Femme with "Rough and Tumble" Seeks Butch Daddy/Dom

[KeriLeigh]

Good morning! I am seeking a Butch/Daddy/Dom for an LTR in San Francisco Bay Area

About me:

I identify as queer. I am also kinky. I am a switch, heavy bottom, Top to most, but have a strong submissive/girl side to me. However, it takes a lot of trust for me to "go there".

I am a presenter in the local San Francisco Bay Area BDSM community. I have also presented at NWLC, IMsL, KinkFest, and Folsom Fringe. Teaching is a passion fof mine and a way for me to give back to my community. I am also the Educational Program Director for one of the local dungeon spaces in San Francisco. So, yeah, you could pretty much say that BDSM/Leather is a huge part of my life.

However, there is more to me than just the kink...

I love big dogs. Golden Retrievers. Bloodhounds. Great Danes. If they weigh more than I do, I squeal like an eight year old. I would love to raise a puppy with someone.

I am a femme and tend to be attracted to confident butches.

I am what you would call a "late bloomer". I was that girl in high school who dressed in all black and read "The Bell Jar" and who people now find on Facebook and say, "Wow! I can't believe this is actually you!" I really am like a fine wine. I just get better and better with age.

Children and animals love me. The feeling is mutual.

I enjoy a healthy lifestyle. I work out at least five times a week. Lately, I have become addicted to spin classes. I eat really healthy. Coffee, however, is a whole other issue. Hey, we all gotta have a vice or two, right?

I believe that physical chemistry is important but that shared values and emotional, intellectual and spiritual connection are even more crucial for a lasting relationship. Because hey, after we both are no longer stoned out of our minds from all of that Dopamine and Norepinephrine swirling around in our bodies, we are going to need something to actually work with, right? Have I mentioned that I am both a romantic and a realist?

I have an amazing smile. It gets me out of (and into!) a lot of trouble.

I am a girlie girl but I also love to wear combat boots.

I am anything but "ordinary" and can be described as "alternative" and "open-minded" in nature, but I am also an old fashioned girl at heart. Chivalry is a turn on.

I love farmers markets, independent film, writing, and reading.

I am an introvert who passes for an extrovert. I love to be social, but I also value my "alone time".

In order to get my co-workers to actually read my emails, I always write some "off the wall" haiku at the end.

I am a sucker for butches who wear suits and ties. Swoon!

I tend to be cautious but am working on being more adventurous. Example: I am terrified of heights and sharks, so I am considering taking up scuba and/or skydiving.

I am loyal, passionate, sensitive, have a wonderful sense of humor and can be downright feisty at times.

Chosen family is really important to me.

When I am feeling overwhelmed, I like to take walks on the beach and watch the waves come in and out. It helps me put things in perspective, realizing that in the scheme of things, I am pretty insignificant, which helps me to get over myself.

I am looking for a Butch/Daddy/Dom who will treat me like a princess and who I can treat like a King.

So, are you out there?

xoxo,
Keri