and i very rarely get to spend time with my niece because they live in another province.. she was 1 yr old in May, and she's grown sooo sooo much!! and she's so smart like her Auntie syl !
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my conversation last night, listening to her talk to me
i felt every ounce of compassion Equal |
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It might not seem so but I am trying. Too much? Too little?
I am not good at this stuff. |
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Five years ago this month, I began the process of "coming out" by telling my husband (of 12 years). He then helped me by angrily outing me to our families and a few of our friends. His gay brother tried to tell me that I was coming out "too late" for women that come out in their later years. My very lesbian (and quite lesbian chic) therapist told "I don't think you are gay." She of course was no different than the women I met when I was younger in the military. Apparently being pretty wasn't gay enough for them. Wanting to wear my heels, my makeup and my hair stylish - wasn't militant lesbian enough.
Then there was "The Butch" who really was just one of those militant lesbians styling herself as butch. She said she wanted to help me understand what a real lesbian is, all the while purporting to tell me what a "Femme's" role was. She, in all honestly, was a lazy woman who wanted someone to clean and pick up after her all the time while hiding behind the Butch Femme status. Thinking a lot lately about the road that led me to this point.. to here. Have had a lot of Butch / Femme friends come and go over the past few years. Met some wonderful BF couples, that have shown me the amazing possibilities out there. Dated one woman who will never come out. Not that you couldn't tell by looking at her, but she just won't. Fear of family and her church - she came out to me. We've been close friends practically our entire life. It turned out, that I was safe for her. Safe can leave a person very lonely. And lonely hurts in a whole variety of ways. Safe can also lead you to dark areas, you never thought you'd tread. I don't require that my partner be screaming in the streets, but it was hard when my Dad died and she was there in a "just friends" capacity. Likewise when hers passed away. How could one mourn, worried that someone "might see"? Yep, I've met a couple of you who in the end, broke my heart. But truthfully, as painful as it was, that had never happened before. The closest thing I could ever relate to it up until I came out, was anything involving my children. And for the joy of feeling love, I will hang on to the roller coaster with all my strength. To know and feel love and feel that love being returned.. FINALLY... feel it. Yeah, it hurts like hell sometimes - but.. life's funny - and .. I have come out of all of these things ... better for them. The best is yet to come. I tuck my memories in a special place in my heart. They make me who I am today, a kick ass, beautiful femme !!! {/scota tangent off}
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06-19-2010, 12:13 PM | #3028 |
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What is on my mind is how come people lie to cover their true self. I guess that they haven't grown up yet. I just don't know. |
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Well, day 2 of giving the cats their new medicine and I only got a little scratch on my forehead from one of them. I washed and got the peroxide right away. Good thing I'm still taking antibiotics. Only 8 more days of chasing 13 cats all over the house to give them pills. Dang, I'm tired already. It takes 2 of us to get the pills down them and they aren't any happier about it than we are. I certainly hope when it's all over that we don't have to go through it again. I want Shadow and Mama Kitty better and whichever one is the carrier. I'm just sorry we have to medicate all of them because of it. Poor Webster peed himself, he was so scared when I grabbed him. He's the kitty that doesn't like to be touched by people. He's been that way from the time we trapped him as a baby with his brothers. So, between the cats and mowing this weekend, I'm certainly getting a workout. My poor aching back and another reason to pop another kind of pill into my mouth.
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I should be in bed now but I'm totally wired. I need to find a way to bottle this energy so I can pull it out tomorrow, when I fall into my late morning slump.
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I'm gonna pretend I'm feeling ok for a couple if hours then I'm probably gonna take myself to the ER. I haven't kept and food water or water or meds down since Thursday. and since I can't get this nausea under control it's time to get someone else to give it a go.
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Texas GOP Platform--wtf.
The 2010 GOP platform in Texas supports laws that criminalize sodomy and suggests that straight people who support same-sex marriage should be penalized with jail time.The GOP platform was quoted as openly stating:
“We oppose the legalization of sodomy. We demand that Congress exercise its authority granted by the U.S. constitution to withhold jurisdiction from the federal courts from cases involving sodomy,” the GOP platform reads. Meaning that even though the U.S. Supreme Court overturned sodomy laws last decade (ironically in a case that stemmed from Texas), Texas Republicans would like the state to have the power to criminalize LGBT folks for having sex. “We support legislation that would make it a felony to issue a marriage license to a same-sex couple and for any civil official to perform a marriage ceremony for such,” reads the GOP platform. If a straight person were to aid and abet a gay couple with marriage in Texas, th GOP would like to see that person serve mandatory jail time. “We believe that the practice of homosexuality tears at the fabric of society, contributes to the breakdown of the family unit, and leads to the spread of dangerous, communicable diseases,” the platform reads. http://gltnewsnow.com/2010/06/19/tex...rt-gay-rights/ http://www.1888932-2946.ws/TexasGOP/...T_PLATFORM.pdf |
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We live an hour away from each other and yesterday "J" worked a twelve hour day, went home made sure kids were ok, and took them to their dads, and drove over here to spend time with me... I cooked her spaghettie, texas garlic toast, and brownie since she loves chocolate.. Made a her a bubble bath, and let her relax.. She passed out dead asleep for 12 hours. Then when she woke up she looked at me with those beautiful eyes and smiled that beautiful smile, and I melted all over again...
On my mind is that and how funny it is that once I revamped my list, someone who I thought I would never date completely takes my breath away.... |
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Being u are giveing the cats meds have u tryed geting a syringe and crushing the pills and mixing them in some cream or milk.Then just slide the syrings in the corner of the mouth and squirting the meds in.do make shure u crush the pills real good and the hole at then end of the syringe is big enough for the meds to get through.Or mix it with some food they like and see if they will eat it.This works for me when I need to give my fur kids meds they dont want.Good luck buddy.
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