The Offical Honey Do List - Page 3

Gemme · 02-04-2010, 06:13 PM

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Originally Posted by wolfwalker

Please can be said in many ways

Very true!

I prefer it in the showing common courtesy, verbal, add on before or after the demand, kind of way.

Others are certainly welcome to have it their way (Burger King, anyone?) but I see it as a respect issue or a lack thereof.

Sachita · 02-04-2010, 06:26 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Gemme

Very true!

I prefer it in the showing common courtesy, verbal, add on before or after the demand, kind of way.

Others are certainly welcome to have it their way (Burger King, anyone?) but I see it as a respect issue or a lack thereof.

True, very true BUT actions speak louder than words

wolfwalker · 02-04-2010, 06:36 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Gemme

Very true!

I prefer it in the showing common courtesy, verbal, add on before or after the demand, kind of way.

Others are certainly welcome to have it their way (Burger King, anyone?) but I see it as a respect issue or a lack thereof.

My honey says please in the verbal and thanks me. I know how important I am to her. I know how much she respects me. Joking on a thread is all about having fun. no please required. at least from my end.

Gemme · 02-04-2010, 06:43 PM

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Originally Posted by wolfwalker

My honey says please in the verbal and thanks me. I know how important I am to her. I know how much she respects me. Joking on a thread is all about having fun. no please required. at least from my end.

I tried to explain myself a little bit better privately to Sachita, so hopefully I made myself more clear.

Selenay · 02-04-2010, 07:10 PM

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Originally Posted by Gemme

Very true!

I prefer it in the showing common courtesy, verbal, add on before or after the demand, kind of way.

Others are certainly welcome to have it their way (Burger King, anyone?) but I see it as a respect issue or a lack thereof.

I didn't say please.
This was, in part, due to the fact that I know I will not be brought a cookie, unless my partner can shove it through the screen and if he does that, I'm gonna be saying a lot more than, "Please."

And
I often forget, "Please."

"Thank you," I remember, tho, usually.

But,
my partner and I got it good that way.

He gets me.
He goes with it.
We got a good thang going on, cuz that's how we do.

Gemme · 02-04-2010, 07:21 PM

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Originally Posted by Selenay

I didn't say please.
This was, in part, due to the fact that I know I will not be brought a cookie, unless my partner can shove it through the screen and if he does that, I'm gonna be saying a lot more than, "Please."

And
I often forget, "Please."

"Thank you," I remember, tho, usually.

But,
my partner and I got it good that way.

He gets me.
He goes with it.
We got a good thang going on, cuz that's how we do.

*shrug*

I was raised (I can hear my first year English college instructor's voice roaring "RAISED? What are you, cattle?!?" as I type this) in the deep South.

Please was mandatory. I guess the lesson stuck.

What works for others is fine. I was just surprised, and a bit dismayed, at finding that only one person sought to express it. Knowing that many of us are not in the same space or even time zone with our partners (I am one!), would make it more important, to me, to visually....because in this medium this is all we've got to go on....express my thoughts in the manner that I mean them. I try to keep the demanding limited to the bedroom.

Jess · 02-04-2010, 10:45 PM

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Originally Posted by Gemme

Thirty-eight posts, thus far, and this is the only ONE containing the word "please".

Nice.

Glad this is the "fluffy stuff: flirting, HUMOR, Chat section.

Selenay · 02-04-2010, 10:51 PM

Honeydew-

Get the BearBear some pantaloons. His buttocks are cold.

That is all.
For now.

Bootboi · 02-04-2010, 10:52 PM

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Originally Posted by Selenay

Honeydew-

Get the BearBear some pantaloons. His buttocks are cold.

That is all.
For now.

Umm he prefers Manties TYVM!

Selenay · 02-04-2010, 10:55 PM

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Originally Posted by Bootboi

Umm he prefers Manties TYVM!

So bloomers, too, are out of the question?

Bootboi · 02-04-2010, 10:58 PM

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Originally Posted by Selenay

So bloomers, too, are out of the question?

ummm completely!

But could be persuaded into these

NJFemmie · 02-05-2010, 07:36 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Gemme

Very true!

I prefer it in the showing common courtesy, verbal, add on before or after the demand, kind of way.

Others are certainly welcome to have it their way (Burger King, anyone?) but I see it as a respect issue or a lack thereof.

Please take this ....

Sachita · 02-05-2010, 10:00 AM

Honey I want...

our dream house.

http://www.simondale.net/house/index.htm

ohhhh and PLEASE! lol (looking at gimme)

Sachita · 02-05-2010, 11:45 AM

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Originally Posted by Bootboi

ummm completely!

But could be persuaded into these

ohhhhhhh sexy

Honey WANT!

Sachita · 02-07-2010, 07:54 AM

Dear Honey,

Combined we have 6 dogs, 6 cats, 1 pig.
You will be here very soon to begin our life together BUT

honey you MUST contain these fucking animals! The very first thing HONEY MUST DO is build things to keep the cats from destroying the house and the dogs from waking me up too early. I'm tired and cranky.

wolfwalker · 02-07-2010, 12:58 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Sachita

Dear Honey,

Combined we have 6 dogs, 6 cats, 1 pig.
You will be here very soon to begin our life together BUT

honey you MUST contain these fucking animals! The very first thing HONEY MUST DO is build things to keep the cats from destroying the house and the dogs from waking me up too early. I'm tired and cranky.

yes, dear

dogs and cats please read the contract. it says don't piss momma off!!!!

christie · 02-07-2010, 07:15 PM

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Originally Posted by Sachita

Dear Honey,

Combined we have 6 dogs, 6 cats, 1 pig.
You will be here very soon to begin our life together BUT

honey you MUST contain these fucking animals! The very first thing HONEY MUST DO is build things to keep the cats from destroying the house and the dogs from waking me up too early. I'm tired and cranky.

*packing up the two demon cats and sending them to Auntie and Uncle's for the summer...

When you have a menagerie... whats two more?

Jess · 02-07-2010, 07:30 PM

Is really glad 98% of her honey do list is simply a reflection of my own "wish list". It makes it much easier to tease one another about it. It also makes it easier knowing that we live together and get to say "please " and "thank you" 9 gazillion times a day, face to face.

I apologize if this thread read as rude or lacking respect. Sometimes couples have different ways of "playing" with each other and lessening the "pressure" of all the "things we gotta do". If it isn't your cup of tea... why bother posting? Please, feel free to deal with your relationship in any way you see fit, but when you see a couple couples having fun and "cutting up", either join the party or leave it. We "get" each other. If you don't then just exercise your right to "click" elsewhere. No disrespect intended. Simply feeling rather fed up with the "niceness police".

HumV4me · 02-07-2010, 07:50 PM

Please Honey...

Please do this, this, and this.

~~batting of the eyes and a nice fresh smile with a tinge of evil behind it... oh and "PLEASE" don't even think about looking at the imaginary score board or start comparing apples to oranges...

I'll hit the BS button on your arse... .

Kenna · 02-07-2010, 09:43 PM

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Originally Posted by Selenay

Bring me a cookie.

That is all.

For now.

Sachita, Christie...what happens if I'm so used to doing everything for/by myself that I don't know HOW to make a HoneyDo list? I LOVE this thread (and the banter within) but the only HoneyDo that comes to mind is "Tylenol please, I hurt after shoveling snow for 3 hours

02-04-2010, 10:51 PM	#48
Selenay Member How Do You Identify?: A soul for a compass and a heart for a pair of wings. Preferred Pronoun?: All I ask of living is to have no chains on me. Relationship Status: All I own are the strides I spend to the finish line. Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Somewhere in between here and gone. Posts: 662 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 110 Thanked 1,449 Times in 369 Posts Rep Power: 6344714	Honeydew- Get the BearBear some pantaloons. His buttocks are cold. That is all. For now. __________________ Two or three things I know for sure, And one is that I would rather go naked Than wear the coat the world has made for me.

02-05-2010, 10:00 AM	#53
Sachita Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Alpha Femme Preferred Pronoun?: Goddess Relationship Status: Completely in love Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Southern Virginia Posts: 3,225 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 2,564 Thanked 8,994 Times in 2,249 Posts Rep Power: 21474854	Honey I want... our dream house. http://www.simondale.net/house/index.htm ohhhh and PLEASE! lol (looking at gimme) __________________ You either like me or you don't. It took me Twenty-something years to learn how to love myself, I don't have that kinda time to convince somebody else. ~ Daniel Franzese

02-07-2010, 07:54 AM	#55
Sachita Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Alpha Femme Preferred Pronoun?: Goddess Relationship Status: Completely in love Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Southern Virginia Posts: 3,225 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 2,564 Thanked 8,994 Times in 2,249 Posts Rep Power: 21474854	Dear Honey, Combined we have 6 dogs, 6 cats, 1 pig. You will be here very soon to begin our life together BUT honey you MUST contain these fucking animals! The very first thing HONEY MUST DO is build things to keep the cats from destroying the house and the dogs from waking me up too early. I'm tired and cranky. __________________ You either like me or you don't. It took me Twenty-something years to learn how to love myself, I don't have that kinda time to convince somebody else. ~ Daniel Franzese

02-07-2010, 07:50 PM	#59
HumV4me Member How Do You Identify?: FEMME Preferred Pronoun?: Honey, Baby, Love, Dearest Relationship Status: in an animal house Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: CALIFORNIA Posts: 131 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 49 Thanked 75 Times in 34 Posts Rep Power: 100331	Please Honey... Please do this, this, and this. ~~batting of the eyes and a nice fresh smile with a tinge of evil behind it... oh and "PLEASE" don't even think about looking at the imaginary score board or start comparing apples to oranges... I'll hit the BS button on your arse... . __________________ Alicia Ann

02-07-2010, 07:30 PM	#58
Jess Timed Out - Permanent How Do You Identify?: decidedly indifferent Preferred Pronoun?: other Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Patrick Springs, VA Posts: 2,812 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 9,247 Thanked 5,703 Times in 1,684 Posts Rep Power: 0	Is really glad 98% of her honey do list is simply a reflection of my own "wish list". It makes it much easier to tease one another about it. It also makes it easier knowing that we live together and get to say "please " and "thank you" 9 gazillion times a day, face to face. I apologize if this thread read as rude or lacking respect. Sometimes couples have different ways of "playing" with each other and lessening the "pressure" of all the "things we gotta do". If it isn't your cup of tea... why bother posting? Please, feel free to deal with your relationship in any way you see fit, but when you see a couple couples having fun and "cutting up", either join the party or leave it. We "get" each other. If you don't then just exercise your right to "click" elsewhere. No disrespect intended. Simply feeling rather fed up with the "niceness police".