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if you like something say so if you don't like something say so from everything from sex to supper open your mouth Don't appease each other. we are all different and it's ok to say so
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We do this.
I celebrate when I don't have to make a bank run after work. I'm already tired and cranky and it saves me about 20 minutes of time (plus mileage, etc), so that makes for a happier, less cranky but probably equally tired me when I get home and that means Ebon deals with less crankiness in general, which makes him super happy. |
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If your gf/bf is having a hard day, BE THERE FOR HER/HIM! I don't care if you don't know what to do, it's okay because you don't have to fix it! At least say, "I'm here for you."
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Yep. I agree Knowing your partner is by your side should be a no brained. But a lot of people confuse wanting support as them fixing it. I don't need you to fix it I can handle whatever. I just want a partner who says I'm here WE will get through this. Not someone who is just running their mouth but who backs it up. I'm tired of this issue myself. Great point Starbuck r
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Always treat her like the Princess she is! Let the same wonderful, silly, romantic loving emotions remain constant!
Be able to "walk the walk as well as talk the talk" Be best friends! Never, ever go to bed angry or leave angry! Make your bedroom the loving fields NOT a battle field. Allow for one another to have the girls/ nights and the bois' nights. Don;t try to be joined at the hip! Remember special dates.....make an ordinary day be a SPECIAL day...for no reason other than she IS special and your Princess! Make love to her in every way...be it a special lunch packed with a love note in it OR a lipsticked I LOVE YOU on the mirror....or maybe just spend quiet, cuddle time alone...kissing slowly, and caressing her shoulders... Leave a single rose on her windsheild at work. Pack a special picnic and whisk her away from on a surprise visit. Tell her how amazingly wonderful she is. Let your heart be open and forgiving of small, inconsequential stuff Protect her fiercely always!!! never lose a second to tell her how you feel....this is very important to me...and I live by it...whether in a new beginning or a longer relationship...for I am always living the day as if it were my last...we none of us know when that will come for each of us. NOT being morbid just accepting reality! Always ler her believe she IS right!!! Compliment her.... Hug her tightly...every day! Accept her for who she is...and likewise! Let her know she is always your Princess! Not all inclusive but what is on my heart at this moment! Write and read erotica to her Dance in bed... Spoil her These are written from my heart and I may add more later...
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