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03-01-2012, 04:24 PM | #1 |
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"You should grow your hair out longer" lol
I've gotten two compliments on my haircut from random strangers this week. I'm used to a few compliments here and there.... and then there's my coworker this week who's a sweet, korean lady about 25 years older than me. I laughed cause she said, "You should grow your hair out longer, I like longer hair. Grow it out please!".
She's too sweet and too naive for me to get into a discussion about what being butch is all about. She's the kind of woman that hears a curse word from someone and audibly gasps in horror. Still... she's quirky and fun and I'm cool with it lol. Just sharing randomness lol. |
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I wear wigs for a short hair 'look'... I posted a picture of me with a very short wig on FB and I had 3 emails then a phone call... all to find out if I had really cut my hair. 'NO' LOL... when Betty Boop, Mrs. Brady, June Cleaver (Leave it to Beaver) and the Mom, from Father Knows Best. (the list could go on forever) All become butch icons, then maybe... MAYBE, ... short hair will make someone butch.
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03-01-2012, 05:12 PM | #4 | |
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I was sort of thinking the same thing... Cause this femme like the #3 guard on her clippers and don't forget the neck... While her butch wears her hair just about to the middle of her back... (when I'm not cutting on it..heheh) But the sun is shining, I'm not at work, and I understood that the butch in question was talking about what is butch for her/him....
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I have extremely short hair but it has nothing to do with my identity. I simply hate having more than the minimum amount of hair.
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I prefer short hair on a butch but if they can rock the longer hair then, yeah, go for it. Anything but the Mullet, please. I just cannot handle the Mulls.
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Wow, this thread certainly caught my attention, especially the OP
I have no words to describe what is playing in my mind right now Will I lose my butch card for having long hair?
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Apart from the awful (sorry Belle) Mullet, I don't mind how a Butch has hys/her hair; the hair doesn't make the Butch! Besides, I like to run my fingers through hys/her hair.
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do we really *always* have to split hairs?
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workin on a combover.. back to front... grinz
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03-01-2012, 06:45 PM | #12 | |
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I am not, nor have I ever, thought of only short hair as butch. I think it's silly to even assume I would think that. It makes me cringe to post on forums sometimes because it's easy to take other's words out of context or twist them around when all they were doing was talking like they would to a friend standing next to them. Sorry if I offended anyone, I'll be more careful about my choice of words in the future if needed. |
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Sorry, if you felt your words were being twisted not my intent. AND... I work for a Japanese organization and will say this, based on my experience in Japan and working with people in this culture. Hair is very important. Long hair on females is a sign of femininity. It is cultural.. As it is cultural in many of the Asian (continent) cultures. Julie
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I thought that was obvious. I still think it's obvious. I just wonder why some people get SUCH a kick out of taking every. single. ***ing. word out of context and inserting bad intent that wasn't there. Hope that's clear now Words |
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Sorry, that came across as sounding a little hostile. My apologies.
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You know Cuddles, seriously. I have dated a couple butches with long hair. Short hair does not make the butch. Long hair does not make the femme or visa versa. Diversity is the key. Wear it like you wanna...be yourself. Above all else...be happy. p.s. Randomness is fun
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at least she's not saying you should be married lol (the heterosexual way). or asking why not, and why no kids lol.
we must not forget the butch helped make the mullet a hot trend LOL. i do know quite a few butches with longer hair. mine is about on my shoulders. but no mullet lol. good for you on the cool haircut, cuddles. looking good! |
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Poor Cuddles, in all fairness, short hair is more a butch trend. Now, I'm gonna get my hand slapped for NOT being diverse, and I do know there are butch folks with LONG hair, but....still. I get your post.
And I love you sister Pricessbelle! muah.
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And can i just say, because i probably, most likely, i'm almost positive at this...stand alone with this statement BUT I loved the mullets. I thought they were sexy, still do.
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