Gender/ID breakdown - Page 4

Lynn · 06-02-2010, 02:45 AM

I just ID as lesbian. Didn't vote because "other" just didn't communicate it well enough. I don't ID as "femme" although I am feminine. I consider this an attribute, not an identity.

Lynn · 06-02-2010, 08:59 AM

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Originally Posted by Lynn

I just ID as lesbian. Didn't vote because "other" just didn't communicate it well enough. I don't ID as "femme" although I am feminine. I consider this an attribute, not an identity.

I mean to say that I consider this an attribute for myself, not *my* identity. Just to clarify.

WolfyOne · 06-02-2010, 02:08 PM

I just love, love, love the DIVERSITY we have here.

Did I say how much I really, really, really love it

Gemme · 06-02-2010, 03:30 PM

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Originally Posted by Linus

I don't know if I'll get all the variations (let me know if I missed something and I'll try to add it) but I'm curious as to the breakdown of gender/sex IDs. (pure curiosity sake).

If I missed something, let me know.

I think you've done a really good job including as many of us as possible. I had 2 options to choose from...Stone Femme Queer and Queer Girl (Woman) since I id as a Queer Stone Femme Girl. I chose SFQ because the Stone comes before the Girl for me though both are important, integral parts of my self.

Bard · 06-02-2010, 04:04 PM

I am a Stone Butch female ID as I was once told a study in contrast yes the masculine side and traits kind of is stronger then the fem side but still I am both. It has only been in the last couple of years I have come to be comfortable with who and what I am strong and secure. for far to long I tried to conform. What I love about this place is that we are all diffrent and unique is our own way and celebrated for that ... so to thine own self be true for you are wonderful just as you are all the flavors of the rainbow brothers and sisters all..

Mister Bent · 06-02-2010, 04:29 PM

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Originally Posted by Melissa

<snip> But just as a general question to all, why do you think we need to ID as anything? What is the purpose of a gender ID?

Melissa

Saves having to lift the tail and take a peek.

- Bent, beast of liminal proportions

little man · 06-02-2010, 04:33 PM

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Originally Posted by Mister Bent

Saves having to lift the tail and take a peek.

- Bent, beast of liminal proportions

understated, as always.

waxnrope · 06-02-2010, 05:10 PM

I didn't vote. I don't know who I am today! Well, not femme. But that leaves too much space. Glad to know that some others here are not fixed in one place.
One friend captured my travels with id well: Stone Daddy McFaggy Butch?

chefhottie25 · 06-02-2010, 08:37 PM

I identify as a boi. I didn't see that among the options.

DapperButch · 06-02-2010, 08:57 PM

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Originally Posted by chefhottie25

I identify as a boi. I didn't see that among the options.

Queer boy/boi (man) is up there. If the man part doesn't fit, maybe you could get Linus to change it since no one else has yet signed up and because taking the "man" part out would make it more of a general category that more may fit into?

BornBronson · 06-02-2010, 09:20 PM

How about Macho feminist butch straight woman?.
Hey,I just found out that works for me.

Moving on now

Daywalker · 06-03-2010, 02:40 PM

Gender Neutral.

And apparently Invisible to the Community list.

Good thing I see one of mah 'Sprinkles' listed:

Gender Neutral, Hookah Smokin', Slow Shufflin, Prophetic Ramblin', Koolaid Lovin'...Butch Hippy.

Linus · 06-03-2010, 02:47 PM

Day, it's not invisibility but rather a limit to the number of options in the polls I can put up.

Daywalker · 06-03-2010, 03:01 PM

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Originally Posted by Linus

Day, it's not invisibility but rather a limit to the number of options in the polls I can put up.

Duly noted.

I would have clicked 'other'...but then I would have othered myself.

Arwen · 06-03-2010, 10:30 PM

Queer femme and thanks for doing this.

Massive · 06-03-2010, 10:38 PM

I had to pick "Other/No ID" cos I am GenderQueer, Butch and a Dyke!
(amongst many other things)

Jett · 06-03-2010, 10:40 PM

I'm not listed up there, but that's ok. I could click "other" but not "no ID", maybe I'll just leave it.

Interesting thread.... great diversity.
Metro

Ben · 06-05-2010, 08:08 PM

too frigging funny.. I can't quit laffing.. how about justa guy who has a love affair with John Deere Tractors?

Darth Denkay · 06-06-2010, 11:27 AM

My experience exactly. I started out identifying as butch, then went through a whole series of additional identity tags (butch was always there) and now I'm back identifying as butch.

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Originally Posted by gayla

This is why I just went with butch.

My chain is probably just as long but it started with butch and has gone through a bunch of different other things that are butch-related. When I think through all the links in my chain, I think I even confuse myself with some it! All of them have been important and many are still valid today but I can't say they will be tomorrow. I can say, with 99.1% certainty, that the butch part still will be though, so I picked it!

Rockinonahigh · 06-06-2010, 04:21 PM

I could have clicked several things but I dont need to.Im jus little old me,dont need labels or tags..im a butch and there is no way anyone can miss it.Besides all the labes and tags are confuseing..whay cant we all just be without it all?

View Poll Results: How do you ID?
Lesbian/Femme	34	17.00%
Queer/Femme	27	13.50%
Femme	9	4.50%
Butch/Lesbian/Woman	19	9.50%
Queer/Butch (female-ID)	3	1.50%
Queer/Butch (male-ID)	4	2.00%
Butch	14	7.00%
FTM/Transguy	21	10.50%
Androgenous	0	0%
Other/no ID	7	3.50%
MTF/Transwoman	0	0%
Queer	6	3.00%
Stone Femme Queer	9	4.50%
Stone Femme Lesbian	4	2.00%
Stone Femme	4	2.00%
Stone Butch	8	4.00%
Stone Butch Lesbian	0	0%
Stone Butch Queer	2	1.00%
Queer Girl (Woman)	6	3.00%
Queer Boy/Boi (Man)	0	0%
Transgendered Male Id'd Butch Human	6	3.00%
Bi-Gender	2	1.00%
Intersexed	1	0.50%
genderqueer	7	3.50%
Transgender Stone Butch	7	3.50%
Voters: 200. You may not vote on this poll

06-02-2010, 02:45 AM	#61
Lynn Member How Do You Identify?: Unabashed Feminine Lesbian Preferred Pronoun?: Her, She Relationship Status: Married! Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Upstate NY Posts: 689 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 1,499 Thanked 2,416 Times in 504 Posts Rep Power: 9668974	I just ID as *lesbian*. Didn't vote because "other" just didn't communicate it well enough. I don't ID as "femme" although I am feminine. I consider this an attribute, not an identity. __________________ In the flush of love's light we dare be brave And suddenly we see that love costs all we are and will ever be. Yet it is only love which sets us free. Maya Angelou Wedding Photos: https://www.facebook.com/media/set/?...1&l=22b092b98c

06-02-2010, 02:08 PM	#63
WolfyOne Magically Delicious How Do You Identify?: Gentle Butch Relationship Status: Single and content Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Minnesota Posts: 6,558 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 22,052 Thanked 15,407 Times in 4,139 Posts Rep Power: 21474857	I just love, love, love the DIVERSITY we have here. Did I say how much I really, really, really love it __________________ Being deeply loved by someone gives you strength; loving someone deeply gives you courage --- Lao Tzo

06-02-2010, 04:04 PM	#65
Bard Family Man How Do You Identify?: TG Male Preferred Pronoun?: Masculine ones Relationship Status: She just gets me Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: ..... Posts: 2,828 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 2,997 Thanked 12,786 Times in 2,431 Posts Rep Power: 21474853	I am a Stone Butch female ID as I was once told a study in contrast yes the masculine side and traits kind of is stronger then the fem side but still I am both. It has only been in the last couple of years I have come to be comfortable with who and what I am strong and secure. for far to long I tried to conform. What I love about this place is that we are all diffrent and unique is our own way and celebrated for that ... so to thine own self be true for you are wonderful just as you are all the flavors of the rainbow brothers and sisters all.. __________________ This is ten percent luck, twenty percent skill Fifteen percent concentrated power of will Five percent pleasure, fifty percent pain And a hundred percent reason to remember the name! Give yourself over to absolute pleasure. Swim the warm waters of sins of the flesh - erotic nightmares beyond any measure, and sensual daydreams to treasure forever. Can't you just see it? Don't dream it, be it.

06-02-2010, 09:20 PM	#71
BornBronson Timed Out How Do You Identify?: Permanently banned 7/2010 Preferred Pronoun?: Straight Butch Woman Relationship Status: Nice Tie Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: In Love Posts: 177 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 24 Thanked 139 Times in 82 Posts Rep Power: 0	I picked other How about Macho feminist butch straight woman?. Hey,I just found out that works for me. Moving on now

06-02-2010, 05:10 PM	#68
waxnrope Timed Out How Do You Identify?: Permanently Banned 5/27/2011 Preferred Pronoun?: hy ho, hy ho; he, she, it, whatever Relationship Status: Going slow ... Join Date: Apr 2010 Location: in her orifices ... la frontera Posts: 1,433 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 6,414 Thanked 2,958 Times in 953 Posts Rep Power: 0	I didn't vote. I don't know who I am today! Well, not femme. But that leaves too much space. Glad to know that some others here are not fixed in one place. One friend captured my travels with id well: Stone Daddy McFaggy Butch?

06-02-2010, 08:37 PM	#69
chefhottie25 Member How Do You Identify?: boi Preferred Pronoun?: hy Relationship Status: happily taken Join Date: Mar 2010 Location: ohio Posts: 1,406 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 26 Thanked 889 Times in 477 Posts Rep Power: 1175216	I identify as a boi. I didn't see that among the options.

06-03-2010, 02:40 PM	#72
Daywalker Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Hippy Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: * Posts: 3,750 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 6,499 Thanked 11,917 Times in 2,700 Posts Rep Power: 21474854	Gender Neutral. And apparently Invisible to the Community list. Good thing I see one of mah 'Sprinkles' listed: Gender Neutral, Hookah Smokin', Slow Shufflin, Prophetic Ramblin', Koolaid Lovin'...Butch Hippy. __________________ www.SirDaywalker.com

06-03-2010, 02:47 PM	#73
Linus The Planet's Technical Bubba How Do You Identify?: FTM Preferred Pronoun?: He/Him/Geek Relationship Status: Married to my forever! Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Redondo Beach, CA Posts: 5,440 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 2,929 Thanked 10,743 Times in 3,176 Posts Rep Power: 21474856	Day, it's not invisibility but rather a limit to the number of options in the polls I can put up. __________________ Personal Blog \|\| [] \|\| Cigar Blog "We become Human Doings instead of Human Beings." -- Ram Dass

06-03-2010, 10:30 PM	#75
Arwen Joy Seeker How Do You Identify?: Smartly-Flavored Preferred Pronoun?: Goddess Relationship Status: Mrs. Syzygy 1/9/14 Join Date: Oct 2009 Location: Joyville, NM (aka Land of Enchantment) Posts: 10,140 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 13,636 Thanked 28,131 Times in 6,414 Posts Rep Power: 21474861	Queer femme and thanks for doing this. __________________ I wrote a book, y'all! *FREE* Tarotscopes Seek Joy, y'all. Eschew hate. 9Words: A Poetry Challenge \| Do you like me?

06-03-2010, 10:38 PM	#76
Massive Member How Do You Identify?: Trans man Preferred Pronoun?: He, Him Relationship Status: not looking Join Date: Mar 2010 Location: Northern England Posts: 945 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 5,669 Thanked 2,383 Times in 765 Posts Rep Power: 17762094	I had to pick "Other/No ID" cos I am GenderQueer, Butch and a Dyke! (amongst many other things) __________________ You may not be able to choose your bio-family, but you can choose your Family

06-03-2010, 10:40 PM	#77
Jett Member How Do You Identify?: Hardcore bullheaded grown-ass Tomboy Preferred Pronoun?: She Relationship Status: she loves my shaggy hair Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: The backroom of a night cafe plotting world domination Posts: 1,028 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 2,054 Thanked 3,299 Times in 568 Posts Rep Power: 21474852	I'm not listed up there, but that's ok. I could click "other" but not "no ID", maybe I'll just leave it. Interesting thread.... great diversity. Metro __________________ .......... In the depth of winter I finally learned that there was in me an invincible summer. ~Albert Camus

06-05-2010, 08:08 PM	#78
Ben Junior Member How Do You Identify?: F2M Preferred Pronoun?: male pronouns Relationship Status: not looking Join Date: Mar 2010 Location: on the Rio Grande Posts: 77 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 495 Thanked 73 Times in 51 Posts Rep Power: 1221545	too frigging funny.. I can't quit laffing.. how about justa guy who has a love affair with John Deere Tractors?

06-06-2010, 04:21 PM	#80
Rockinonahigh Senior Member How Do You Identify?: stone butch Preferred Pronoun?: makes no diffrence,I know who I am. Relationship Status: single,maybe looking if the right person comes along. Join Date: Dec 2009 Location: shreveport,Louisiana Posts: 4,907 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 4,682 Thanked 14,937 Times in 3,936 Posts Rep Power: 21474855	I could have clicked several things but I dont need to.Im jus little old me,dont need labels or tags..im a butch and there is no way anyone can miss it.Besides all the labes and tags are confuseing..whay cant we all just be without it all?