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Old 09-23-2010, 07:38 AM   #41
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I am grateful each & every day for...

Family ~ the neverending unconditional love.

Friends ~ who are more like family and for new friendships that continue to grow.

Friday night date nights

and Starbucks Vanilla Frapps
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Old 09-23-2010, 11:50 AM   #43
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Friends and Family.

the Future.

the invention of Fall-arrests. (used for climbing, not seasonal jailing)

Fruit, both plant and people.

Fun.

"Fake" people. they make the "real" ones that much more special.

(I'm diggin this thread, Thank you!)
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Old 09-23-2010, 12:27 PM   #44
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Friends and Family, both chosen and birth

Fudge

Fresh produce, especially Fruit

Furbabies

FALL! (the season, not the climbing accident) *cheeky grin*

Fun with my darlin

Fridges with Freezers

Fruit popsicles--that one's Gryph's!
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my Family

my Faith

Feathers..those wonderful long hairs under a butch's, trans, FtM's arms

Faux fur coats...I love my silver fox long coat!


face book

friendships

fonzie ..... AAAAYyyyyEEEEE

face make up...needing some new stuff!

fancy dresses...for the reunion!

Fashionable fall wear. My favorite of all seasons for clothes!
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Old 09-24-2010, 08:23 AM   #48
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I am grateful for Gifts. Those I receive and those I give myself.

I am grateful for Golf, something I haven't done in ages.

What Gs are you grateful for?

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I am grateful for...

an amazing girlfriend that loves me, flaws & all.

Good food shared with good friends.

Girls date nights.

the gift of giving.
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Old 09-24-2010, 09:57 AM   #50
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i am grateful for:

grandparents - love and cherish them!
godmother - Irene, miss her tremendously, RIP .. ♥
good friends! - i'm so lucky!
guitars - that make awesome music - louder the better!
tags & graphics - allows me a venue for my creativity, and to destress
grey's anatomy - ♥
gay girl - & proud..
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my Grandfather. I'm still learning things from him, he's been gone for 23 years.

my Grand-nephews. Another Generation of Goofballs.

Goofyness.

ex-Girlfriends. I've learned, thank you to all. (and I forgot them on E)

a Gentle kiss
a Gentle rain
a Gentle breeze

my Greek and German friends. (and their mothers/g-mothers who invite me to eat!)
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I am grateful for...

Gratitude itself! I am so grateful that I can feel gratitude, and that I can show gratitude. I always want to be the kind of person who doesn't take life for granted--I always want to have a sense of the specialness, the wonder, the gift of it all. I like the way gratitude feels from the inside.
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Great Grandparents. I met and loved each of mine, and know that I walk with lots of angels looking over me.

Garmin/ GPS I would get lost in a paper sak on my own, and nearly did so many times, without its help

Gaia- for renuing my soul and helping me find center over and over again
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I am grateful for GARLIC (especially when I make garlic bread bruschetta for my Baby Girl )

I am grateful for GOING for a drive with my sexy Baby Girl

I am grateful for my Girl and Gorgeous eyes and the way they sparkle and look a bit feisty when she looks at me
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I am grateful for GARLIC (especially when I make garlic bread bruschetta for my Baby Girl )

I am grateful for GOING for a drive with my sexy Baby Girl

I am grateful for my Girl and Gorgeous eyes and the way they sparkle and look a bit feisty when she looks at me
I am sooooo grateful for Garlic, as well.

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I really appreciate you all joining me in this. I read your replies and can't help but think how I am grateful for the same things you are posting and I wonder why I didn't think of that myself.

Please keep your gratitudes coming.

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I am grateful for my Home.

I am grateful for my Health.

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Holiday food. at least the stuff I only eat that once a year.
Hasbro. for their toys and games.
my Hands, Heart, and Head
Hard work. of all kinds. It has great rewards.
Happy thoughts, times, and endings.
Hard Hats. especially the one that saved my Head.
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