What TO DO in a relationship..... - Page 14

ArkansasPiscesGrrl · 10-29-2011, 07:15 PM

And lastly.... don't lose your crush

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I love this. That is what I want, for me to keep my crush and for my someone to keep hys!

clay · 10-29-2011, 07:35 PM

Absolutely, APG! I was STILL crushing on my wife..the day she passed! I was so in love with that woman!!! And she, me. I want THAT again!

Julien · 10-29-2011, 08:15 PM

Listen to her, I mean really listen, don't just "hear" what she says "know" what she says and how she says it.

Greco · 10-29-2011, 09:31 PM

after you have taken her completely made love to her

hold her hold her forever

and never ever take her for granted.

Greco

SoulShineFemme · 10-30-2011, 05:21 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by ONLY

She reads to me (over the phone) before bed and most times I fall asleep within 5 minutes and she thinks that's adorable and loves it

She says I snore (not all the time, right baby? ) and think it's peaceful, comforting and cute lol

Now you tell me, is that love or what?
I love listening to her read to me, very calming, comforting, relaxing I love you SS

* these are things (fall asleep while she reads and snore) NOT to do in a relationship but for us it works lol *

I love it that we have this bedtime ritual and that my voice is the last thing you hear before you drift off.... AND you have the cutest lil snore in the world!! I love you with all my heart.

girl_dee · 10-30-2011, 07:37 PM

enjoy Jello together!

girl_dee · 11-11-2011, 05:50 PM

Celebrate every anniversary and day!

girl_dee · 11-21-2011, 03:29 PM

Forgive each other and be happy when it's time to move on.

Hold on to the good stuff... let go of the icky stuff.......

princessbelle · 11-21-2011, 03:34 PM

Share a cold.

SoNotHer · 11-21-2011, 03:34 PM

Make sure they know how connected you are to them and how very much you believe in and need that connection.

As impossible as it is to fully show them how special and important they are to you, try.

And let them do all of this for you.

girl_dee · 11-21-2011, 03:55 PM

Trust. ..........

And take your Vitamin C

Martina · 11-21-2011, 05:06 PM

-- Show up --

bigbutchmistie · 11-21-2011, 05:48 PM

Honesty and Communication.

Honesty even if the truth hurts the truth is still the truth and both parties deserve it... ALWAYS

Communication.. Talk about it all! Even if it is insignificant to you it may not be insignificant to your partner.

Sachita · 11-21-2011, 05:53 PM

fuck long and hard. Decide who does what- assign roles.

girl_dee · 11-21-2011, 06:16 PM

Have goals as a couple!

Elijah · 11-21-2011, 06:20 PM

Know when to say when, for both your sakes.

Leigh · 11-21-2011, 07:12 PM

Communication is definately key, so DO communicate at ALL times

girl_dee · 11-21-2011, 07:37 PM

Yes, talk and be present during the talk!

ONLY · 11-21-2011, 08:30 PM

Remember her favorite snacks and .......and have it in the house at all times for those days that she just needs to unwind, put her feet up and have "her" time ....... when she is done with them, put them away (secret place) for the next time she needs it cause we know....that to leave it in the open is just gonna get you in trouble
I am teasin' Oh have I ever mentioned teasin' each other as in being silly/ funny
Also leave her phone message at home (when she is at work) that you miss her and play a a few lines of both your favorite song

VintageFemme · 11-21-2011, 08:40 PM

do.... all the little things. they add up to way more than even one big thing.

10-29-2011, 07:35 PM	#262
clay Practically Lives Here How Do You Identify?: Butch (Silver Fox) Dom Daddi Preferred Pronoun?: 50 Shades of Clay Darker & Deeper Relationship Status: married to my forever Join Date: May 2011 Location: salt air & sandy beaches Posts: 13,096 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 96,039 Thanked 31,685 Times in 7,714 Posts Rep Power: 21474862	Absolutely, APG! I was STILL crushing on my wife..the day she passed! I was so in love with that woman!!! And she, me. I want THAT again! __________________ To find someone who will love you for no reason, and to shower that person with reasons, that is the ultimate happiness. ~Robert Brault

10-29-2011, 08:15 PM	#263
Julien Member How Do You Identify?: TG/GenderQueer Preferred Pronoun?: I'm flexible, but only up to a point. Relationship Status: Single Join Date: Feb 2010 Location: Alabama, Gulf Coast area Posts: 1,007 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 2,247 Thanked 2,701 Times in 737 Posts Rep Power: 21474852	Listen to her, I mean really listen, don't just "hear" what she says "know" what she says and how she says it. __________________ Julien “Self-plagiarism is style.” Alfred Hitchcock Formerly known as Graphiteta2s

10-29-2011, 09:31 PM	#264
Greco Senior Member How Do You Identify?: GNC, not Trans, REAL. TIME. ONLY. Preferred Pronoun?: REAL. TIME. ONLY. Relationship Status: REAL. TIME. ONLY. Join Date: Apr 2010 Location: In a good life. Posts: 3,194 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 11,149 Thanked 6,639 Times in 2,288 Posts Rep Power: 21474854	arms are for holding after you have taken her completely made love to her hold her hold her forever and never ever take her for granted. Greco __________________ "If you are losing faith in human nature go out and watch a marathon." Kathrine Switzer *"Me gusta andar, pero no sigo el camino pues lo seguro no tiene misterio." Facundo Cabral*

11-21-2011, 03:34 PM	#269
princessbelle Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: femme Preferred Pronoun?: femme ones Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Tennessee Posts: 6,100 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 29,380 Thanked 30,503 Times in 5,201 Posts Rep Power: 21474857	Share a cold. __________________ ~ I've learned that people will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel. ~ Maya Angelou

11-21-2011, 05:06 PM	#272
Martina Senior Member How Do You Identify?: * Join Date: Feb 2010 Location: * Posts: 4,999 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 13,409 Thanked 18,366 Times in 4,171 Posts Rep Power: 21474854	-- Show up -- __________________ "No matter how cynical I get, I just can't keep up" - Lily Tomlin

10-29-2011, 07:15 PM	#261
ArkansasPiscesGrrl Member How Do You Identify?: femme Preferred Pronoun?: she, her Relationship Status: feeling pretty darned blissful right now! Join Date: Aug 2011 Location: central AR Posts: 856 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 3,594 Thanked 3,080 Times in 741 Posts Rep Power: 21474849	And lastly.... don't lose your crush [/COLOR][/B][/QUOTE] I love this. That is what I want, for me to keep my crush and for my someone to keep hys!

10-30-2011, 07:37 PM	#266
girl_dee Practically Lives Here How Do You Identify?: Femme Preferred Pronoun?: dee Relationship Status: Hitched up Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Livin’ the Dream Posts: 24,079 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 30,560 Thanked 54,956 Times in 13,922 Posts Rep Power: 21474873	enjoy Jello together!

11-11-2011, 05:50 PM	#267
girl_dee Practically Lives Here How Do You Identify?: Femme Preferred Pronoun?: dee Relationship Status: Hitched up Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Livin’ the Dream Posts: 24,079 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 30,560 Thanked 54,956 Times in 13,922 Posts Rep Power: 21474873	Celebrate every anniversary and day!

11-21-2011, 03:29 PM	#268
girl_dee Practically Lives Here How Do You Identify?: Femme Preferred Pronoun?: dee Relationship Status: Hitched up Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Livin’ the Dream Posts: 24,079 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 30,560 Thanked 54,956 Times in 13,922 Posts Rep Power: 21474873	Forgive each other and be happy when it's time to move on. Hold on to the good stuff... let go of the icky stuff.......

11-21-2011, 03:34 PM	#270
SoNotHer Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Professional Sandbagger and Jenga Zumba Instructor Join Date: Sep 2011 Location: In the master control room of my world domination dreams Posts: 2,811 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 6,587 Thanked 4,736 Times in 1,409 Posts Rep Power: 21474850	Make sure they know how connected you are to them and how very much you believe in and need that connection. As impossible as it is to fully show them how special and important they are to you, try. And let them do all of this for you.

11-21-2011, 03:55 PM	#271
girl_dee Practically Lives Here How Do You Identify?: Femme Preferred Pronoun?: dee Relationship Status: Hitched up Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Livin’ the Dream Posts: 24,079 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 30,560 Thanked 54,956 Times in 13,922 Posts Rep Power: 21474873	Trust. .......... And take your Vitamin C

11-21-2011, 05:48 PM	#273
bigbutchmistie Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Since You Need A Label. Butch Relationship Status: Still Dreaming Of My Happily Ever After Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Arlington Texas Posts: 4,009 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 4,950 Thanked 5,364 Times in 1,941 Posts Rep Power: 21474855	Honesty and Communication. Honesty even if the truth hurts the truth is still the truth and both parties deserve it... ALWAYS Communication.. Talk about it all! Even if it is insignificant to you it may not be insignificant to your partner.

11-21-2011, 05:53 PM	#274
Sachita Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Alpha Femme Preferred Pronoun?: Goddess Relationship Status: Completely in love Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Southern Virginia Posts: 3,225 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 2,564 Thanked 8,994 Times in 2,249 Posts Rep Power: 21474854	fuck long and hard. Decide who does what- assign roles. __________________ You either like me or you don't. It took me Twenty-something years to learn how to love myself, I don't have that kinda time to convince somebody else. ~ Daniel Franzese

11-21-2011, 06:16 PM	#275
girl_dee Practically Lives Here How Do You Identify?: Femme Preferred Pronoun?: dee Relationship Status: Hitched up Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Livin’ the Dream Posts: 24,079 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 30,560 Thanked 54,956 Times in 13,922 Posts Rep Power: 21474873	Have goals as a couple!

11-21-2011, 06:20 PM	#276
Elijah Member How Do You Identify?: Genderqueer Butch Preferred Pronoun?: Masculine ones Relationship Status: Open to healthy possibilities... Join Date: Apr 2011 Location: Michigan Posts: 554 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 738 Thanked 1,628 Times in 393 Posts Rep Power: 21474850	Know when to say when, for both your sakes. __________________ "There is a sacredness in tears. They are not the mark of weakness but of power. They are messengers of overwhelming grief and of unspeakable love." ~Washington Irving

11-21-2011, 07:12 PM	#277
Leigh Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: Femme Preferred Pronoun?: She, Her, etc Relationship Status: Single Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Canada Posts: 7,767 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 9,029 Thanked 13,026 Times in 4,786 Posts Rep Power: 21474858	Communication is definately key, so DO communicate at ALL times __________________ "When you fall off the wagon ... clutch the sides of it until you get a better grip!"

11-21-2011, 07:37 PM	#278
girl_dee Practically Lives Here How Do You Identify?: Femme Preferred Pronoun?: dee Relationship Status: Hitched up Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Livin’ the Dream Posts: 24,079 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 30,560 Thanked 54,956 Times in 13,922 Posts Rep Power: 21474873	Yes, talk and be present during the talk!

11-21-2011, 08:30 PM	#279
ONLY Senior Member How Do You Identify?: well my girl calls me honeybear, sugarbear, sexy beast, hot tamale..... Preferred Pronoun?: female pronouns Relationship Status: Married to my Rare Beauty with a Beautiful Soul.....SS Tournaments Won: 1 Join Date: Jan 2010 Location: eastern ontario, canada Posts: 2,783 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 975 Thanked 1,735 Times in 679 Posts Rep Power: 15139963	Remember her favorite snacks and .......and have it in the house at all times for those days that she just needs to unwind, put her feet up and have "her" time ....... when she is done with them, put them away (secret place) for the next time she needs it cause we know....that to leave it in the open is just gonna get you in trouble I am teasin' *Oh have I ever mentioned teasin' each other as in being silly/ funny* *Also leave her phone message at home (when she is at work) that you miss her and play a a few lines of both your favorite song* __________________ *"If you talk about it, it's a dream, if you envision it, it's possible, but if you schedule it, it's real. "*

11-21-2011, 08:40 PM	#280
VintageFemme Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Femme Relationship Status: Single Join Date: Jul 2011 Location: Outside Posts: 2,299 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 3,828 Thanked 7,640 Times in 1,657 Posts Rep Power: 21474851	do.... all the little things. they add up to way more than even one big thing. __________________ Unfinished Business & Open to Serendipity