~*Dare To Tell The Truth*~

[*Anya*]

If you could change one thing in your life -- what would it be?

That life could give do-overs and that I could turn back time.

[Nomad]

what do you wish other people knew about you?

[Fatale]

what do you wish other people knew about you?

That while it might seem great from the outside, sometimes, often really, I feel that being considered attractive by many is not all it's cracked up to be.

Do you have a particular fear that you know is irrational yet it still holds you back?

[Nomad]

That while it might seem great from the outside, sometimes, often really, I feel that being considered attractive by many is not all it's cracked up to be.

Do you have a particular fear that you know is irrational yet it still holds you back?

"irrational: adjective; from Latin irrationalis; in - "not" and rationalis - "reason".

1. without the faculty of reason; deprived of reason.
2.without or deprived of normal mental clarity or sound judgment.
3.not in accordance with reason; utterly illogical: irrational arguments.
4.not endowed with the faculty of reason"

given a clear definition, yes. bugs that insist on suddenly occupying space that belongs to me at that moment (ditto spiders, bats, rodents, teenagers and perfume models)

i also have one or two fears that do not involve a lack of reason but a lack of cojones. sue me. :huhlaugh:

do you deprive yourself of something vital to your well being and if so, why?

[ahk]

yes, because she's my mom.

how do you space yourself from negative people?

[Nomad]

yes, because she's my mom.

how do you space yourself from negative people?


i dont. i never learned how.

how do you offer yourself forgiveness?

[Miss_J]

i dont. i never learned how.

how do you offer yourself forgiveness?

I don't know if I offer it or simply work through the issue and take it as part of the whole difficult process. Excellent question thank you.


How often do you set the "ego" on the shelf.

[pajama]

i dont. i never learned how.

how do you offer yourself forgiveness?

Typically I don't/can't. Sometimes if I can right the wrong, it helps. Often I just try to learn from the mistake, and that helps me accept what I did poorly before.

How long do you go without sexual release?

[pajama]

I don't know if I offer it or simply work through the issue and take it as part of the whole difficult process. Excellent question thank you.


How often do you set the "ego" on the shelf.

Never. I am 80% ego and it is always at the fore.

Okay, let's see if I beet someone elses answer this time. :D

How long do you go without sexual release?

[Electrocell]

Never. I am 80% ego and it is always at the fore.

Okay, let's see if I beet someone elses answer this time. :D

How long do you go without sexual release?

Not to damn long lol unless you want to see someone cranky as hell.

Do you climax easily or does it take awhile?

[tazz]

Not to damn long lol unless you want to see someone cranky as hell.

Do you climax easily or does it take awhile?

***depends... if i'm fucked like a jackhammer then yes i'll come early. if not, it will take a while...

what style when having sex do you like best??

[laruss]

Do you climax easily or does it take awhile?

Depends on my mood, arousal, and who I am with (or thinking about).

How do you find that balance between selfish and self care?

[Electrocell]

***depends... if i'm fucked like a jackhammer then yes i'll come early. if not, it will take a while...

what style when having sex do you like best??

Do I have to have a favorite lol? Guess if I did it would be taking her from behind.

Can you do acrobatics in bed ?

[Electrocell]

Depends on my mood, arousal, and who I am with (or thinking about).

How do you find that balance between selfish and self care?

Not sure on that one I'm a pretty giving person. I usally think of the other person needs first . I have learned not to be as giving as before but it's hard for me lol.

What do you really want out of life?

[ahk]

to be a good dad

How old are you?

[Electrocell]

to be a good dad

How old are you?

To old lol 53.

Do you have 20/20 eye sight?

[laruss]

Do you have 20/20 eye sight?

Actually 20/15 since my surgery.

What do you do to make your self feel better when you are sad?

[ahk]

I don't think so --
but I don't wear specs

I communicate when I am sad and/or do art and/or eat and/or sleep. But never all at the same time.

Did you relax any today?

[tazz]

Do I have to have a favorite lol? Guess if I did it would be taking her from behind.

Can you do acrobatics in bed ?

***NICE!!! I love doggy style :D

i cannot do acrobatic in bed...

what is the First thing you do right after having sex??

[Electrocell]

Actually 20/15 since my surgery.

What do you do to make your self feel better when you are sad?

Try to go out and be around friends who lift my spirit.


Do you cry at sad movies?

[ahk]

Yes.

Did you relax today?
third times a charm.

[Electrocell]

***NICE!!! I love doggy style :D

i cannot do acrobatic in bed...

what is the First thing you do right after having sex??

LMAO smoke a cigarette so clichéd I know.Just one of my bad habits need to quit.


What do you do?

[Mel C.]

Yes.

Did you relax today?
third times a charm.

Yep, took a nap too.

Do you own a crock pot? lol

[tazz]

LMAO smoke a cigarette so clichéd I know.Just one of my bad habits need to quit.


What do you do?

***LMAO... me too!! :D

i just breathe for a while taking it all in... ;)

[ahk]

Yep, took a nap too.

Do you own a crock pot? lol

I do indeed.

Do you eat out often? or cook at home?

[Electrocell]

***LMAO... me too!! :D

i just breathe for a while taking it all in... ;)

Thought you were athletic:blink:

[lusciouskiwi]

I do indeed.

Do you eat out often? or cook at home?



I often eat out but really need to cook at home more often.

I'm sure you love your furbabies is you have one (or two or three ...), but do you ever wish it would be nice to be free of them? (even if just for one day)

[Electrocell]

I often eat out but really need to cook at home more often.

I'm sure you love your furbabies is you have one (or two or three ...), but do you ever wish it would be nice to be free of them? (even if just for one day)

That's why I only have cats now . Set them up right and they have litter boxes and a doggy door you can leave them 3 or 4 days course I live in the country.

What's your favorite food?

[tazz]

Thought you were athletic:blink:

***i am, but a cigg now and then won't hurt ya :)

[Electrocell]

***i am, but a cigg now and then won't hurt ya :)

awwwwwwwwwww ok

[ahk]

That's why I only have cats now . Set them up right and they have litter boxes and a doggy door you can leave them 3 or 4 days course I live in the country.

What's your favorite food?

right now: tacos

What was your new years resolution? Did you conquer it? and if not, why.

[Electrocell]

right now: tacos

What was your new years resolution? Did you conquer it? and if not, why.

Don't make them can't break them lol.

What is your worst fear?

[pajama]

Don't make them can't break them lol.

What is your worst fear?

That something will happen to my son.

What singer do you love, but are embarrased to admit it?

[Mel C.]

That something will happen to my son.

What singer do you love, but are embarrased to admit it?

Miley Cyrus (ok I just love 1 song, but still...embarrassing)

What's your biggest pet peeve?

[pajama]

Miley Cyrus (ok I just love 1 song, but still...embarrassing)

What's your biggest pet peeve?

ooooo I have so many, hard to narrow down to one.
But I guess, people that don't take responsibility for themselves, either their actions, finances, body, any aspect of themselves.

What is a deal breaker in a friendship for you?

[Mel C.]

ooooo I have so many, hard to narrow down to one.
But I guess, people that don't take responsibility for themselves, either their actions, finances, body, any aspect of themselves.

What is a deal breaker in a friendship for you?

Lying...not just "omitting" details, but making up B.S. (sometimes it is so they don't have to deal with consequences)

What do you do to get ready for bed (sleeping)?

[pajama]

Lying...not just "omitting" details, but making up B.S. (sometimes it is so they don't have to deal with consequences)

What do you do to get ready for bed (sleeping)?

Turn on Frasier on the TV.

What body part do you wash first in the shower?

[Mel C.]

Turn on Frasier on the TV.

What body part do you wash first in the shower?

Mah head...gotta shampoo in case I use conditioner. That way I can wash the rest of me bod while the conditioner is conditioning (San Diego water conservation and all, gotta be efficient).

What male celebrity would you want to have sex with if you met?

[pajama]

Mah head...gotta shampoo in case I use conditioner. That way I can wash the rest of me bod while the conditioner is conditioning (San Diego water conservation and all, gotta be efficient).

What male celebrity would you want to have sex with if you met?

Patrick Stewart

What cartoon character would you have sex with if you were also a cartoon?

[Mel C.]

Patrick Stewart

What cartoon character would you have sex with if you were also a cartoon?

Jessica Rabbit of course

What is your favorite breakfast (meal)?

[pajama]

Jessica Rabbit of course

What is your favorite breakfast (meal)?

The Lingonberry crepes at IHOP

What's your favorite sandwich?

[Electrocell]

The Lingonberry crepes at IHOP

What's your favorite sandwich?

One that has all different kinds of meet on it with provolone cheese melted letucce , tomatoe, spinach, black olives, jalopenos then through on the ranch dressing.

How do you like your steaks cooked?

[Nomad]

One that has all different kinds of meet on it with provolone cheese melted letucce , tomatoe, spinach, black olives, jalopenos then through on the ranch dressing.

How do you like your steaks cooked?


wait. i'm supposed to cook them? (that should be clear enough, no?)

name the 3 Planeteer's whose posts you stalk because they're interesting/funny

[Ginger]

wait. i'm supposed to cook them? (that should be clear enough, no?)

name the 3 Planeteer's whose posts you stalk because they're interesting/funny


Oh wow how to narrow it down to three people ... Nomad, for sharp honest observations with twist of wistfulness; Anya for calm reasonableness; Dee for right-on-the-money unsentimentality; Okie and Bulldog for "stop-the-madness,""to-the-point"-ness—sorry I went over the limit.

TRUTH:

When is the last time someone took advantage of your patience and trust?

[Nomad]

Oh wow how to narrow it down to three people ... Nomad, for sharp honest observations with twist of wistfulness; Anya for calm reasonableness; Dee for right-on-the-money unsentimentality; Okie and Bulldog for "stop-the-madness,""to-the-point"-ness—sorry I went over the limit.

TRUTH:

When is the last time someone took advantage of your patience and trust?

:|

(looks around at my life) really?



:cracked:

sorry. i got a little fermisht there for a minute.


what unresolved issue is hammering at the inside of your skull?

[Artdecogoddess]

:|

(looks around at my life) really?



:cracked:

sorry. i got a little fermisht there for a minute.


what unresolved issue is hammering at the inside of your skull?

How in the world am I going to make it financially for the next two months!"

What is your best/worst Christmas memory?"


ADG

[Tony]

How in the world am I going to make it financially for the next two months!"

What is your best/worst Christmas memory?"


ADG

Worse Christmas memory; I was very young, it was Christmas Eve. My dad said he was going for a carton of cigarettes. Didn't see him for over 3 months. Unfortunately, I still have a hard time with the holiday season because of that.

Ok, that was the worse. Someone liven it up with the best. Please.

[gaea]

Worse Christmas memory; I was very young, it was Christmas Eve. My dad said he was going for a carton of cigarettes. Didn't see him for over 3 months. Unfortunately, I still have a hard time with the holiday season because of that.

Ok, that was the worse. Someone liven it up with the best. Please.

my best Christmas ever was my granddaughters first Christmas and seeing the sparkle in my daughter's eyes as she looked at the excitement in her little one...

I like that one again please another best

[Nomad]

my best Christmas ever was my granddaughters first Christmas and seeing the sparkle in my daughter's eyes as she looked at the excitement in her little one...

I like that one again please another best


best christmas? honestly? the last one. i was broke and couldnt do anything special for anyone but i'd also been given a second chance at something that was extremely important to me.

which BFP post have you like most in the last month?

[ahk]

no clue, haven't been here long enough

who are you voting for this term?

[Mel C.]

Pedro for President

What is/was your favorite cartoon

[macele]

the jetsons. no the flintstones (i ate those vitamins like candy. as a kid, of course.) hong kong phooey. ...

my final say is yogi bear! hey boo boo! you wanna go get a pic uh nic bas ket!


if someone said to you, "i feel like a can of busted biscuits!". what would your reply be?

[Artdecogoddess]

the jetsons. no the flintstones (i ate those vitamins like candy. as a kid, of course.) hong kong phooey. ...

my final say is yogi bear! hey boo boo! you wanna go get a pic uh nic bas ket!


if someone said to you, "i feel like a can of busted biscuits!". what would your reply be?


mmmmm biscuits all toasted with butter and marmalade!


What is the RUDEST thing you have ever done?
ADG

[ahk]

fart and blame it one someone else

whats the longest you called out of work for? and your reasoning of doing so?

[Dance-with-me]

Six weeks - two level cervical discectomy and fusion to correct two disks that were pushing into my spinal cord and making body parts go numb. :|

Kindest thing a stranger has ever done for you?

[ahk]

bought my groceries

kindest thing you've done for a stranger?

[Novelafemme]

Six weeks - two level cervical discectomy and fusion to correct two disks that were pushing into my spinal cord and making body parts go numb. :|

Kindest thing a stranger has ever done for you?

Once when I had just had Sophia and Sienna was about 4, we went to the Olive Garden for dinner. It was a BIG treat since we were on such a tight budget, but it was Sienna's very favorite place to go (um, endless breadsticks and salad!!). They had just switched over to a "no personal check" policy and I was not aware of this before we ate.

So there I am with a toddler and an infant, no credit or debit cards (not sure why) and management is glaring at me because I can't pay.

So this wonderful couple sitting next to us came over and asked if there was a problem and the manager informed them that I was attempting to take advantage of their recently implemented no check writing policy.

The stranger at the table next to me then ripped into this manager, saying that both he and his wife had been watching my little family while we all ate our meals, and that they couldn't get over what a kind and loving mom I was. He then paid for our meal and gave me a big hug and told me to ignore the manager, find out if restaurants take personal checks in the future, ;) and to pay it forward.

I was so touched. And pay it forward I do!

When someone gives you a compliment, your first reaction is___________

[Ginger]

When someone gives you a compliment, your first reaction is___________


... happy surprise.


What is ONE animal you would never eat, and why.

[Novelafemme]

... happy surprise.


What is ONE animal you would never eat, and why.

I don't think I could eat a quail.

They have little beanies on their heads and they are the best parents. :blink:

Could you give up physical touch or acknowledgment from all other forms of life for a year without going insane?

[Reader]

I don't think I could eat a quail.

They have little beanies on their heads and they are the best parents. :blink:

Could you give up physical touch or acknowledgment from all other forms of life for a year without going insane?



LOL! I had no idea we'd met! ;) No, I could not give up acknowledgement and touch of dogs for a year.

Could you give up ice cream and beer for a year?

[Nomad]

LOL! I had no idea we'd met! ;) No, I could not give up acknowledgement and touch of dogs for a year.

Could you give up ice cream and beer for a year?


easily

could you give up the one you love for a year if it meant it would bring you even closer when the year was done?

[ahk]

no.

what year were you born?

[Greyson]

no.

what year were you born?

In the same year my twin was born.

What is your greatest desire that you have shared with no other?

[Nomad]

In the same year my twin was born.

What is your greatest desire that you have shared with no other?


to leave this place and go home


what are you in denial about, right now?

[deb0670]

me? in denial? naw.. never.. :)




If there is one thing You could do over again . what would it be?

[Nomad]

me? in denial? naw.. never.. :)




If there is one thing You could do over again . what would it be?


heh. only everything about my life for the last 10 years.

:| <--- someone who aint gonna jump on the "i dont regret anything it's all a wonderful life lesson and i'm so grateful for my skittles eating unicorn world view now" bandwagon.


my last question V2.0 - what are you in denial about, right now?

[Tony]

heh. only everything about my life for the last 10 years.

:| <--- someone who aint gonna jump on the "i dont regret anything it's all a wonderful life lesson and i'm so grateful for my skittles eating unicorn world view now" bandwagon.


my last question V2.0 - what are you in denial about, right now?

The reality of what my last "relationship" really was (or was not as it turned out).

If you could make one life altering change, what would it be?

[-Red-Flag-]

Feelings .. My feelings ...


What is the funniest name you have for someone you have in your contact list in your cell phone?

[*Anya*]

What is the funniest name you have for someone you have in your contact list in your cell phone?

It never occurred to me to use funny names for anyone. Not very creative, I know:(

Tell us about a time in your life that you can recall being the happiest and the most content and why it was for you...

[Ginger]

Tell us about a time in your life that you can recall being the happiest and the most content and why it was for you...

N and I had a house upstate and I would drive up there early, on Thursdays. It was a 2-hour drive and as soon as I got there, I'd run down to the pond—there was a boardwalk through the marshy part—and when I got to the dock I'd lie down on the hot boards and breathe in the smell of the mud beneath them and feel warmed, nurtured, at peace and happy beyond words.


Tell us why you are on the Planet. The real reason why.

[laruss]

Tell us why you are on the Planet. The real reason why.

To make friends, to talk to like minded people. I didn't intend to use it as a dating site, but that has happened too.

What are you dreading about the upcoming holidays?

[Breathless]

I am dreading the avoidable deaths that always seem to happen because people make impaired decisions when they are impaired..
What are you most thankful for at this very moment?To make friends, to talk to like minded people. I didn't intend to use it as a dating site, but that has happened too.

What are you dreading about the upcoming holidays?

[stepfordfemme]

I am dreading the deaths that always seem to happen because people make impaired decisions when they are impaired..
What are you most thankful for at this very moment?

My life and my friends.

What fear is holding you back in your life?

[Reader]

My life and my friends.

What fear is holding you back in your life?


The fear of success.

Would you rather be smarter or better looking?

[Gráinne]

Most definitely smarter. It's tough out there when you're only known for your body and beauty ;) (j/k).

Is your glass half full or half empty?

[Electrocell]

The fear of success.

Would you rather be smarter or better looking?

Smarter brains will take you places that looks can't.

Who is the one person you really look to for guidance?

[lusciouskiwi]

Most definitely smarter. It's tough out there when you're only known for your body and beauty ;) (j/k).

Is your glass half full or half empty?

Half empty :blink: mind you it is pouring with rain right now ...

Would you rather be caught out in a heavy rain storm or snow storm?

[pajama]

Half empty :blink: mind you it is pouring with rain right now ...

Would you rather be caught out in a heavy rain storm or snow storm?

Am I in the wrong thread? LOL

[Electrocell]

Half empty :blink: mind you it is pouring with rain right now ...

Would you rather be caught out in a heavy rain storm or snow storm?

Rain --snow you can lose direction.


If there is one thing in life you could do over again what would it be?

[pajama]

Rain --snow you can lose direction.


If there is one thing in life you could do over again what would it be?

I would have had the courage to end my marriage, rather than have an affair and hurt a wonderful lady.

Do you brush your teeth every day, or do you skip days if you aren't going to be out in public?

[Ginger]

If there is one thing in life you could do over again what would it be?


Graduate school. I didn't maximize that experience the way I could have.


Dare to Tell the Truth ... what's the highest number of people you've dated at one time?

[Breathless]

Rain --snow you can lose direction.


If there is one thing in life you could do over again what would it be?

I would have waited to tell my bio father that I was pregnant with my son, at least till i was about to show, just to have him in my life a few more months without looking at me with constant disappointment. I had only met him, and had him in my life for less than 7 months at that point.


Dare to Tell the Truth ... what's the highest number of people you've dated at one time?

Just one!

What do you really want to be when you grow up?

[Electrocell]

Graduate school. I didn't maximize that experience the way I could have.


Dare to Tell the Truth ... what's the highest number of people you've dated at one time?

When I date only one at a time .

How many have you dated at one time lol?

[Electrocell]

I would have waited to tell my bio father that I was pregnant with my son, at least till i was about to show, just to have him in my life a few more months without looking at me with constant disappointment. I had only met him, and had him in my life for less than 7 months at that point.


Dare to Tell the Truth ... what's the highest number of people you've dated at one time?

Just one!

What do you really want to be when you grow up?

Hadn't decided yet lol so much to learn so little time.

Were you an athelete or the brainy type in School?

[ahk]

both.

what house chores do you enjoy the most?

[Nomad]

both.

what house chores do you enjoy the most?


i sincerely like most household chores. i especially like them if i'm doing them with or for someone i love. if i had to pick one i liked the most i'd say it was keeping each room organized so that it's pleasant and functional.

i'm interested in Scout's question so let's regurgitate it.

why are you on the Planet? the real reason.

[~ocean]

I;m on the Planet 1. cause its a nice site and run by ppl who care
2. to be w. ppl in my community
3. to make friends wich I have :)

would u tell your best friend that their lover is cheating on them ?

[Reader]

I;m on the Planet 1. cause its a nice site and run by ppl who care
2. to be w. ppl in my community
3. to make friends wich I have :)

would u tell your best friend that their lover is cheating on them ?



Only if I was the one cheating with the lover. (I'm kidding, yes, I would tell her)

Would you prefer to drown or watch someone you cared about drown?

[~ocean]

wow thats weird ? about drowning . i would try my best to save their life as well as my own .. i dont think there would be a choice of death ,, just survival.

do u voucher w. integrity ?

[Ginger]

When I date only one at a time .

How many have you dated at one time lol?


LOL .... two? :|

What's the most embarrassing that's happened to you in a public place?

[Bootsandheels]

What's the most embarrassing that's happened to you in a public place?[/QUOTE]

Oh dear Lawd...let's see... I was on a college choir tour and had just gotten off the tour bus at a local high school during recess and it was really windy out. My skirt I had on promptly blew UP over my head and low and behold Boots just had on a pair of nylons SANS undies...! By FAR the most embarassing moment of my young life!

What are you most passionate about?

[pajama]

Oh dear Lawd...let's see... I was on a college choir tour and had just gotten off the tour bus at a local high school during recess and it was really windy out. My skirt I had on promptly blew UP over my head and low and behold Boots just had on a pair of nylons SANS undies...! By FAR the most embarassing moment of my young life!

What are you most passionate about?

hmmm This was actually kinda tough for me. Not because I couldn't narrow it down, but because I had to really think of anything I am truly "passionate" about. I would say one thing is my right to bare arms. I didn't really realize how important I thought this was, or how hot I got about it, until the public meeting thingy at Reunion. So I guess I must be pretty passionate.

Do you brush your teeth every day, even days that you won't be leaving the house?

[aishah]

Do you brush your teeth every day, even days that you won't be leaving the house?

i'm ashamed to say...no. lately i've been down and sick and my sleep schedule's been all fucked up so there've been days where i forgot to brush (i usually brush first thing in the morning). i went to the dentist last week and everything's fine but it sort of lit a fire under my ass. so i'm trying to get back on track. i even got a little crazy and bought floss. i like to live on the edge.

when was the last time you walked somewhere just to walk? (not to commute?)

[Gráinne]

i'm ashamed to say...no. lately i've been down and sick and my sleep schedule's been all fucked up so there've been days where i forgot to brush (i usually brush first thing in the morning). i went to the dentist last week and everything's fine but it sort of lit a fire under my ass. so i'm trying to get back on track. i even got a little crazy and bought floss. i like to live on the edge.

when was the last time you walked somewhere just to walk? (not to commute?)

Yesterday, actually. OK, I was going to get the mail, but I enjoy walking a little further on to a big pond in the complex. I like to listen to the frogs and watch the ducks.

Of all the ages you have already been, if you could choose one of those ages to be for the rest of your life, what would it be and why?

[Katniss]

Of all the ages you have already been, if you could choose one of those ages to be for the rest of your life, what would it be and why?

46. It's the age I am now and I am happier than I have ever been. Primarily because my definition of "happy" has shifted to become less ridged and less self-centered.

Have you ever had a health issue that you knew required medical attention yet you refused to seek help? Why?


Katniss~~

[laruss]

Have you ever had a health issue that you knew required medical attention yet you refused to seek help? Why?

Katniss~~

Refused for a while, because I was terrified. After a few weeks I called my doctor and went for the tests. It was benign.

What do you miss the most from childhood?

[Electrocell]

Refused for a while, because I was terrified. After a few weeks I called my doctor and went for the tests. It was benign.

What do you miss the most from childhood?

Riding horses

What is your best childhood memory?

[Reader]

Riding horses

What is your best childhood memory?



Being taught by my Dad and Mom how to love animals.

What's the farthest you rode your bike as a kid?



-PS, I think this is or could be my favorite thread.

[Breathless]

Being taught by my Dad and Mom how to love animals.

What's the farthest you rode your bike as a kid?



-PS, I think this is or could be my favorite thread.

72 km, It was a bike a thon to raise money for childhood cancer, and my friends and I did it every year, to compete with each other who could raise the most, then get there the fastest.

Name a sport you loved/love to play that you totally suck at.

[FeminineAllure]

What's the farthest you rode your bike as a kid?

I don't know the exact mileage but a few miles at the very least.

What is your favorite motivational quote or saying?

[lusciouskiwi]

What's the farthest you rode your bike as a kid?

I don't know the exact mileage but a few miles at the very least.

What is your favorite motivational quote or saying?

The only abnormality there is is the inability to love. Anais Nin.

Have you ever walked away from someone/something you've loved?

[Nomad]

The only abnormality there is is the inability to love. Anais Nin.

Have you ever walked away from someone/something you've loved?


yes. it's what got me where i am today.


what do you wish you understood better?

[Daktari]

yes. it's what got me where i am today.


what do you wish you understood better?


People...


Which finger do you use to pick yer nose? :|

[Nomad]

People...


Which finger do you use to pick yer nose? :|


all of them. got one right up there now. makes it hard to tpey ---- teyp ---- eytp ---- pyte ---- yept ---- TYPE (whew!)


what are you going to put off doing today, and why?

[lusciouskiwi]

all of them. got one right up there now. makes it hard to tpey ---- teyp ---- eytp ---- pyte ---- yept ---- TYPE (whew!)


what are you going to put off doing today, and why?

Probably cooking.

What's the real you haven't lost weight if you need to do so?

[Nomad]

Probably cooking.

What's the real you haven't lost weight if you need to do so?

because it's something i'd rather hate myself for than do anything about. it's weird too because i'm not lazy. i'm physically active and i like losing weight when it does happen. but the last 5 or 6 years or so i've been in a kind of strange survival mode and it's really ramped up my obsession/addiction to food. there are days when i wonder just how long i think i'll be given the chance to abuse myself this way before there's a significant price to pay. dont get me wrong. i'm not a thinworshiper and i am glad of that. to be honest, i've never been even close to thin but i dont want to be and that's not sour grapes either. it's acknowledging that i think beauty is present in sizes other than 0/2 and that i'm always going to be an 18/20. my whole family is big people so i'm gonna be a big people too. just facts. but i'd prefer to be less big. not skinny. just less big --- because i actually want to be.


tell me about someone you most admire.

[lusciouskiwi]

because it's something i'd rather hate myself for than do anything about. it's weird too because i'm not lazy. i'm physically active and i like losing weight when it does happen. but the last 5 or 6 years or so i've been in a kind of strange survival mode and it's really ramped up my obsession/addiction to food. there are days when i wonder just how long i think i'll be given the chance to abuse myself this way before there's a significant price to pay. dont get me wrong. i'm not a thinworshiper and i am glad of that. to be honest, i've never been even close to thin but i dont want to be and that's not sour grapes either. it's acknowledging that i think beauty is present in sizes other than 0/2 and that i'm always going to be an 18/20. my whole family is big people so i'm gonna be a big people too. just facts. but i'd prefer to be less big. not skinny. just less big --- because i actually want to be.


tell me about someone you most admire.

You know it's a toss up between Nelson Mandela and the Dalai Lama. Both have endured so much physically and mentally but neither of them gave up and remained positive. That's pretty amazing and something we/i could all learn from.

Tell me about a part of your body you don't like (because I hate my feet).

[Daktari]

You know it's a toss up between Nelson Mandela and the Dalai Lama. Both have endured so much physically and mentally but neither of them gave up and remained positive. That's pretty amazing and something we/i could all learn from.

Tell me about a part of your body you don't like (because I hate my feet).

M'teefs ...hate them, wish I could afford private treatment.


What is it in other folks you dislike most?

[Nomad]

You know it's a toss up between Nelson Mandela and the Dalai Lama. Both have endured so much physically and mentally but neither of them gave up and remained positive. That's pretty amazing and something we/i could all learn from.

Tell me about a part of your body you don't like (because I hate my feet).

just one? LOL ok. if i have to pick one i'd say flabby triceps. (and face and ass and love handles and thighs and did i mention my ass and love handles?)

do/did you really know your parents? why/why not?


p.s. Kiwi. if you're a reader you might like a book called A Cave in the Snow. it's by a woman called Vicki MacKenzie. (sp?)

[Nomad]

M'teefs ...hate them, wish I could afford private treatment.


What is it in other folks you dislike most?


what i dislike in other folks is probably the same thing i dislike in myself. but if i did need to choose one thing i really hate it's to be interrupted or talked over the top of. i think it's dismissive and rude.

back to my question ---

do/did you really know your parents? why/why not?

[Breathless]

do/did you really know your parents? why/why not?

No, I would like to think that I did as I was present in the house for the first 12 years with both of them, but my step father was very abusive in all of the ways.. and my mother was in constant survival mode. I was the mouthy little girl that just needed to protect her brother and mother, there for needed breaking and to be taught the lesson.. So no, and not much has changed.. In adult years, I have become friends with my mom, and we are close, but I am still the family protector, and I still now and will always stand up for what I believe is right, even if I stand alone! :)

Dare to tell the Truth.. Did you ever have an imaginary friend as a child?

[Electrocell]

Nope no need had brother and sisters and plenty of animals around.

Do you ever dream of becoming a star?




do/did you really know your parents? why/why not?

No, I would like to think that I did as I was present in the house for the first 12 years with both of them, but my step father was very abusive in all of the ways.. and my mother was in constant survival mode. I was the mouthy little girl that just needed to protect her brother and mother, there for needed breaking and to be taught the lesson.. So no, and not much has changed.. In adult years, I have become friends with my mom, and we are close, but I am still the family protector, and I still now and will always stand up for what I believe is right, even if I stand alone! :)

Dare to tell the Truth.. Did you ever have an imaginary friend as a child?

[Breathless]

Do you ever dream of becoming a star?

Absolutely!!! I love to sing.. even if i am the only one that doesnt have the hairs stand on my arms listening to myself. I did a solo in kindergarden at my graduation.. and a few times after that..lol

Where you were a child... who did you want to be like as adult?

[ahk]

like my grandmother (ma)

Do you run a lot of red lights?

[Electrocell]

like my grandmother (ma)

Do you run a lot of red lights?

Not intentionally lol

Where is the farthest place you have traveled ?

[Breathless]

Where is the farthest place you have traveled ?

Little Rock.. before that would have been Texas.. I have not yet left the continent.

What are you doing for the weekend?

[ahk]

studying for an exam
and preparing myself for the big exam

car stuff
play with the dogs
and laundry.

oh-- Sunday, we are going to the Balloon Fiesta!

What is your most favourite kind of cake? and why-- what does it remind you of?

[Electrocell]

Where is the farthest place you have traveled ?

Little Rock.. before that would have been Texas.. I have not yet left the continent.

What are you doing for the weekend?

Probably going to a friend's for a barbeque.

Where is the most exciting place you have ever been?

[Breathless]

Where is the most exciting place you have ever been?

Define exciting? For simple beauty, I adore Mendicino California.. the ocean crashing on the shores, the kindness of the people there, on the edge of the red forest with the mountains surrounding.. Galveston Texas gave me some excitement too... until i almost stepped on a jellyfish playing in the sand.. in the dark. lol
I went on a trip earlier this year to hang out with Starryeyes and Justin, and I was overwhelmed with the warmth of their friendship.. so that falls in to one of my top favourites.. and Little Rock of course.. the feeling of belonging. and the laughs, new friends made... that was exciting

Name one characteristic about yourself that you need to work on...

[Electrocell]

Where is the most exciting place you have ever been?

Define exciting? For simple beauty, I adore Mendicino California.. the ocean crashing on the shores, the kindness of the people there, on the edge of the red forest with the mountains surrounding.. Galveston Texas gave me some excitement too... until i almost stepped on a jellyfish playing in the sand.. in the dark. lol
I went on a trip earlier this year to hang out with Starryeyes and Justin, and I was overwhelmed with the warmth of their friendship.. so that falls in to one of my top favourites.. and Little Rock of course.. the feeling of belonging. and the laughs, new friends made... that was exciting

Name one characteristic about yourself that you need to work on...

Just one lol. Not to be so forgiving especially when someone continues to screw you over.

If you could save the world but lose yourself would you?

[Breathless]

If you could save the world but lose yourself would you?

Depends on the context.. If there was a situation that I alone could stop and it would inturn guarantee the saving of many lives.. yes.. with out a doubt.. I would however be scared shitless.. I tend to act without thinking about the consequenses to myself, in helping others.. just who I am.
If time and money were non issue.. what is one thing that you would love to learn.. just for selfish reasons..

[aishah]

If you could save the world but lose yourself would you?

Depends on the context.. If there was a situation that I alone could stop and it would inturn guarantee the saving of many lives.. yes.. with out a doubt.. I would however be scared shitless.. I tend to act without thinking about the consequenses to myself, in helping others.. just who I am.
If time and money were non issue.. what is one thing that you would love to learn.. just for selfish reasons..

i would love to learn how to spin (using a spinning wheel) and weave. but the materials are soooo expensive.

if you were independently wealthy and didn't have to worry about finding work or anything, where in the world would you live and why?

[Daktari]

i would love to learn how to spin (using a spinning wheel) and weave. but the materials are soooo expensive.

if you were independently wealthy and didn't have to worry about finding work or anything, where in the world would you live and why?

I would be pan continental...because I could. Would also have a base here near Brighton, built by Straw Works. They build straw bale houses and I'd have an italianate single story courtyard stylee house made from straw.


If you could only listen to one song ever again, what would it be?

[LeftWriteFemme]

I would be pan continental...because I could. Would also have a base here near Brighton, built by Straw Works. They build straw bale houses and I'd have an italianate single story courtyard stylee house made from straw.


If you could only listen to one song ever again, what would it be?

GJcvHaYmSlA
I never get tired of this song

second choice.....and it's a close second
X4Df3a3dfWQ


Would you be willing to move to a different Continent?

[Daktari]

Would you be willing to move to a different Continent?

In a bloody shot if it was a warm sunny one. :cheesy:


Would you move to a country where you didn't speak the language?

[pajama]

In a bloody shot if it was a warm sunny one. :cheesy:


Would you move to a country where you didn't speak the language?


Sure as long as it wasn't a slavic or asian language. I can't talk like I'm hawking a luggy.

What's your favorite pair of underwear you own? Why?

[lusciouskiwi]

In a bloody shot if it was a warm sunny one. :cheesy:


Would you move to a country where you didn't speak the language?

I have - South Korea and now Malaysia (and the US in between hahahaha)

have you ever regretted having fur babies? Or not having if you don't have.

[ahk]

sometimes I think we have 1 too many-- only because we have 2 older dogs and the newest is a younger younger pup-- and with our schedules its just hard sometimes, but I love him and I wouldn't ever give him up.

good question, btw.

Are you the jealous type?

[Nomad]

sometimes I think we have 1 too many-- only because we have 2 older dogs and the newest is a younger younger pup-- and with our schedules its just hard sometimes, but I love him and I wouldn't ever give him up.

good question, btw.

Are you the jealous type?

i didnt used to be. as my insecurities have magnified jealousy has found a home inside of me. (shrug) abandonment issues. go figure.

:| <=== thought insecurities were supposed to decrease with age face


do you do something in secret that the people in close physical proximity to you dont know about and if so, why? (tell what if you can w/o endangering yourself or your peace of mind)

[lusciouskiwi]

i didnt used to be. as my insecurities have magnified jealousy has found a home inside of me. (shrug) abandonment issues. go figure.

:| <=== thought insecurities were supposed to decrease with age face


do you do something in secret that the people in close physical proximity to you dont know about and if so, why? (tell what if you can w/o endangering yourself or your peace of mind)

Weeelllll, occasionally, when my Malaysia ex still lived with me, I would find opportunities to have time alone and umm, you know. Relax. :blush:

Have you ever emotionally cheated on your lover?

[Nomad]

Weeelllll, occasionally, when my Malaysia ex still lived with me, I would find opportunities to have time alone and umm, you know. Relax. :blush:

Have you ever emotionally cheated on your lover?

yes. i did it once. lead to the greatest love of my life. do i wish i'd done things differently? yes. but no. and mostly no. there you go. DARE to tell the TRUTH, right?

have you ever walked out of a store having honestly forgotten to pay for something (i.e.: no intention of doing so when you went in or while you were shopping/browsing). if so, did you go back and pay?

p.s. lame answer Ms. Kiwidoll. EVERBUDDIEEE does that. :cracked:

[~ocean]

happened years ago w. ice creams and yes we did go back and pay

when do u hold back the truth .. or would u ?

[lusciouskiwi]

yes. i did it once. lead to the greatest love of my life. do i wish i'd done things differently? yes. but no. and mostly no. there you go. DARE to tell the TRUTH, right?

have you ever walked out of a store having honestly forgotten to pay for something (i.e.: no intention of doing so when you went in or while you were shopping/browsing). if so, did you go back and pay?

p.s. lame answer Ms. Kiwidoll. EVERBUDDIEEE does that. :cracked:

charming!!!! the whole point of my relaxing was that I was sneaking off to do it not including her because we weren't having sex anyways and I REALLY wanted to relax :blush:

[Nomad]

happened years ago w. ice creams and yes we did go back and pay

when do u hold back the truth .. or would u ?


:cracked:

you're kidding, right? no? ok. i hold back the truth everyday baby. every freakin day.

when was the last time you told yourself to lighten up, and why?

[Nomad]

charming!!!! the whole point of my relaxing was that I was sneaking off to do it not including her because we weren't having sex anyways and I REALLY wanted to relax :blush:

i stand by my annoying accusation

lame! :p

[ahk]

:cracked:

you're kidding, right? no? ok. i hold back the truth everyday baby. every freakin day.

when was the last time you told yourself to lighten up, and why?

just recently.
because certain people aren't worth me getting irritated over.

why do you put things off?

[Daktari]

just recently.
because certain people aren't worth me getting irritated over.

why do you put things off?

Because I have a doctorate in procrastination


How do you deal with daily irritations?

[ahk]

I talk about them
or write them down to figure out why I'm irritated

Do you ever "rebel" about anything-- and if yes, what?

[Daktari]

I talk about them
or write them down to figure out why I'm irritated

Do you ever "rebel" about anything-- and if yes, what?

Lots. Currently it's the dearth of women and gay folks in the recovery services and outside methods of recovery. The personal is political and I WILL change things if it bloody kills me.


Do you ever just 'give in' just for a quiet life?

[laruss]

Do you ever just 'give in' just for a quiet life?

Not so much anymore, but I actually went through an entire 4 year relationship with someone who had Aspergers, you learn to give in or you will argue to your dieing breath. My mantra at the time was 'it's not worth the fight'. Now I am much more likely to fight for what I want, and walk away if I have to.

What dream are you not fulfilling that keeps niggling at you to get on it?

[BstlMyhart]

Lots. Currently it's the dearth of women and gay folks in the recovery services and outside methods of recovery. The personal is political and I WILL change things if it bloody kills me.


Do you ever just 'give in' just for a quiet life?
I have given in for a quiet life...that's why i'm staying single lol

If you could go back in time, what would you tell your younger self?

[~ocean]

not to give ppl who insult me another chance , their ignorant energy will never change.

do u stop and look at the ppl who surround u ?

[BstlMyhart]

not to give ppl who insult me another chance , their ignorant energy will never change.

do u stop and look at the ppl who surround u ?
yes...always

[~ocean]

(((( bestill )))))

[BstlMyhart]

(((( bestill )))))
((((hugs you back))))

[Fatale]

I have given in for a quiet life...that's why i'm staying single lol

If you could go back in time, what would you tell your younger self?

I like this question, and have often found myself pondering something of the sort. I think I would tell myself to value my friendships more, pay better attention to them. I would let myself know that I was doing the right thing in embracing my intelligence even when girls around me seemed to be intentionally dumbing themselves down (for reasons that are still inexplicable to me). I would reiterate that anything is possible if one wants it enough...work hard and you can make it happen even when it seems every door is closed. If you can't find a key, pick up a sledge hammer. I definitely would have told myself to buy silver when it was dirt cheap!

[FeminineAllure]

What dream are you not fulfilling that keeps niggling at you to get on it?
__________________
I want to write a book and/or screenplay.

What was the most romantic thing ever done for you?

[ahk]

cooking me dinner
(3 course meal)

If you could have just one thing, what would it be? Why?

[~ocean]

good health ~ to be here for Jonathan as he grows up.

I s there anyone in your life alive , that u miss with all your heart ?

[deb0670]

My brother Tim who lives in California.. have not seen him in over 5 years.






If you found an envelope on the sidewalk filled with hundreds of dollars.. what would you do with it?

[Electrocell]

My brother Tim who lives in California.. have not seen him in over 5 years.






If you found an envelope on the sidewalk filled with hundreds of dollars.. what would you do with it?

If the owners info was in it would return it. If not take it to the police never know could of been someone life earnings.

What is the most expensive thing you have ever bought?

[Duchess]

If the owners info was in it would return it. If not take it to the police never know could of been someone life earnings.

What is the most expensive thing you have ever bought?

My house:)

If you could blink and instantly change something about yourself, what would it be?

[Fatale]

I would be kinder to people I think are fools.

When was the last time you were intentionally cruel?

[pajama]

My house:)

If you could blink and instantly change something about yourself, what would it be?

My big ole belly. :)

What's you favorite pair of undies and why?

[deb0670]

Can i blink a few times?
my hair.. too thin ,
my body: not thin enough
my self esteem: needs to be better



If you had the ability to clone yourself, would you? why and why not?

[little_ms_sunshyne]

My big ole belly. :)

What's you favorite pair of undies and why?

Marilyn Monroe black lace boy shorts...Because they make me feel sexy :) No one has to know what is underneath the clothes lol


Greatest turn on?

[deb0670]

My big ole belly. :)

What's you favorite pair of undies and why?

the ones i am wearing cause they are comfy and pretty :-)

Would you tell someone standing in line in front of you that they really should take a shower if they smelled badly?

[pajama]

Marilyn Monroe black lace boy shorts...Because they make me feel sexy :) No one has to know what is underneath the clothes lol


Greatest turn on?

Marilyn Monroe black lace boy shorts :grindevil:

the ones i am wearing cause they are comfy and pretty :-)

Would you tell someone standing in line in front of you that they really should take a shower if they smelled badly?

No. I don't know what their life path has been. Plus on weekends, sometimes I don't smell so good either. LOL

Have you ever told someone they have really bad breath?

[deb0670]

Marilyn Monroe black lace boy shorts :grindevil:



No. I don't know what their life path has been. Plus on weekends, sometimes I don't smell so good either. LOL

Have you ever told someone they have really bad breath?

yes, my daughter. :hrmph:

What is your best feature?

[ahk]

my shoulders.

Did you get everything done today?

[Electrocell]

my shoulders.

Did you get everything done today?

Nope only what I needed too lol.

Where do you see yourself in 5 years?

[Mel C.]

Nope only what I needed too lol.

Where do you see yourself in 5 years?

I think in 5 years, I will probably still see myself in a mirror...

What is your favorite vacation destination?

[Electrocell]

I think in 5 years, I will probably still see myself in a mirror...

What is your favorite vacation destination?

LMAO ok Mel.

Where I would like to go is Europe before I die.

What is the most beautiful place you have ever been?

[pajama]

LMAO ok Mel.

Where I would like to go is Europe before I die.

What is the most beautiful place you have ever been?

A certain cabin in the woods just west of here. You pull into the long drive way that is literally cut into a forest. You can just feel the energy change when you come on the land. Then the house sits on the side of a hill and has all windows in the living room so that you are looking out into the treetops. In the winter when the trees are bare you can see the deer drinking water from the little creek at the bottom of the hill. Plus it's owner is one of the most beautiful creatures I've ever been in love with....or seen for that matter.

Do you believe in faries?

[Electrocell]

A certain cabin in the woods just west of here. You pull into the long drive way that is literally cut into a forest. You can just feel the energy change when you come on the land. Then the house sits on the side of a hill and has all windows in the living room so that you are looking out into the treetops. In the winter when the trees are bare you can see the deer drinking water from the little creek at the bottom of the hill. Plus it's owner is one of the most beautiful creatures I've ever been in love with....or seen for that matter.

Do you believe in faries?

Damn that sounds like my kind of place was nice here until the realestate guy bought the land across from me and divide it up have all kinds of neighbors now.

Yes I do believe :D.


What is your wildest fantasy?

[Ginger]

Do you believe in faries?

No, I don't believe in fairies—or unicorns, trolls, werewolves, vampires, spirits, ghosts, mermaids; however, I do believe in aliens!


What is your laziest habit?

[pajama]

No, I don't believe in fairies—or unicorns, trolls, werewolves, vampires, spirits, ghosts, mermaids; however, I do believe in aliens!


What is your laziest habit?

You mean like vacuuming over the same piece of fluff twenty times, just because I'm too lazy to bend over and pick it up?

I don't have a questions right now because IslandScout wiped out my next 8 questions with her one answer above. LOL

[pajama]

Okay. I've got one, you missed dragons. Do you believe dragons ever existed? :P

[Electrocell]

Okay. I've got one, you missed dragons. Do you believe dragons ever existed? :P

Possibility there is some truths to all legends and myths from what I understand.


Do you ride horses?

[Mel C.]

Possibility there is some truths to all legends and myths from what I understand.


Do you ride horses?

If "riding horses" is a euphemism for sexual position, yes. If you mean the equine, no.

What is your favorite movie?

[Electrocell]

If "riding horses" is a euphemism for sexual position, yes. If you mean the equine, no.

What is your favorite movie?

equine MEl lol

Don't really have a favorite love the animated ones or scy-fy etc.

What is your favorite drink?

[Katniss]

What is your favorite drink?

Fresh squeezed orange juice from the local Farmer's Market.

Have you kept any of your favorite childhood toys? If so what?


Katniss~~

[Electrocell]

Fresh squeezed orange juice from the local Farmer's Market.

Have you kept any of your favorite childhood toys? If so what?


Katniss~~

LOL no can't say that I have.


What name would you rather have then the one you have now?

[Nomad]

LOL no can't say that I have.


What name would you rather have then the one you have now?



i like my name. what i'd REALLY rather is the addition of the word "Princess" before my name. THAT'S what i'd rather.


how do you spend the majority of your free time?

[Daktari]

i like my name. what i'd REALLY rather is the addition of the word "Princess" before my name. THAT'S what i'd rather.


how do you spend the majority of your free time?

At 'anonymous' meetings or in fellowship with members at said meetings. Reading. Interwebbing. Cycling. Spending time with non fellowship friends. Not much really.

Do you have a clean credit rating?

[Nomad]

At 'anonymous' meetings or in fellowship with members at said meetings. Reading. Interwebbing. Cycling. Spending time with non fellowship friends. Not much really.

Do you have a clean credit rating?

:blink:

a "clean credit rating"?

:cracked:


is there a lover whose (ahem) "skill" you cant forget?

[DMW]

:blink:

a "clean credit rating"?

:cracked:


is there a lover whose (ahem) "skill" you cant forget?

Yes there is a lover whose skills i can't forget. I miss those skills now.

If you have a lover whose skills you can't forget..Do you wish that lover were with you now.?

[Nomad]

Yes there is a lover whose skills i can't forget. I miss those skills now.

If you have a lover whose skills you can't forget..Do you wish that lover were with you now.?


oh yes. yesssssssssssssssss

if you have a lover whose skills you can't forget, do you imagine you're with them when you're actually with others?

[DMW]

oh yes. yesssssssssssssssss

if you have a lover whose skills you can't forget, do you imagine you're with them when you're actually with others?


Ohhhh...no, i can't do that. If i am with a lover and think of another ...i get limp cock syndrome....doesn't work for me. My whole being has to be there, in that moment, with that woman. Otherwise, it isn't good enough for me.

Could you use another cup of coffee or would you prefer a nap and more sleep?

[Nomad]

Ohhhh...no, i can't do that. If i am with a lover and think of another ...i get limp cock syndrome....doesn't work for me. My whole being has to be there, in that moment, with that woman. Otherwise, it isn't good enough for me.

Could you use another cup of coffee or would you prefer a nap and more sleep?

both. i want a nap and more sleep first and then a cup of coffee.

do you need a vacation? if so, where would you go and why?

[Mel C.]

both. i want a nap and more sleep first and then a cup of coffee.

do you need a vacation? if so, where would you go and why?

Not really. I was in Little Rock a couple weeks ago, Canada yesterday and will be in San Diego Friday so I have distractions from work.

Do you wake up to an alarm, or do you drag your butt out of bed without an alarm?

[Nomad]

Not really. I was in Little Rock a couple weeks ago, Canada yesterday and will be in San Diego Friday so I have distractions from work.

Do you wake up to an alarm, or do you drag your butt out of bed without an alarm?


i wake up between 2 and 4 a.m. almost every morning no matter when i went to sleep (which is usually around midnight). so no. no alarm

how many rooms do you have in your home? how many do you really live in?

[lusciouskiwi]

i wake up between 2 and 4 a.m. almost every morning no matter when i went to sleep (which is usually around midnight). so no. no alarm

how many rooms do you have in your home? how many do you really live in?

Nine rooms including two and a half bathrooms. I use five of them :)

Do you ever go to bed and sleep in all of your clothes because you feel too scared to take them off?

[Nomad]

Nine rooms including two and a half bathrooms. I use five of them :)

Do you ever go to bed and sleep in all of your clothes because you feel too scared to take them off?

i have. i dont now.

does life ever make you feel like screaming in the middle of a room full of people?

[Tony]

i have. i dont now.

does life ever make you feel like screaming in the middle of a room full of people?

Not life so much as the people in that room (given the right circumstances).

Is it hard for you to always be honest even at the risk of hurting someone's feelings?

[~ocean]

yes . esp. when it means loosing a friend .. temp.

do u like telling a site full of ppl about ur sexual desires ?

[grenade]

yes . esp. when it means loosing a friend .. temp.

do u like telling a site full of ppl about ur sexual desires ?

I'm a gemini. Depends on my mood. I'm not shy about sex.



What is your biggest regret? Would you change it if you could?

[~ocean]

bailing everyone i knew out finacialy when i had a sizable amount of money .
can u change your whole life of u fell in love ?

[pajama]

bailing everyone i knew out finacialy when i had a sizable amount of money .
can u change your whole life of u fell in love ?

Absolutely NOT.

What is the most "unique" people watching experience you've had?

[Duchess]

Absolutely NOT.

What is the most "unique" people watching experience you've had?


Halloween in Key West:blush::)

Have you ever stayed in a relationship only because the sex was HAWT?

[Electrocell]

Halloween in Key West:blush::)

Have you ever stayed in a relationship only because the sex was HAWT?

Unfortunately yes a couple of them for awhile but can't stay for long if that's all we have.

Would you rather have someone love for you or what you can do for them?

[Stud_puppy1991]

Unfortunately yes a couple of them for awhile but can't stay for long if that's all we have.

Would you rather have someone love for you or what you can do for them?

I would rather it be that they love me for me, since if they only love what you do for them, that's not real love.

Have you ever ended something that was good and wish you could take it back just have that memory back again?

[Electrocell]

I would rather it be that they love me for me, since if they only love what you do for them, that's not real love.

Have you ever ended something that was good and wish you could take it back just have that memory back again?

Nope can't say that I have if I ended something good. it was for lying -cheating etc.

If you could bring anybody back to life who would it be?

[ahk]

my grandmother

Whats on your agenda today?

[Daktari]

my grandmother

Whats on your agenda today?

I've completed today's agenda and a little more...unusually. It's after 10pm now so the agenda is to get in the bath that's been run, watch an episode or two of Glee. Then bed and book.


Have you 'committed' a random act of kindness today; what?

[Electrocell]

I've completed today's agenda and a little more...unusually. It's after 10pm now so the agenda is to get in the bath that's been run, watch an episode or two of Glee. Then bed and book.


Have you 'committed' a random act of kindness today; what?

Try to be kind every day --listening to a couple of friends that needed to take a load off their chest so to speak.


How do you define being in love?

[stepfordfemme]

Try to be kind every day --listening to a couple of friends that needed to take a load off their chest so to speak.


How do you define being in love?

Being in love is giving someone the power to break your heart and trusting them not to.

What is your guilty pleasure song?

[Nomad]

Being in love is giving someone the power to break your heart and trusting them not to.

What is your guilty pleasure song?



?v=CRh9LabkEpw


what song breaks your damn heart every time?

[girl_dee]

?v=CRh9LabkEpw


what song breaks your damn heart every time?

Against All Odds


Have you ever regretted putting a love affair out there on the internet?

[Electrocell]

Against All Odds


Have you ever regretted putting a love affair out there on the internet?

Yeah especially if it don't work out lol. Everybody doesn't need know everything about a person especially online IMO.

What do you do in your spare time?

[girl_dee]

Yeah especially if it don't work out lol. Everybody doesn't need know everything about a person especially online IMO.

What do you do in your spare time?

Not much to spare around here but i love to read and crochet things.


What have you created with your own two hands?

[Fatale]

Not much to spare around here but i love to read and crochet things.


What have you created with your own two hands?

I have built bookcases, thrown many a pot, and definitely some havoc.

Are you afraid that you might be alone when you're old?

[Nomad]

I have built bookcases, thrown many a pot, and definitely some havoc.

Are you afraid that you might be alone when you're old?

yep

do you dance like a fool when no one's home?

[Electrocell]

I have built bookcases, thrown many a pot, and definitely some havoc.

Are you afraid that you might be alone when you're old?

Not if I have cats lol. Doesn't bother me right now being alone not sure if it will then.


What is your greatest achievement in life?

[Katniss]

do you dance like a fool when no one's home?

Yes, and my cat hates me when I scoop him up, twirl him around and do a "dip."

Would you want to know the date and cause of your death if you could not change it?


Katniss~~

[Nomad]

Yes, and my cat hates me when I scoop him up, twirl him around and do a "dip."

Would you want to know the date and cause of your death if you could not change it?


Katniss~~


yep. i'm not afraid of dying. we're all doing it. been doing it since the moment we were born. what bugs me is not having a schedule. it annoys me. i hate not knowing when the bell is going to ring.

are you more likely to spin on your own flaws or on something someone else does that irritates you?

[Fatale]

Yes, and my cat hates me when I scoop him up, twirl him around and do a "dip."

Would you want to know the date and cause of your death if you could not change it?


Katniss~~

No, I wouldn't want to know. I don't think it...well, damn, now I don't know. I was going to say I don't think it would impact me positively, but...

Is there a particular food item you are embarrassed to admit you love? she asks, knowing full well she is a Ho Ho ho.

[Nomad]

No, I wouldn't want to know. I don't think it...well, damn, now I don't know. I was going to say I don't think it would impact me positively, but...

Is there a particular food item you are embarrassed to admit you love? she asks, knowing full well she is a Ho Ho ho.

nope. i'm not embarrassed about anything i like to eat.

when was the last time you bared your soul and why did you choose to do it?

[ahk]

I like your sig -- btw.

When I started to transition-- why, because I was ready to live my life to the fullest.

What is your guilty pleasure?

[Daktari]

What is your guilty pleasure?

Don't feel guilty about any of my pleasures but if I had to assign such a feeling to any of them it would Glee and cooking shows.


Would you prefer a formal dinner date or a floor picnic?

[lusciouskiwi]

Don't feel guilty about any of my pleasures but if I had to assign such a feeling to any of them it would Glee and cooking shows.


Would you prefer a formal dinner date or a floor picnic?

I think a floor picnic - what food does my date bring, how is it organised, etc, sounds more romantic :)

Have you ever gone on a date to someone's house for a homecooked meal and the meal was awful? (and what did you do?)

[Daktari]

I think a floor picnic - what food does my date bring, how is it organised, etc, sounds more romantic :)

Have you ever gone on a date to someone's house for a homecooked meal and the meal was awful? (and what did you do?)

Not so much awful but just crap junk food. I ate what I could bring myself to eat.


Have you ever broken something in someone else's house and not admitted you did it?

[Nomad]

Not so much awful but just crap junk food. I ate what I could bring myself to eat.


Have you ever broken something in someone else's house and not admitted you did it?


nope. i'm a big admitter. ask me a question and i'll admit something. :D

have you ever wished you were in a different relationship than the one you were in at the time?

[~ocean]

yes , that usualy is the feeling b4 a break up

do u think gay woman use sexual precautions ?

[FemmeBibliophile]

I think just like hetero women, people make the choices they feel as best for them, whether that be to use protection or not.

Do you believe the world is coming to an end this year as predicted by the Mayans?

[Nomad]

I think just like hetero women, people make the choices they feel as best for them, whether that be to use protection or not.

Do you believe the world is coming to an end this year as predicted by the Mayans?

personally, i think the Maya simply predicted the end of an era (or the world as we see and engage in it now). either that or they just ran out of ink.

how many lovers have you had?

[FemmeBibliophile]

Now that's personal... However... 3

What do you feel is your greatest mistake that you've made thus far?

[Nomad]

Now that's personal... However... 3

What do you feel is your greatest mistake that you've made thus far?

well it IS called the "Dare to tell the Truth" thread after all.

3? that's a magic number you know. yes it is. it's a magic number.

the greatest mistake i've ever made is not treating myself with the respect and love i deserve. sounds cliche, but all sorts of shitstorm happens when you dont do that most basic thing. it often just happens gradually so you dont know you're in it, until you're really *IN* it.

what's your best characteristic and why?

[Gráinne]

well it IS called the "Dare to tell the Truth" thread after all.

3? that's a magic number you know. yes it is. it's a magic number.

the greatest mistake i've ever made is not treating myself with the respect and love i deserve. sounds cliche, but all sorts of shitstorm happens when you dont do that most basic thing. it often just happens gradually so you dont know you're in it, until you're really *IN* it.

what's your best characteristic and why?

Passion. No, not just the physical kind of passion, but passion that can come out as determination and persistance to accomplish something or reach a goal. There's also emotional passion for life, for interests that can see one through all kinds of crap.

What's your worst characteristic and why?

[Nomad]

Passion. No, not just the physical kind of passion, but passion that can come out as determination and persistance to accomplish something or reach a goal. There's also emotional passion for life, for interests that can see one through all kinds of crap.

What's your worst characteristic and why?


i'm nearly completely lacking in actively engaged self-respect

why did you tell the last lie you told?

[laruss]

why did you tell the last lie you told?

Because I needed to believe it as much as I wanted them to believe it.

What would you give up for one more day with a missed loved one?

[FemmeBibliophile]

Wow... That's a hard question. I would give up my time. I would stop everything. I'd close the door to everyone for that day. I'd turn off the phones. Turn off the tv. Turn off the computer. I'd simply sit. I'd talk. I'd laugh. I'd cry. I'd say things I wish I had said. And I would put them as my focus for that time with no interruptions from the outside world. I would simply "be".

If the relationship you were in today were to end at midnight, what is something you would want to do/say that hasn't been done/said?

[Electrocell]

Wow... That's a hard question. I would give up my time. I would stop everything. I'd close the door to everyone for that day. I'd turn off the phones. Turn off the tv. Turn off the computer. I'd simply sit. I'd talk. I'd laugh. I'd cry. I'd say things I wish I had said. And I would put them as my focus for that time with no interruptions from the outside world. I would simply "be".

If the relationship you were in today were to end at midnight, what is something you would want to do/say that hasn't been done/said?

If I were in a relationship --wondering am I dying or just ending it?
Words are empty without the action to back it up.

If you could be anywhere where would you be right now?

[juliebrave]

If you could be anywhere where would you be right now?

I'd be at the beach.

What is the thing you would "take back" if you could?

[Electrocell]

I'd be at the beach.

What is the thing you would "take back" if you could?

Saying things in anger you can never take that back.

Would you rather be a gypsy or an aristocrat?

[Daktari]

Saying things in anger you can never take that back.

Would you rather be a gypsy or an aristocrat?

Aristo...


When did you last 'beat yourself' up for getting something wrong?

[Nomad]

Aristo...


When did you last 'beat yourself' up for getting something wrong?

this morning. daily ritual.

supposing they are different choices, which is harder: choosing to do the right thing or choosing to do what's honestly right for you, and why?

[juliebrave]

supposing they are different choices, which is harder: choosing to do the right thing or choosing to do what's honestly right for you, and why?

Choosing to do what's honestly right for me is harder because it is more acceptable to do what is right for others and ignore the needs of self.

Tattoos or piercing?

[Nomad]

Choosing to do what's honestly right for me is harder because it is more acceptable to do what is right for others and ignore the needs of self.

Tattoos or piercing?


i have both. so both.

supposing you experience both, which is harder to overcome, jealousy or insecurity and why?

[Vivacious1]

I believe that jealousy and insecurity are one in the same. I think that jealously is a result of our own insecurities. So, I guess my answer would be insecurities. I think we all have them, whether we admit it or not. It is hard to overcome them because they tend to be an intense part of ourselves, something we think is wrong with us. I know that I work on this daily, but does prove difficult.

If you could have a do-over for one moment in your life, what would it be?

[Nomad]

I believe that jealousy and insecurity are one in the same. I think that jealously is a result of our own insecurities. So, I guess my answer would be insecurities. I think we all have them, whether we admit it or not. It is hard to overcome them because they tend to be an intense part of ourselves, something we think is wrong with us. I know that I work on this daily, but does prove difficult.

If you could have a do-over for one moment in your life, what would it be?

i'd go back to 2010 and do the whole year differently

what's the last thing you regret for having done too quickly?

[Daktari]

i'd go back to 2010 and do the whole year differently

what's the last thing you regret for having done too quickly?

Eating brunch just now *burp*

Have you offended folks and been too embarrassed to say sorry?

[Nomad]

Eating brunch just now *burp*

Have you offended folks and been too embarrassed to say sorry?

i have A) offended people and B) been embarrassed but C) never let the embarrassment prevent me from apologizing.


have you ever planned a surprise party? if so, how did it go?

[laruss]

have you ever planned a surprise party? if so, how did it go?

Yes, never had a problem planning a party (or keeping a secret).

If you are in a relationship - what do you miss most from being single.
If you are single - what do you miss most from being in a relationship?

[Electrocell]

Yes, never had a problem planning a party (or keeping a secret).

If you are in a relationship - what do you miss most from being single.
If you are single - what do you miss most from being in a relationship?

I guess having someone to talk to and cuddle with.

If you could turn back time with a lover to correct somethings you both did wrong would you?

[Nomad]

I guess having someone to talk to and cuddle with.

If you could turn back time with a lover to correct somethings you both did wrong would you?

yep.

miracle of miracles, you get to be someone else for a day. so who would you be and why?

follow up --- you get to be someone for a week. would it be the same person? why/why not?

[Electrocell]

yep.

miracle of miracles, you get to be someone else for a day. so who would you be and why?

follow up --- you get to be someone for a week. would it be the same person? why/why not?

Christ to feel what he must of went through for us and what his thoughts were --his knowledge of all things.

If you could go into space would you and what do you hope to find?

[Nomad]

Christ to feel what he must of went through for us and what his thoughts were --his knowledge of all things.

If you could go into space would you and what do you hope to find?

yes ----------- for those socks that always disappear in the dryer. space is the only place left that i havent looked. also, i hear you can get some decent pictures of the planet from that distance.


do you think G*d/the Universe/G*ddess/et al has a sense of humor? if so, what example would you offer as proof of that fact? (human beings dont count. it goes without saying that we're typically laugh-worthy)

[Electrocell]

yes ----------- for those socks that always disappear in the dryer. space is the only place left that i havent looked. also, i hear you can get some decent pictures of the planet from that distance.


do you think G*d/the Universe/G*ddess/et al has a sense of humor? if so, what example would you offer as proof of that fact? (human beings dont count. it goes without saying that we're typically laugh-worthy)

Yes I believe he does have you ever seen a platypus lol.


What is the most embarrassing thing you've done in public?

[Nomad]

Yes I believe he does have you ever seen a platypus lol.


What is the most embarrassing thing you've done in public?

what? this little guy? http://users.tpg.com.au/readmana/plat3-watts.jpg

well. it's embarrassing. so i'm not really psyched to lay it out. let's just say that on that particular day the combination of loose shorts, plus panty liner, plus my decision to wade hip deep into a river was probably not conducive to a terribly pleasant experience somewhere downstream. i can only hope that it was so far downstream that no one saw me and put two and two together.
:blush: x 1000000000000

ditto back atcha

[Electrocell]

what? this little guy? http://users.tpg.com.au/readmana/plat3-watts.jpg

well. it's embarrassing. so i'm not really psyched to lay it out. let's just say that on that particular day the combination of loose shorts, plus panty liner, plus my decision to wade hip deep into a river was probably not conducive to a terribly pleasant experience somewhere downstream. i can only hope that it was so far downstream that no one saw me and put two and two together.
:blush: x 1000000000000

ditto back atcha

Probably when I was showing off for a femme split my pants and threw my back out too lol.

What age would you go back would you go back to knowing what you know now and why?

[FeminineAllure]

What age would you go back would you go back to knowing what you know now and why?
__________________
I would go back to 30 years old and I would have never married who I married that New Years Eve. Why? My decision had long term life changing effects to my life even to this day.

In the spirit of Halloween...What is the most fearful you have ever been and Why?

[Nomad]

What age would you go back would you go back to knowing what you know now and why?
__________________
I would go back to 30 years old and I would have never married who I married that New Years Eve. Why? My decision had long term life changing effects to my life even to this day.

In the spirit of Halloween...What is the most fearful you have ever been and Why?


the most fearful? well, life right now is figuring pretty high on the list to be honest. been that way since the beginning of 2010 for various reasons that seem to just piggyback on one another. it's like it wont let up and it's kind of gathering speed too. crazy stuff.

what person do you inpsire most and why?

[Electrocell]

What age would you go back would you go back to knowing what you know now and why?
__________________
I would go back to 30 years old and I would have never married who I married that New Years Eve. Why? My decision had long term life changing effects to my life even to this day.

In the spirit of Halloween...What is the most fearful you have ever been and Why?

I guess when I was by myself and started to choke on some meat . Wondering if I could save myself if I had too. God knows the cats wouldn't know what to do lol. In my younger days did alot of crazy things too.

What do you expect most from all your relationships friends etc.?

[Nomad]

I guess when I was by myself and started to choke on some meat . Wondering if I could save myself if I had too. God knows the cats wouldn't know what to do lol. In my younger days did alot of crazy things too.

What do you expect most from all your relationships friends etc.?

brutal honesty and personal accountability.

who do you inspire most and why?

[Daktari]

brutal honesty and personal accountability.

who do you inspire most and why?

I don't think I inspire anyone. I am inspired by others


Have you ever played a practical joke and never owned up to being the culprit?

[Nomad]

I don't think I inspire anyone. I am inspired by others


Have you ever played a practical joke and never owned up to being the culprit?

nope

(and you're wrong about not being inspiring)


have you ever left an unsigned message for someone and why? what did the message say?

[Tony]

nope

(and you're wrong about not being inspiring)


have you ever left an unsigned message for someone and why? what did the message say?

Yes, twice actually. One was to a guy that parked so close I couldn't open my door. I wrote thanks for squeezing me in & it would have been nice if he had at least left a can opener for me to get into my car.
The second was after I hit a parked car. YEARS ago. In my 20's. I wrote I was sorry for hitting your car. People think I'm leaving my name & phone number. I'm not. (I know, NOT cool, but it was my younger rowdier days.

Keeping the theme, have you ever left a note and signed it? What was the message?

[Nomad]

Yes, twice actually. One was to a guy that parked so close I couldn't open my door. I wrote thanks for squeezing me in & it would have been nice if he had at least left a can opener for me to get into my car.
The second was after I hit a parked car. YEARS ago. In my 20's. I wrote I was sorry for hitting your car. People think I'm leaving my name & phone number. I'm not. (I know, NOT cool, but it was my younger rowdier days.

Keeping the theme, have you ever left a note and signed it? What was the message?

yes. i left a message in a lover's childhood bedroom for the to find next time they went to visit the family. it said something appropriate to the situation.

have you ever kept your feelings for someone (good or bad) a secret from them? explain why.

[Soft*Silver]

yes I have kept my feelings silent about someone, because they were involved with someone else. I do not and will never interfere if there is a relationship already established.

If there was a holiday named for you, what would you like it to be for?