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oh yeah i forgot...i cry everytime i see hooch die on Turner and Hooch...
actually i get misty eyed at all sad movies tears streamed at "Reign Over Me" my son loves to tell the story of me crying at the end of one of his pokemon movies....he was 4 dammit i was still emotional! |
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Amiyesiam..Thank u so much for this statement,for years its been a lot hard to mesh all of me into who I now am,the journey over the years has been full of pot holes and mistakes as I have gone from a hard core gruff baby butch to a lot more mello person over the years,some things were done cause I thought thats what butches did or was expected from femmes,now im am just plane old me how ever that is.
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Never really thought of those channels that way ......vaginavision.....this should be interesting next time I wonder what subject 'touched by an angel' tackles....or 'golden girls'
If I had a quarter for every time I put up with stares and "butcher-than-thou" gripes, I'd be a fuckin' millionaire... My high school girlfriend tried teaching me cross-stitch, and crochet...I would literally doze off....but then, she returned the favor by staring off in space when I tried teaching her Chess..... I don't "cop" to stereotypes, if I like something, I'll do it, try it out, or stick with it...I very rarely do something, or wear something cuz it's "Expected" of me... Don't get me wrong, I don't wear pastels, flowers or summer dresses -cringe-....But, I don't because that's not comfortable, in the slightest bit for me...Not because I'm stone butch and somewhere in b-f Canon it's etched in "Stone"{no pun} "Thou shalt always wear boxer-briefs, and pleated trousers!!" I read in an article..there was a Drag King contest, one boi was watching a buncha giggling girls, one of 'em signed up, hy groaned saying "there goes the neighborhood", the girl got decked out, head to toes, looked like a Chicano drag king, pose and all, her friends squealed and she giggled, the boi shook hys head, and when she took to the Stage she actually won, and strutted off...When she got to the gathered crowd of friends, she hopped around squawking, very proud, the boi shook his head, clicking hys tongue & adjusting hys soft pack apparently, the author said "Eventually, hy'll understand"... ♦ I'm almost always entertained by bubbles...If I see one, I'll try to pop it after enjoying the visual... ♦ I lurv Butterflies {and some Moths}, in Old San Juan city there's a store/restaurant called "The Butterfly People", I would go there a lot, sometimes alone, sometimes with company..Most of their walls are covered with a wide variety of Butterflies... ♦ I also luv Angelic Art ♦ Most of my snail mail Will have stickers that reflect the Occasion or the Mood...Sometimes both...And my closest friends know better than to carelessly rip the envelope open...their floor will be covered with confetti of different designs... ♦ I'll spend most of my weekend mornings watching old favorite kiddie cartoons in my PJ's with cereal..{Flintstones, jetsons, Pink Panther, Garfield, Rocko's Modern Life, etc..} Unless I hafta run errands. ♦ While my style of clothing is a small reflection of who I am and how I portray myself, it's not the be-all-end-all... I'll happily wear fleece pj bottoms with cupcakes -shrug-... ♦ I've had very long hair in the past....I only cut it cuz it's much easier to deal with, and comfortable...Sometimes...~glares @ bangs~ ♦ I did try my damnedest not to cry during Hachiko A dog Story.....I did sniffle during Philadelphia....and I was a quiet mess during Schindler's List....
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Hello! I am femme and...
I like to sit with my legs wide open I am most comfortable in jeans and a t-shirt I rarely wear make up my nails are short and natural I enjoy being the fucker (cock and all) I haven't worn a dress in years I know how to check my oil (but not change it)! I prefer horror/gore over chick flicks I HATE decorating things (apartment, bedroom, whatever) I can get ready in half an hour my hair is 90% of the time up in a pigtail I say fuck a whole lot I prefer wearing my "kicks" from KMART than I do my heels I will kick someone in the face for fucking with my family/friends *curtsy* |
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I like sledgehammers.
Violent video games make me randy. And I recently found Goof's DVD collection of "Sabrina, the Teenage Witch"
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I love to sing; in the shower, the car, poolside...whenever the mood strikes me I love kids/young adult books...Harry Potter, Percy Jackson, Artemis Fowl, etc I don't have the 'Sabrina the Teenage Witch' collection on DVD (yet), but I will watch it when I'm home sick since it comes on in the middle of the day I've been known to cook dinner and do the dishes |
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I like this thread, and it IS empowering to see how many of you don't feed into those pesky binary gender stereotypes.
That is the whole point, no? How ridiculous it is that a woman who changes oil isn't Femme? Or how a Butch who maybe likes doors held open for her/hym is somehow less Butch? We are all human beings. |
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I don't like dolphin shaped dildos.
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K, for starters..
as a Butch...I am not 'just like men', I may be masculine, I may be emotionally TG, but physically I'm a womyn, true... I don't act like a man, or what society deems is a mans behavior or mannerisms.... If a butch wore a long skirt, with pink blouse & heels, within the butch/femme community there are those who'd find it highly strange of That butch due to the common perception of a Butchs appearance and rejection of the typically feminine attire in favor of much more comfortable Gender neutral and / or masculine attire, nevermind the Reason why said individual wears it {it could be a mandatory uniform, they could be in the Closet, it could even be a cultural issue}...My mother's boyfriend{bio-male} once educated me {shock!!!} when I was 16...there's a difference between man, male, masculine...and woman, female, feminine.... One can be masculine w/o being physically a Man....And feminine w/o being a woman physically {MtF}, male and female are society binary to validate ones absolute Sex, not Gender. When an individual is Intersex, that theory goes right out the window and makes a few people nervous, since they have no fuckin clue which Box to shove that individual in, oftentimes it won't matter either way, that person will choose for themself. That stayed in my mind for some time...And every now and then I'll be reminded of it after a comment, remark, or snub... {♦ Lovin the Femmes list here, almost as much as the Butches....}
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Um Gayla, I am a lesbian so I am supposed to like dolphins. I thought I was breaking a stereotype. It was supposed to be funny.
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Oh, yeah.. clothes shopping, love it! Love clothes and hats! To be very honest, I do not like men's underwear much at all. Boxer briefs are OK, but I wear girl, cotton, high-cut briefs daily! You couldn't get me in a pair of tidy-whities... well, someone might be able too, but, it wouldn't be for my own sake.... and only once! I don't pack. I tried it, don't care for it. Again, if requested, I might. But, maybe not. I do wear some women's clothes mixed in with men’s. Funny, no one ever realizes this... I shave my legs and underarms. And I can't stand facial hair on myself. I am neat in terms of my home and can't stand dirty dishes sitting around. And I vacuum every day. Sometimes, twice, I have pets. I hate working on cars, period! I iron everything before going out, even if its just touching things up. And I take a long time to dress for a date or some special event. I like to look my best. I wear a one-piece women's Speedo swim suit. I can't stand to swim in cut-offs and a T. I was a swimmer and played tennis in high school & college, and I'm still serious about doing the strokes right which you can't do with all that damn fabric! I use tinted cover sometimes. Damn, skin!!! I don't like to wear cologne. I never liked the smell of it when I was het and with men, so, why would I like it now and on my body?! I wear regular bras most of the time. I have never bound my breasts and don't want to. I wear sports bras, too. I can't stand my finger nails to be dirty. Strapping is great when it is really a mutual desire, but not something I have to do! And I do not like realistic looking dildos. Oh, and I like penetration. So? I am very, very sentimental and quite sensitive. I don't hold back emotions. Well, unless I am around people that I don't want to share emotions with. I carry a pack kind of purse most of the time because I don't like shoving everything in my pockets. I love to cook. I hate snakes and spiders. ...... Hummm... this felt good..... |
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AtLast a butch is supposed to like a "realistic" cock. A lesbian is supposed to like a dolphin dildo. What's a poor lesbian butch to do?
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