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How do you decide to make an initial flirty remark via text message? What's your favourite opening line?
I have an astonishing lack of game when it comes to dating, so unfortunately I don't have a favourite flirt to share, but I'm happy to hear yours!
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Ummm….I wish I could help you out here, other than saying just be yourself, which sounds such an obvious thing to say….
I once had a text message from a date which read: “I’m nervous, in Café. See you soon!” I replied back with: “Hi nervous in Café, I’m Sammie, how are you today? I’ll be there in 10 minutes!” ….It worked! LOL! ![]() You could open the text message with: “Hey handsome!” Or “Hello Good looking!” …. To be honest, I’m really rubbish at this sort of thing…. I have a spectacular talent for just opening my mouth or letting my brain take control of my fingers, allowing the words to just fall out….usually, in unintentional innuendoes, or because I’ve a naturally chatty and bubbly personality, it comes across as me flirting, when in fact I’m nervous and shaking like a Jelly, lol! ![]() Best of luck! ![]()
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if flirting is your thing, timing just finds its way. if not, make timing LOL.
my fave is, "i sure would like to find the slope of your curve" lol |
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I like flirting with texts!!! Even though i'm in a relationship, we still send flirty/dirty text sometimes...it's all the more fun.
But, a longgggggg time ago, when i was single and stuff and was getting to know someone, it was sometimes difficult to pick up on the "is he/she flirting or just being friendly" text and not sure how to take it. Without seeing the face, sorta like online, it's not as obvious. However, it was fun to text with something that could be read as either way, that way you are safe if they aren't really flirting and in good shape if they were. Like say....."Good Morning...is it a hard morning or an easy one for you". Or...."Did you dream of anything special last night?" And just let them take the lead, giving an opening sorta. Well, that's how i rolled anyway...like, here's the bait...are you gonna bite or just sit by the creek and have a "friendly" day. I found it very enlightening!!!!
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Lines are lines.
Flirting should be natural. Be yourself, do whatever comes natural and forget about lines and such. The best flirting is that which comes from the moment, inspired by the person whom you are flirting with, it is not planned. |
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Flirting via text is awesome! I feel more inclined to say things I wouldn't say on the phone because I would be shy, lol. It's fun to get a flirty text in the middle of the day, too :-D
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Using lines via text is even cheesier than when it happens in bars.
Be natural. If they say something and a thought pops into your head...as long as it's not illegal...send it. ![]() |
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I'm a fan of flirting so flirting by text happens too! *wink wink
It just comes natural I would think and depends if it is reciprocated if one is interested. |
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I always liked to say "by the way, I am flirting with you now."
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I have no idea what I do but it's probably cheesy. I know when I first met my husband I used to send him messages asking about his workouts and 'you must have amazing muscles', lol.
If it's a cold text (with no prior texting) I usually just send something quite friendly and chatty. I gauge my future texts on their response.
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Life is short and being coy is just way too time consuming.
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I flirt a lot, by accident.
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Me too!!! Most times, what I see as being "just me," others see as flirting.
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I love to flirt via text. And it is nice to flirt text back and forth while working. Makes the day alot more interesting.
And as a lot of the responses has said just be yourself and just say what pops in your head...go with the flow of the conversation. |
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I once practiced my flirts in the mirror, and I immediately fell hard for my smooth charming ways... me've been happy together ever since
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Oh yeah. Flirting via text messages can be fun, flirty and smoking hot. Innuendos and double entendres make for some pretty hot stuff. I personally enjoy that kind of flirting when done right
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Also, it's not a pick up line. I'm talking about texting with people you know or are getting to know as the OP says "flirting" and perhaps have been friends awhile. It's the transition to taking it to the next step that leaves many wondering what this or that means. It's fun though and all part of the dance....
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