The Loft: Butches and Femmes in their 40s, 50s and over. - Page 81

Luckydwg07 · 09-24-2010, 01:22 PM

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Originally Posted by Jet

Barb,

I don't see anything wrong with butch on butch. I think it's just a preference and different kind of sexuality or attraction.

Jet ~ I agree with you & butch love will continue to be with or without approval.

morningstar55 · 09-24-2010, 03:01 PM

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Originally Posted by JoSchmooze

My thing is femmes....
Femmes in all shapes, sizes, short or tall....
Femmes with a sly sense of humor....
Femmes who don't mind a butch helping in the kitchen...
Femmes who like to have their butch open their doors....
Femmes who can dance a two step but who know when it's time
to sit down and take a bit of a rest....
Femmes who may be able to get me to do what I don't want to do.......
Femmes who are independent, those who know how to stand on their own two feet...
but who also lean a bit when they need to....
Femmes who can cock an eyebrow as if to say "oh no, you did not just say that".....
Femmes who also like butches!

Me likem Femmes......

WOW.... Mr Schoooommmzz..... i LOVE all that kinda stuff....... lol wooHOO...

ok hideho Lofters..... just peeking in reallllly quick here......
and wow.... hadnt checked in this thread for a spell .. heh......
ok i see nothing wrong with the butch on butch thing.... to each there own..

...
i was just saying...... it seems lately i have come across some single handsome butchs. and well flirting a little then come to find out... they like other butchs.. * deep sigh*..... story of my life.
anyways....... ill bbl...... i am waiting to get my truck loaded and its taking FOREVER!! .. bbl

naturlover_52 · 09-24-2010, 05:29 PM

hey this is just MY own opinion or Jive on ur last post.....and I get it from ur sigh.....what U are saying is that U are disappointed that they aren't wanting to be w/ ANY femme.....you included. I am sorry that that has you bothered or sad. BUT like Jet said IT is out there...and will be..and what hy said also was whether we like it or not. I feel a lil offended or hurt by the not part. BUT u know I am not going to mince words here. I just only know what I like....and who I am. Like I said...I identify as me....a soft butch/andgy....who is into other softies and androgynous women. I also like other Female Id butches.

BUT also understand that there is all this diversity......and that is great it is what it is and makes the world go round.

I think the best thing I can say at this pt. JUST to live and let live.

thanks for letting me rant.

lipstixgal · 09-24-2010, 05:32 PM

I'm sorry but I'm really into the butch-femme dynamic like Morningstar so I understand her dilemma not really into femmes !!

MysticOceansFL · 09-25-2010, 05:40 AM

I'm only interested in femme's <<<

justjoanie1 · 09-25-2010, 06:09 AM

I'm new here, but thought I would chime in. I'm only into butches. But I see absolutely not problem with 2 butches together. All depends on what you're attracted to.
I'm in FL in a tiny little town in the middle of nowhere, and there aren't many of us here, so I'm looking to make friends on here and a couple online dating sites.

morningstar55 · 09-25-2010, 08:56 AM

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Originally Posted by justjoanie1

I'm new here, but thought I would chime in. I'm only into butches. But I see absolutely not problem with 2 butches together. All depends on what you're attracted to.
I'm in FL in a tiny little town in the middle of nowhere, and there aren't many of us here, so I'm looking to make friends on here and a couple online dating sites.

mawning Lofters.....
hey there Justjoanie.....
natural .. sorry didnt mean to hurt your feelings....... sometimes i guess i word things wrong... *sigh*
Jo ...... where ya been?? how have you been??? howz the Shhmooooozz mobil coming along??

Lipstix..... is the weather cooling down where you are??
i had a rough day yesterday and very stressful..... soo im going shopping and get caught up on some art projects..

have a good day everyone.

lipstixgal · 09-25-2010, 09:42 AM

Hi Morningstar yes its cooling down but like the hot weather instead how about you is it cooling down where you are?

Hope everyone has a great day here on Saturday morning!!

Heavenleahangel · 09-25-2010, 11:31 AM

Hi, Everyone; Ive been away for a while and am popping in to see who's around and make new friends. I hope everyone has a wonderful weekend!

friskyfemme · 09-25-2010, 11:37 AM

Let me just say... my / your preferences in life and love is NOT about questioning others,
BUT about finding the one(s) that share what I / you are looking for...IMHO

Having the WEB to search for my heart throb, friends, and educate me to others' sameness and differences is amazing.

Tho I have lived over a half century, I haven't learned everything (I don't even know what I don't know!). Being a people person I thrive on diversity

Enjoy your day!

morningstar55 · 09-25-2010, 02:01 PM

hideho newbies.....
Lipstix... im from Buffalo new yawk.... and right now im hangin in Gerogetown KY until monday... tis when i get the truck unloaded at Toyota.

lipstixgal · 09-25-2010, 02:05 PM

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Originally Posted by morningstar55

hideho newbies.....
Lipstix... im from Buffalo new yawk.... and right now im hangin in Gerogetown KY until monday... tis when i get the truck unloaded at Toyota.

so its warm in KY right now right?? Buffalo they get bad weather in the winter right?? I'm looking for a warm climate to live in!!

morningstar55 · 09-25-2010, 02:08 PM

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Originally Posted by lipstixgal

so its warm in KY right now right?? Buffalo they get bad weather in the winter right?? I'm looking for a warm climate to live in!!

really??? im wanting to move to NC.. was hoping to be there this fall but it maight have to wait till spring.
Buffalo . ha yeah.. tthey get a lot of snow..
and yes its warm here in KY.. but not surper bad.. I dont know what the temps are here....

lipstixgal · 09-25-2010, 02:56 PM

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Originally Posted by morningstar55

really??? im wanting to move to NC.. was hoping to be there this fall but it maight have to wait till spring.
Buffalo . ha yeah.. tthey get a lot of snow..
and yes its warm here in KY.. but not surper bad.. I dont know what the temps are here....

Ooh NC is nice tood but I'm thinking more like Florida like JO did!! But Orlando though!!

morningstar55 · 09-25-2010, 03:36 PM

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Originally Posted by lipstixgal

Ooh NC is nice tood but I'm thinking more like Florida like JO did!! But Orlando though!!

AHH ....... I like the betwen charlotte and umm greensboro area or a lil west of all that... i like to visit fla .. it wouldnt be to far to zip there for a few days.

Jet · 09-25-2010, 04:35 PM

flyin' by
have a good one

lipstixgal · 09-25-2010, 05:27 PM

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Originally Posted by morningstar55

AHH ....... I like the betwen charlotte and umm greensboro area or a lil west of all that... i like to visit fla .. it wouldnt be to far to zip there for a few days.

Really that would be great to come for a visit once I get down there!!

Lady_Wu · 09-25-2010, 05:28 PM

nin hao, lofters! i haven't been around in awhile. during my time away, i've survived a relapse of rsd, a break-up (amicable), and contuning to be a care-taker. it IS difficult to be in your 40s and 50s and suddenly becoming a care-taker when one did not expect it.
though not greying yet (genetic?), i too would not go back to being younger. i have learned too much to want to do so. in fact, i am trying to unlearn things i learned when younger. i know more about what/whom i want now and can afford to jettison old attitudes and things that simply do not work anymore. i am quite happy w/me and my own company now. been a long journey to get here, though.
Lady_Wu

lipstixgal · 09-25-2010, 05:35 PM

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Originally Posted by Lady_Wu

nin hao, lofters! i haven't been around in awhile. during my time away, i've survived a relapse of rsd, a break-up (amicable), and contuning to be a care-taker. it IS difficult to be in your 40s and 50s and suddenly becoming a care-taker when one did not expect it.
though not greying yet (genetic?), i too would not go back to being younger. i have learned too much to want to do so. in fact, i am trying to unlearn things i learned when younger. i know more about what/whom i want now and can afford to jettison old attitudes and things that simply do not work anymore. i am quite happy w/me and my own company now. been a long journey to get here, though.
Lady_Wu

What's rsd? hope you are on the mend!!

Lady_Wu · 09-25-2010, 05:42 PM

the weather has been very strange here in WV. though sept, the temps have been hot for here-almost 90 in the daytime! today it's somewhat cooler. i'm very glad for that! i do NOT look forward to the snow, however! i live on a hill and getting to the dr and to the groc is hades! just getting down to the street is difficult! very slippery and dangerous when i am using a cane! or two.

i'd prefer to live around the asheville area in NC. i've heard the temps are more moderate there. in asheville would be best, i think, so i can get public transport and access to the kind of dr.s i need. plus, there might be other buddhists or taoists there for fellwship. perhaps one day....
Lady_Wu, listening to Gossip-awesome!

09-24-2010, 05:29 PM	#1603
naturlover_52 Member How Do You Identify?: soft butch/bi Preferred Pronoun?: she and her are just fine....Sweetcheeks hey you Relationship Status: seeing someone long distance but soon will be both in Ca love her very much Join Date: Jun 2010 Location: So Calif East San Gabrielle Valley aka the land of shake and bake Posts: 108 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 85 Thanked 89 Times in 44 Posts Rep Power: 3424	morningstars last post hey this is just MY own opinion or Jive on ur last post.....and I get it from ur sigh.....what U are saying is that U are disappointed that they aren't wanting to be w/ ANY femme.....you included. I am sorry that that has you bothered or sad. BUT like Jet said IT is out there...and will be..and what hy said also was whether we like it or not. I feel a lil offended or hurt by the not part. BUT u know I am not going to mince words here. I just only know what I like....and who I am. Like I said...I identify as me....a soft butch/andgy....who is into other softies and androgynous women. I also like other Female Id butches. BUT also understand that there is all this diversity......and that is great it is what it is and makes the world go round. I think the best thing I can say at this pt. JUST to live and let live. thanks for letting me rant.

09-25-2010, 05:40 AM	#1605
MysticOceansFL Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Butch, Preferred Pronoun?: People call me by my nic name. Relationship Status: Not Single, Not Desperate. Join Date: Jun 2010 Location: Florida Posts: 3,833 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 4,645 Thanked 4,035 Times in 1,720 Posts Rep Power: 21474853	I'm only interested in femme's <<< __________________ Faith is not belief without proof, but trust without reservation. It is said, " Some lives are linked across time..... Connected by an ancient calling that echoes through the ages "......

09-25-2010, 11:37 AM	#1610
friskyfemme Member How Do You Identify?: femme Preferred Pronoun?: precious Relationship Status: down to earth Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Arizona Posts: 332 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 395 Thanked 370 Times in 152 Posts Rep Power: 827	Let me just say... my / your preferences in life and love is NOT about questioning others, BUT about finding the one(s) that share what I / you are looking for...IMHO Having the WEB to search for my heart throb, friends, and educate me to others' sameness and differences is amazing. Tho I have lived over a half century, I haven't learned everything (I don't even know what I don't know!). Being a people person I thrive on diversity Enjoy your day! __________________ Love and Light, FF

09-25-2010, 02:01 PM	#1611
morningstar55 Senior Member How Do You Identify?: femme,she Preferred Pronoun?: she,her, Relationship Status: very single Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: western NY Posts: 3,809 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 5,280 Thanked 4,241 Times in 1,845 Posts Rep Power: 21474854	hideho newbies..... Lipstix... im from Buffalo new yawk.... and right now im hangin in Gerogetown KY until monday... tis when i get the truck unloaded at Toyota. __________________ -------------------------------------------- life is to short to wake up in the morning with regrets so love the people who treat you right, forget about the ones who dont, and believe that everything happens for a reason. If you get a chance take it... if it changes your life let it.

09-25-2010, 05:28 PM	#1618
Lady_Wu Member How Do You Identify?: OFOS Queer Stone femme Preferred Pronoun?: M'Lady Relationship Status: given up looking sigh Join Date: Apr 2010 Location: somewhere buried under a pile of books Posts: 197 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 285 Thanked 300 Times in 105 Posts Rep Power: 155955	haven't been around in awhile... nin hao, lofters! i haven't been around in awhile. during my time away, i've survived a relapse of rsd, a break-up (amicable), and contuning to be a care-taker. it IS difficult to be in your 40s and 50s and suddenly becoming a care-taker when one did not expect it. though not greying yet (genetic?), i too would not go back to being younger. i have learned too much to want to do so. in fact, i am trying to unlearn things i learned when younger. i know more about what/whom i want now and can afford to jettison old attitudes and things that simply do not work anymore. i am quite happy w/me and my own company now. been a long journey to get here, though. Lady_Wu __________________ I'm the Yin in the Yang and the Yang in the Yin.

09-24-2010, 05:32 PM	#1604
lipstixgal Senior Member How Do You Identify?: femme Preferred Pronoun?: She Relationship Status: coupled Join Date: Feb 2010 Location: New Jersey Posts: 3,028 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 201 Thanked 1,690 Times in 1,064 Posts Rep Power: 1494760	I'm sorry but I'm really into the butch-femme dynamic like Morningstar so I understand her dilemma not really into femmes !!

09-25-2010, 06:09 AM	#1606
justjoanie1 Junior Member How Do You Identify?: femme Preferred Pronoun?: she Relationship Status: single Join Date: Sep 2010 Location: Lake Placid, FL Posts: 13 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 6 Thanked 13 Times in 7 Posts Rep Power: 1354	I'm new here, but thought I would chime in. I'm only into butches. But I see absolutely not problem with 2 butches together. All depends on what you're attracted to. I'm in FL in a tiny little town in the middle of nowhere, and there aren't many of us here, so I'm looking to make friends on here and a couple online dating sites.

09-25-2010, 09:42 AM	#1608
lipstixgal Senior Member How Do You Identify?: femme Preferred Pronoun?: She Relationship Status: coupled Join Date: Feb 2010 Location: New Jersey Posts: 3,028 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 201 Thanked 1,690 Times in 1,064 Posts Rep Power: 1494760	Hi Morningstar yes its cooling down but like the hot weather instead how about you is it cooling down where you are? Hope everyone has a great day here on Saturday morning!!

09-25-2010, 11:31 AM	#1609
Heavenleahangel Member How Do You Identify?: OFOS Femme; Earth bound Angel and Babygirl; Preferred Pronoun?: She, Angel, as long as it's respectful Relationship Status: Waiting for the One who can complete me Join Date: Jul 2010 Location: Albany, NY~but originally from Georgia Posts: 562 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 1,257 Thanked 2,069 Times in 468 Posts Rep Power: 18675552	Hi, Everyone; Ive been away for a while and am popping in to see who's around and make new friends. I hope everyone has a wonderful weekend!

09-25-2010, 04:35 PM	#1616
Jet Timed Out - TOS Drama How Do You Identify?: .. Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: .. Posts: 3,471 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 292 Thanked 2,646 Times in 1,293 Posts Rep Power: 0	flyin' by have a good one

09-25-2010, 05:42 PM	#1620
Lady_Wu Member How Do You Identify?: OFOS Queer Stone femme Preferred Pronoun?: M'Lady Relationship Status: given up looking sigh Join Date: Apr 2010 Location: somewhere buried under a pile of books Posts: 197 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 285 Thanked 300 Times in 105 Posts Rep Power: 155955	weather report the weather has been very strange here in WV. though sept, the temps have been hot for here-almost 90 in the daytime! today it's somewhat cooler. i'm very glad for that! i do NOT look forward to the snow, however! i live on a hill and getting to the dr and to the groc is hades! just getting down to the street is difficult! very slippery and dangerous when i am using a cane! or two. i'd prefer to live around the asheville area in NC. i've heard the temps are more moderate there. in asheville would be best, i think, so i can get public transport and access to the kind of dr.s i need. plus, there might be other buddhists or taoists there for fellwship. perhaps one day.... Lady_Wu, listening to Gossip-awesome! __________________ I'm the Yin in the Yang and the Yang in the Yin.