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yup, love to cuddle, snuggle, nuzzle, hug squeeze. I'm very attentive and very much a touch person. I enjoy the sensations I get from cuddling. I'm not talking about sexual sensations. I mean like the sense of nurturing and being nurtured. We see cuddling/snuggling etc in most social animals and especially in primates and animals who have a social hiarchy. I think for most it is emotionally essentual. I know it is for me.
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That's exactly how it is for me too Blade
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I love to cuddle but it's been so long that I really think that I need that right now. It's like hugging when you're laying down. I'm a hugger too!
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I love cuddling, hugging, snuggling etc.
But then when it's time to sleep - I need my own side of the bed lol
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I love to cuddle, to hug, to touch, and to be close to someone I love.
What I don't like is when someone I don't want to touch me seems to think it is perfectly acceptable to invade my space, my body. If you have to constantly tell someone to back off, there is a problem. There needs to be an understanding between the two people involved and I really think that there needs to be a touch compatibility. If you are a cuddler/toucher and the other person is not it really can't work long term, because someone is not getting their needs met.
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Yes cuddle in bed until your about asleep or they are then roll over lol. Unless it's a cold night then you snuggle for warmth .
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Yes, I adore it! I think I actually sort of require cuddling, really!
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Only during scenes..... I'm a cuddly mother fucker then....
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I require lots of cuddling, but that's just me
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Agreed on the understanding and negotiation of how much of my space you (general) think you are going to suck up. It is not a good idea to hook up, fuck, have a relationship with someone who doesn't find *cuddling* necessary to feel ok. Negotiating touch and what's a healthy boundary so that neither party feel suffocated is a good idea when it comes to this kind of thing. Great points laruss!!
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Good point about boundaries.
I am very cuddly and touchy feely and huggy. But, i also respect boundaries. I won't just grab you and pull you in for a bear hug if i don't know you, or if i know you are a type of person that needs space. Inclination, intuition, respect and ques are important when thinking about personal space of others. Common courtesy comes to mind.
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I had someone give me a hug the other day and when I went to release, she didn't. So I hugged tighter. I realized at that time how good it felt to be embraced. I had not felt that in awhile.
I like to do the holding but I do like to be held as well.
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