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Hi, I'm Anne. I'm in Seattle.
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Hi Anne and everyone. I'm Rebecca and my partner and I live near DC. Hope everyone is enjoying this Spring weather!
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I'm too tired to flirt, but mingling would be nice!
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I am trying hard to start the mingle and flirt game again... its a lot more complicated then I remember... maybe I'm just getting old.
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I hear ya sissy!! Be good to yourself and give yourself confidence. I too am struggling with feeling confident but I am working on it daily . Love ya!
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I find unwanted challenge in meeting like-minded (or open-minded) people. It is like looking for a needle in a haystack.
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Hi Everyone,
I have not done any reading here until now but something different came into my mind about a week or two ago ... I had not ever considered or given any thought to poly type relationships before now. At this point, I honestly don't know much about developing guidelines or what they are ... well f* ck, being direct always seems better for me so let me simply say I know nothing about this and how the general poly community goes about things. I think the best thing I can do is come here and educate myself by reading your posts ... Thanks. From someone who is sitting on the fence. |
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Okkkkkkkkkk will do
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opens door and pokes head inside and waves to everyone *
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I was researching books on poly relationships and this one kept popping up: The Ethical Slut
Do any of you recommend this book in a favorable way or give it a thumbs down for a NOOB like me? Any additional suggestions will be appreciated. I'm trying to find a good starting place with something I am unfamiliar with. Thanks. |
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I second the endorsement for The Ethical Slut. I also recommend Opening Up by Tristan Taormino.
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Opening Up - A Guide to Creating and Sustaining Open Relationships by Tristan Taormino
is an excellent resource!
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I agree that Opening Up is a wonderful book!
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Currently single and open to poly relationships. Have been in poly relationships in the past and have found that I am much happier when I am not monogamous. |
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Welcome...seems kinda quiet in here but maybe if we keep bumping the thread it will perk people up
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