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Old 09-20-2010, 08:12 AM   #21
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I am grateful for the cats. The two indoor and the seven feral.

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I feel like a copycat, lol...

I am grateful for our Cats.

I am grateful for Cherries.

I am grateful for Clouds.

I am grateful for Computers--yours as well as mine!

I am grateful for second Chances in life.
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Old 09-20-2010, 09:41 AM   #24
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"Love you baby" morning Calls on the way to work, even though we just kissed goodbye.

Coffee with yummy Creme Brulee' creamer (sometimes it's the simple things)

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Computers to find and keep in contact with all of you and my honey

Cats, even though my honey's allergic

Circus peanuts!!!!

Coral, because it looks so pretty underwater (and is good for the environment)

Cops and counselors, for helping to control the idiocity of all of us at one point or another

Carol Burnett

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Calculators, for adding and subtracting without taxing my brain

Comedy, for lightening the mood and raising spirits everywhere
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I am grateful for...

Daily doses of love from family & friends.

Daily affirmations that keep me on the positive path.

Spending time with my Dad

Dancing

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~My Daughter

~Dell Children's Medical Center

~My Dog, Lucy

~Doing chores

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I am grateful for the beauty of Dusk.
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my Daughters.
for each Dawn I continue to revel in.
for Desserts I have yet to devour.
for the calm, serene feeling of Dusk each evening.
for anticipated Decadence I shall have in this lifetime.
for the Desire's I've yet to behold.

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I am greateful for this Day, even with its challenges for it has taught me much.

I am greatful for my Daughter. I hope where ever she is, she is safe, warm, and happy. I hope she writes me soon.

I am greatful for my Dad, because he chose to be more than a father.

I am greatful for my Daddy, cause being his grl is warm precious and safe.

I am greatful for my Dogs- Joxer the mighty and Moose the galoof.

I am greatful for my Dinner- for it was fun to make, and even better to eat.

I am greatful, yes, greatful, for Dont Ask, Dont Tell, because really, really, really, I was not meant to be the Army Nurse that I was so sure I wanted to be at 17, and stupid. Thank you Fates.

I am greatful for my Dragon, stuffed with love from the bear factory place, cause she gives me comfort when Im fussy.

I am greatful for Dylan, cause he has grown into a friend that I respect and learn from.

I am greatful for Disney, cause I need to have fairy tale happy ever afters, they are better than SSRI, with less side effects.

I am greatful for Dr. Bill. For 8 years, but really, only today. And the lesson in that. Peace on you sir.
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pizza and other Deliveries.

Decent sleep on a regular basis.

being a Dork. cuz it's Dandy fun!

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Today I am grateful for:

Dandelions!! I love Dandelions! I love how they pepper the ground with glowing gold floral sunshine!

Dogs.........well.......... I LOVE the dogs....... I'm not so certain I'm grateful for them right now. But I do love them!......... oh okay, yes, I'm gratfeul for the dogs.

DEALS... Today I found pork butt roasts on sale for--get THIS--49 cents a pound! We bought them all; half of one is in the crockpot, three and a half are in the freezer, one is going to our neighbors who have been pretty good to us.

Oh. I shoulda put the Crockpot on C day! Ooops.

I'm also grateful for clean Dishes.

Dessert.... jellybeans were on sale. We really like jellybeans at That House. (well. NOT the blue ones, omg wth WAS that flavor?! Ewww!)

Dark. I love the nighttime, so quiet and peaceful.
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Desserts
Domiciles
Downloaded music
Down pillows and comforters
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OK, so today I believe is brought to us, by the letter E

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Eggs. They are a strong source of my protein, and there are some pretty purple pickled ones Paphigleo made last night

the _book_ "Eat Pray Love". Because I needed to learn it was ok to grieve a past relationship. And for all the stories, the quotes, the ways I related.

Early mornings- when Im NOT working, where I can enjoy sunrises. I love the way the fill me with hope.

Evita. Cause I love to sing Dont Cry For Me Argentina in the shower
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I am grateful for my Eyes and all they see.

I am grateful for Email.

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I am grateful for...

Elaine, better known as my momma, whose love always unconditional.

Early mornings, when the house is quiet and still.

Every smile that crosses my path during the day.
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The Elephant in the room. (if it makes for a good conversation)

Education.

Erogenous zones.

Exotic anything. (except a flu)

repeat of Eyes and Eggs.

my Ears.

Estrogen blockers.
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I am grateful for:

Eggs

Eclairs (mmmm *dreaming*)

Extra-special deals... lol, yes, still jazzed about yesterday's find!

Elm trees

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