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During a crisis I faced in 2001/early 2002...I wouldn't have put "it" back in "it's" place. Things would have been much better for many people had I handled that crisis in a different way and not shut down emotionally or allowed myself to get completely and utterly overwhelmed.
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08-21-2010, 12:14 PM | #62 |
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wouldn't have married and idiot. oh wait that's right I wouldn't have married at all, STUPID ME!
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i would do nothing differently.
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I would have said yes to the chocolate bread pudding!
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I would have waited
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08-21-2010, 12:51 PM | #66 |
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I would have allowed myself to come out at a MUCH younger age..I wouldn't have waited so long..I wouldn't have lied to myself about WHO I was/am.. I would have gone back with my ex when she tried to get us back together... but things happen the way they do for a reason...and I am lovin' life now adays!!
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Everything I've done, I've gleaned a valuable lesson from. Life is a learning lesson - gotta learn to roll with the punches.
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Seriously I would have c come out earlier but I am here now so that is all that matters!
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I would have accepted that interview with UPS 25 yrs ago and just taken my chances of being punished at my present job for missing inventory
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I'd do a lot of things different, but most of all...
I'd probably smack myself with a bunch of red Flags, warn Myself to be a Lot more cautious with my heart, and friendships. Now Me: "don't be so gullible" -slap- Past Me: "Ok!" Now Me: "Heart on sleeve, IX-NAY !!!" -slap- Past Me: " I get it !!" Now Me: "Slap slap slap" Past Me: Now Me: "Just making sure it sinks in...."
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I would have given my grandparents the attention they deserved instead of giving in to my teenage selfishness.
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Not much of anything. I would keep it the same. I have learned a great deal from my mistakes: how to say no, how to set boundaries, how to recognize dishonourable people, how to discern those who have great ethics and those who do not and most importantly how to love someone with my whole heart unconditionally. I was never a great believer in unconditional love. Hy showed it to me. A great role model. If I turned back the hard times, I would not have this amazing devotion and love now.
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lots of things... but right now... getting a higher college education and coming out earlier.
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Not let all the baggage from the past stay stuck to my coat-tails.
Learn that I'm only human. Been born with the side of my family that stayed in the US all those years ago.
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I would have agreed to purchase COBRA insurance so I wouldn't be stuck in my current situation with multiple trips to the hospital, new prescriptions and my Lupus kicking my ass (among other things wearing me out).
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I would have run away instead of been thrown away
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If I knew then what I know now, I would have asked better questions.
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I would have moved home to spend as much time as possible with my Mom before she died... then stayed home to take care of Dad and spend those last two precious years with him 24/7. I miss them. Then, I would have met Stacy about 10 years sooner to avoid a whole lotta heartache and start my forever sooner. But that said... I absolutely love my life the way it turned out.
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