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08-13-2012, 10:49 PM
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Non-packing butches
I read the "Packing 101" thread, and rather than derail it, I'm curious if I'm the only butch here who doesn't pack, and has no interest in packing?
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08-14-2012, 07:26 AM
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I don't pack, have no desire to do so. it causes me more dysphoria. Toys during play time are ok, that doesn't bother me. but, it totally messes with my mind that the "packer" ...comes off...
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08-14-2012, 08:07 AM
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For me, i prefer a non -packing butch ! |
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08-14-2012, 08:59 AM
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I know of one that doesn't pack, though she doesn't come to this site, either.
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08-14-2012, 09:06 AM
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LOL. Why am I admitting that I don't pack? I figured maybe if I felt more male-oriented I would, but I definitely identify as a female and prefer female pronouns.
Eh, it's just a thought. Sue
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08-14-2012, 09:39 AM
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08-14-2012, 09:44 AM
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Pack or don't pack. It doesn't make anyone less or more butch either way. Do whatever you want.
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08-14-2012, 02:04 PM
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I think it's safe to say I'm just me, and take it or leave it, you know? Doesn't mean we're bad butches. Sue
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08-14-2012, 10:26 AM
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So does that make her c*ck a Femme c*ck, because she is not male ID'ing? hell no! I love the fact that for HER, she can feel comfortable in her own skin and with or without packing. Same as for everyone else. Find what is comfortable and TRUE for you, and live that life! |
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08-14-2012, 10:36 AM
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08-14-2012, 11:05 AM
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08-14-2012, 12:23 PM
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<---not a fan of wearing makeup, still as femme as they come.
pack, don't pack, doesn't change who you are. There are butches on this site who don't use c*cks at all, so I hardly think you are alone.
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08-14-2012, 12:34 PM
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I have packed in the past both soft and hard, but have not in a long time.
Nothing wrong with doing it or not doing it just depends on your preference.
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08-14-2012, 07:13 PM
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Packing? Awkward!
Okay I am a cop...when I am asked if I am packing...forgive the "deer in the headlights" look you get! I just never know how to answer that question..."yes and no!" "yes and yes" or "no and yes"....tonight the answer is yes and no...I am home. Someone will figuer that one out!
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08-14-2012, 07:21 PM
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I think it comes down to personal preference and in my mind there is no debating a personal choice. I'm weird like that.
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08-14-2012, 08:34 PM
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So are we talking "heat" or cock? If so, then I prefer Yes and Yes. The cock definitely turns me on, and the .40 cal. makes up for the height discrepency. (Or is it the other way around?) (tippy-toeing out of the room now...) |
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08-14-2012, 09:18 PM
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i'm packing right now, for the Reunion! It's going to be a tight squeeze!
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09-09-2012, 01:17 PM
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I do not pack, nor have I ever. I may be young, but I'm fully aware that I don't need to pack to know I am butch. I am just as much of one whether I pack or I don't. We all have things that make us who we are, and we are no more or less without said traits. So, does that make me less of a butch? no. not at all. We were made to be our own versions, not copies of another type. We're all still who we are. I'm still a young, dapper butch, without anything between my legs. I am me, and that's what counts.
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09-09-2012, 01:25 PM
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If a butch I am seeing wants to soft pack, I say go for it. It's none of my business really. If she wants me to groove on it, it's going to be disappointing for her because I just don't. It doesn't do a thing for me.
I hear about femmes who scrape it with their nails and share that MOMENT, that acknowledgement of difference, and I think, wow, we are so not the same. Seriously. I love those moments of acknowledgement with butches or femmes. That frisson of recognition of who we are. That delicious exchange. But the softpack as a signifier of gender is not erotic for me. It is not a manifestation of masculinity that I find hot or even interesting. If someone were to wear it and not need me to interact with it in that way, then we'd be good. It wouldn't mean I didn't see them for who they are or that I wouldn't groove on their masculine presentation. |
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I pack
I pack on certain occasions depending on what I have plan for us. I love to pack when I go out dancing. I know femmes that love the feel while dancing.
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