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TaylorMade · 05-22-2012, 07:57 PM

Hello everyone.
I am a FtM Pre-Op Transman. I live in Indiana right now but hoping to move to NY soon.
I Started Ts a year ago this coming July. But with work slow its been hard to stick with them (Afford them). Thats why I am trying to move to NY where there's jobs and more acceptance. In fact I am heading up there next month to spend with my gf and look around. Getting a feel to where I can go for Medical, Jobs and housing.
My gf has been awesome with my Transitioning sense she met me before I started transition. But she doesnt see me as Female or Male, but her soul mate, not a gender. Which makes me love her even more. I am VERY lucky to have such a lady that loves me like that.
My sons are both in there 20s, and hoping down the road they follow. I feel bad leaving them back here, My mom will flip out (Very Christian) and tell me I am being neglectful, but I am 41 yrs old and time for me to better myself. I dont think thats selfish.
Sorry I am rambling, all I wanted to do was say hello and hope to meet some good ppl on here.
Smiles

aishah · 05-22-2012, 08:01 PM

welcome to the planet

beginning transition and facing lack of resources is really rough...my thoughts are with you. so happy you are taking steps to take care of yourself

and i'm so happy you are here.

Corkey · 05-22-2012, 08:08 PM

Welcome to the Planet, most of us don't care about gender either...

clay · 05-22-2012, 08:11 PM

hey TaylorMade! Ditto what Corkey said....come on in and sit a spell...many, many great threads and some of the most loving people here...

Corkey · 05-22-2012, 10:14 PM

http://www.butchfemmeplanet.com/foru...ead.php?t=2287

Here's a thread you may find interesting.

Nadeest · 05-23-2012, 09:52 PM

Hi Taylor,
Welcome to the planet. I do understand about beginning transition with limited resources, as I had to deal with the same type of thing. Hang in there, and have faith. I'm so very glad for you that you have a girlfriend like that. Good luck with the move, and hope that it works well for you.

Ginger · 06-03-2012, 01:55 PM

Welcome to the Planet, Taylor. I hope you and your girlfriend enjoy being part of the FTM/Femme couples community in NYC. Maybe I'll see you at the Center on 13th Street some time! Best Wishes, Scout

Nijlon Tala · 06-03-2012, 09:36 PM

Love the welcome open arms. I am the gf...and support my guy a thousand percent!!! Look forward to getting to know everyone, and continuing to learn.

TenderKnight · 06-03-2012, 10:11 PM

Welcome to you both

I look forward to you both adding to this wonderful, diverse, and growing online community that is the Planet

ruffryder · 06-06-2012, 08:47 PM

Hello Taylor. Welcome you and your gf to the Planet and the Trans Zone. Hope you both enjoy your time here. There is lots of good people here!

05-22-2012, 07:57 PM	#1
TaylorMade Junior Member How Do You Identify?: Taylor Preferred Pronoun?: He Relationship Status: Taken Join Date: May 2012 Location: Indiana Posts: 8 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 25 Thanked 42 Times in 8 Posts Rep Power: 0	New to Group Hello everyone. I am a FtM Pre-Op Transman. I live in Indiana right now but hoping to move to NY soon. I Started Ts a year ago this coming July. But with work slow its been hard to stick with them (Afford them). Thats why I am trying to move to NY where there's jobs and more acceptance. In fact I am heading up there next month to spend with my gf and look around. Getting a feel to where I can go for Medical, Jobs and housing. My gf has been awesome with my Transitioning sense she met me before I started transition. But she doesnt see me as Female or Male, but her soul mate, not a gender. Which makes me love her even more. I am VERY lucky to have such a lady that loves me like that. My sons are both in there 20s, and hoping down the road they follow. I feel bad leaving them back here, My mom will flip out (Very Christian) and tell me I am being neglectful, but I am 41 yrs old and time for me to better myself. I dont think thats selfish. Sorry I am rambling, all I wanted to do was say hello and hope to meet some good ppl on here. Smiles

05-22-2012, 08:08 PM	#3
Corkey Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: Human Preferred Pronoun?: He Relationship Status: Very Married Join Date: Dec 2009 Location: Where I want to be Posts: 8,155 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 47,491 Thanked 29,299 Times in 6,640 Posts Rep Power: 21474859	Welcome to the Planet, most of us don't care about gender either... __________________ "Many proposals have been made to us to adopt your laws, your religion, your manners and your customs. We would be better pleased with beholding the good effects of these doctrines in your own practices, than with hearing you talk about them". ~Old Tassel, Chief of the Tsalagi (Cherokee)

05-22-2012, 08:11 PM	#4
clay Practically Lives Here How Do You Identify?: Butch (Silver Fox) Dom Daddi Preferred Pronoun?: 50 Shades of Clay Darker & Deeper Relationship Status: married to my forever Join Date: May 2011 Location: salt air & sandy beaches Posts: 13,098 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 96,070 Thanked 31,690 Times in 7,716 Posts Rep Power: 21474863	hey TaylorMade! Ditto what Corkey said....come on in and sit a spell...many, many great threads and some of the most loving people here... __________________ To find someone who will love you for no reason, and to shower that person with reasons, that is the ultimate happiness. ~Robert Brault

05-22-2012, 10:14 PM	#5
Corkey Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: Human Preferred Pronoun?: He Relationship Status: Very Married Join Date: Dec 2009 Location: Where I want to be Posts: 8,155 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 47,491 Thanked 29,299 Times in 6,640 Posts Rep Power: 21474859	http://www.butchfemmeplanet.com/foru...ead.php?t=2287 Here's a thread you may find interesting. __________________ "Many proposals have been made to us to adopt your laws, your religion, your manners and your customs. We would be better pleased with beholding the good effects of these doctrines in your own practices, than with hearing you talk about them". ~Old Tassel, Chief of the Tsalagi (Cherokee)

06-03-2012, 10:11 PM	#9
TenderKnight Member How Do You Identify?: Kinky Poly Transman Preferred Pronoun?: He Join Date: Apr 2010 Location: Monroe, NC Posts: 551 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 773 Thanked 822 Times in 256 Posts Rep Power: 2402407	Welcome to you both I look forward to you both adding to this wonderful, diverse, and growing online community that is the Planet __________________ The beatings shall continue.. until moral improves..

05-22-2012, 08:01 PM	#2
aishah Member How Do You Identify?: queer stone femme shark baby girl Preferred Pronoun?: she, her, little one Relationship Status: dating myself. Join Date: Jan 2012 Location: dallas, tx Posts: 1,495 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 13,823 Thanked 6,437 Times in 1,288 Posts Rep Power: 21474850	welcome to the planet beginning transition and facing lack of resources is really rough...my thoughts are with you. so happy you are taking steps to take care of yourself and i'm so happy you are here.

05-23-2012, 09:52 PM	#6
Nadeest Member How Do You Identify?: as myself Preferred Pronoun?: She Relationship Status: Single Join Date: Sep 2011 Location: Leesburg, FL Posts: 595 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 2,876 Thanked 2,118 Times in 501 Posts Rep Power: 17077996	Hi Taylor, Welcome to the planet. I do understand about beginning transition with limited resources, as I had to deal with the same type of thing. Hang in there, and have faith. I'm so very glad for you that you have a girlfriend like that. Good luck with the move, and hope that it works well for you.

06-03-2012, 01:55 PM	#7
Ginger Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Femme lesbian Join Date: Mar 2012 Location: East coast Posts: 2,416 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 5,829 Thanked 12,309 Times in 2,057 Posts Rep Power: 21474851	Welcome to the Planet, Taylor. I hope you and your girlfriend enjoy being part of the FTM/Femme couples community in NYC. Maybe I'll see you at the Center on 13th Street some time! Best Wishes, Scout

06-03-2012, 09:36 PM	#8
Nijlon Tala Junior Member How Do You Identify?: Femme Preferred Pronoun?: She Join Date: May 2012 Location: NYC Posts: 2 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 3 Thanked 7 Times in 2 Posts Rep Power: 0	Love the welcome open arms. I am the gf...and support my guy a thousand percent!!! Look forward to getting to know everyone, and continuing to learn.

06-06-2012, 08:47 PM	#10
ruffryder Senior Member How Do You Identify?: FTM Preferred Pronoun?: guy ones Relationship Status: ... Join Date: May 2011 Location: chillin' in FL Posts: 3,690 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 21,951 Thanked 9,678 Times in 2,875 Posts Rep Power: 21474853	Hello Taylor. Welcome you and your gf to the Planet and the Trans Zone. Hope you both enjoy your time here. There is lots of good people here!