Single FTM's & Femme's - Page 43

Hominid · 10-07-2012, 12:09 AM

Good morning Duchess - welcome.

I'm sure someone is from Atlanta, sadly, not me though.

LoyalWolfsBlade · 10-07-2012, 12:12 AM

Good morning Lady D....sadly not from Atlanta either,,,but new friends are always good...It is still Saturday night for me though since I have not been to bed yet...

FemmeBibliophile · 10-08-2012, 07:17 AM

I'm just popping in.

I'm a single femme. I prefer butches or FtMs. I'm from outsite of Atlanta.

Leigh · 10-08-2012, 07:49 AM

I'm from Canada ~ of course I'm outside the States lol

GraffitiBoi · 10-10-2012, 07:24 AM

FTM from Minnesota here...

ScandalAndy · 10-10-2012, 07:42 AM

Philly representing!

Kent · 10-10-2012, 08:00 AM

Just dropping by to say, "Howdy from Texas."

DaddyNik12 · 10-10-2012, 08:03 AM

good morning waves from Illinois*

easygoingfemme · 10-10-2012, 08:03 AM

Checking in from NY!

Leigh · 10-10-2012, 08:50 AM

Morning everyone!

Welcome to the Planet Grafitti ~ I'm in Manitoba Canada, just above Minnesota

GraffitiBoi · 10-10-2012, 08:56 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Leigh

Morning everyone!

Welcome to the Planet Grafitti ~ I'm in Manitoba Canada, just above Minnesota

I've been there before... Back in 1988!

Leigh · 10-10-2012, 08:58 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by GraffitiBoi

I've been there before... Back in 1988!

Wow that's so cool, any chance you might visit again?

GraffitiBoi · 10-17-2012, 02:25 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Leigh

Wow that's so cool, any chance you might visit again?

No clue if I'll visit again. I like to travel so you never know. I do have tons of vacation time coming up but I have some of it set asaide for a trip south of MN... :-)

Darbonaire · 10-17-2012, 06:21 AM

As a guy who is an FTM / male.....living, being seen, & IS male.....it's really tough being in the mid- 50's to find anyone...much less a woman who is attracted to guys like us. I live stealth except for a few close friends & that's how I like it. I do have a question that has come up from my last relationship however & I would love to get some totally honest answers......you can send them in PM or not...but, honest is the key.

My ex-wife of 10 years said to me "again" very recently that my "lower region " was a mind f*ck for her because it is not anatomically "correct. I am male except for the nether regoins.....she said that "squigged" her & that she was uncomfortable making love to me because of this.....

My question is this then.......I know she was being totally honest & I respect that completely. There is nothing short of surgery that can "correct" that.....so.....truly & honestly....how many of you ladies / women / femmes find that to be the case for you?

Believe me, it can be a mind f*ck for me too at times....lol....but, maybe because I KNOW what's down there in my soul I am able to overlook the discrepency.

Anyway, being in your mid 50's & being FtM is really tough....you begin to realize how old you really are.....LOL

I look forward to reading all replies...<warm smile>

Enjoy the day !!!!

Dance-with-me · 10-17-2012, 06:36 AM

If this forum were visible to members only, I'd answer publicly but since it's publicly viewable I'll answer via PM.

Hominid · 10-17-2012, 07:18 PM

Hey there -

Wow, great question - I'd love to hear your answers (feel free all you generous souls to PM me as well!). I'm right with you - I really thought single life after the break up of my 10 year marriage would be ... at least not this bad. Or lonely. I'm fine alone, in fact I do need alone time. But I have taken on this feeling sort of like a tree falling in the forest. If nobody's with me with whom to share the experience, what's the point? I end up feeling more alone than if I just fart around on the internet, find obscure stuff on cable, and rotate between the three dinners I usually eat. I'm 45 - I wrote before about age and my area. It IS very queer friendly, but whatever Western Mass would like to think of itself, it is not open to guys way post physical transition. I spend most of my time when not working trying to avoid the sinking feeling of unresolved heartbreak - I lost both of my kids - I bought a great house after the breakup so the three of us could heal, and then was hammered with lawsuit after lawsuit over custody. Wah wah ... anyone, overshare. But I feel you. I wish I had some insight. I've had a little luck on one of the mainstream dating sites, so little it's pathetic but I have had a few exchanges. I have this ... feeling. It's very vague and I can't always access it, that someone is out there. I wish I had more to offer, but you're not alone in this.

[QUOTE=Darbonaire;677470]As a guy who is an FTM / male.....living, being seen, & IS male.....it's really tough being in the mid- 50's to find anyone...much less a woman who is attracted to guys like us. I live stealth except for a few close friends & that's how I like it. I do have a question that has come up from my last relationship however & I would love to get some totally honest answers......you can send them in PM or not...but, honest is the key.

Duchess · 10-17-2012, 07:50 PM

Good evening everybody

Darbonaire · 10-18-2012, 04:37 PM

Good to meet you ^5 ! Yes, the young guys are out there but truly, I believe as you do..there IS someone out there for me. I really thought I had found her in my last relationship & she was SO much of what I wanted...& I for her....but, things change, people change, & paths change.......so we move forward & wish each other the best.

So, western Mass eh? Pretty country up there. I was thrilled to move back here to VA for the beauty of the Blue Ridge Mtns.....Alabama was too flat for me..& too damn hot & muggy too!

So, maybe being on this site will help your energy get "noticed" & appreciated. I personally think a more mature woman is better for me at this stage in life. I believe there are women out there who want the same.....so maybe if we both jump up & down they'll see us.....LOL

Anyway, if you ever want to chat just email me at Darbonaire@aol.com.....would like to talk to other guys for sure.

Enjoy your night ^5

Jonathan

Darbonaire · 10-18-2012, 04:38 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Duchess

Good evening everybody

Good evening Duchess !

Hominid · 10-18-2012, 08:04 PM

Hi Duchess - WV is really beautiful, and much better fishing ...

10-07-2012, 12:12 AM	#842
LoyalWolfsBlade Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Pre-Op FtM, Preferred Pronoun?: Masculine ones plz Relationship Status: Single but haven't given up on finding the One Join Date: Apr 2012 Location: I gaze upon the same moon as you do Posts: 3,827 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 13,214 Thanked 9,646 Times in 3,123 Posts Rep Power: 21474853	Good morning Lady D....sadly not from Atlanta either,,,but new friends are always good...It is still Saturday night for me though since I have not been to bed yet... __________________ Life should never be stagnant hence my quest for new knowledge will continue until my last breath. Wolf

10-08-2012, 07:49 AM	#844
Leigh Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: Femme Preferred Pronoun?: She, Her, etc Relationship Status: Single Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Canada Posts: 7,767 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 9,029 Thanked 13,024 Times in 4,784 Posts Rep Power: 21474859	I'm from Canada ~ of course I'm outside the States lol __________________ "When you fall off the wagon ... clutch the sides of it until you get a better grip!"

10-10-2012, 07:42 AM	#846
ScandalAndy Member How Do You Identify?: human femme spitfire Preferred Pronoun?: she/her Relationship Status: it's official! Join Date: Jun 2011 Location: east coast USA Posts: 1,167 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 3,758 Thanked 3,217 Times in 753 Posts Rep Power: 21474852	Philly representing! __________________ The joy of discovery is certainly the liveliest that the mind of man can ever feel. - Claude Bernard (1813-78)

10-10-2012, 08:00 AM	#847
Kent Member How Do You Identify?: Male Relationship Status: Single Tournaments Won: 2 Join Date: Dec 2010 Location: TX Posts: 1,079 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 3,564 Thanked 2,058 Times in 720 Posts Rep Power: 19241326	Single FTM's & Femme's Just dropping by to say, "Howdy from Texas." __________________ Kent

10-10-2012, 08:03 AM	#848
DaddyNik12 Member How Do You Identify?: Butch/Domme Preferred Pronoun?: Sir Relationship Status: still searching for ms right Join Date: Apr 2012 Location: Indiana Posts: 580 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 515 Thanked 1,508 Times in 468 Posts Rep Power: 14895927	good morning waves from Illinois* __________________ people with sharp tounges , cut thier own throat !! smirk*

10-07-2012, 12:09 AM	#841
Hominid Member How Do You Identify?: Male with interesting historical perspective Relationship Status: Taking Applications Join Date: Jul 2012 Location: In perpetual Wonder. And Western Mass. Posts: 254 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 417 Thanked 753 Times in 187 Posts Rep Power: 11507408	Good morning Duchess - welcome. I'm sure someone is from Atlanta, sadly, not me though.

10-08-2012, 07:17 AM	#843
FemmeBibliophile Member How Do You Identify?: i no longer do Preferred Pronoun?: She Relationship Status: null and void Join Date: Oct 2012 Location: where dreams disappear Posts: 473 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 121 Thanked 1,442 Times in 337 Posts Rep Power: 11169940	I'm just popping in. I'm a single femme. I prefer butches or FtMs. I'm from outsite of Atlanta.

10-10-2012, 07:24 AM	#845
GraffitiBoi Member How Do You Identify?: Transmasculine Preferred Pronoun?: Male ones Relationship Status: Playing around and having fun Join Date: Oct 2012 Location: Minnetonka, MN Posts: 903 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 990 Thanked 3,663 Times in 824 Posts Rep Power: 21474849	FTM from Minnesota here...

10-10-2012, 08:03 AM	#849
easygoingfemme Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Lil' Miss Sassy Pants Preferred Pronoun?: She/her Join Date: Oct 2012 Location: My place by the river Posts: 3,680 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 7,014 Thanked 14,943 Times in 3,305 Posts Rep Power: 21474852	Checking in from NY!

10-10-2012, 08:50 AM	#850
Leigh Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: Femme Preferred Pronoun?: She, Her, etc Relationship Status: Single Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Canada Posts: 7,767 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 9,029 Thanked 13,024 Times in 4,784 Posts Rep Power: 21474859	Morning everyone! Welcome to the Planet Grafitti ~ I'm in Manitoba Canada, just above Minnesota __________________ "When you fall off the wagon ... clutch the sides of it until you get a better grip!"

10-17-2012, 06:21 AM	#854
Darbonaire Timed Out How Do You Identify?: MALE Preferred Pronoun?: He Relationship Status: Working on myself, thank you Join Date: Jul 2011 Location: Virginia Posts: 186 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 343 Thanked 552 Times in 145 Posts Rep Power: 0	Age As a guy who is an FTM / male.....living, being seen, & IS male.....it's really tough being in the mid- 50's to find anyone...much less a woman who is attracted to guys like us. I live stealth except for a few close friends & that's how I like it. I do have a question that has come up from my last relationship however & I would love to get some totally honest answers......you can send them in PM or not...but, honest is the key. My ex-wife of 10 years said to me "again" very recently that my "lower region " was a mind fck for her because it is not anatomically "correct. I am male except for the nether regoins.....she said that "squigged" her & that she was uncomfortable making love to me because of this..... My question is this then.......I know she was being totally honest & I respect that completely. There is nothing short of surgery that can "correct" that.....so.....truly & honestly....how many of you ladies / women / femmes find that to be the case for you? Believe me, it can be a mind fck for me too at times....lol....but, maybe because I KNOW what's down there in my soul I am able to overlook the discrepency. Anyway, being in your mid 50's & being FtM is really tough....you begin to realize how old you really are.....LOL I look forward to reading all replies...<warm smile> Enjoy the day !!!!

10-17-2012, 06:36 AM	#855
Dance-with-me Member How Do You Identify?: Femme Join Date: Sep 2012 Location: earth Posts: 419 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 264 Thanked 1,926 Times in 378 Posts Rep Power: 21474849	If this forum were visible to members only, I'd answer publicly but since it's publicly viewable I'll answer via PM.

10-17-2012, 07:18 PM	#856
Hominid Member How Do You Identify?: Male with interesting historical perspective Relationship Status: Taking Applications Join Date: Jul 2012 Location: In perpetual Wonder. And Western Mass. Posts: 254 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 417 Thanked 753 Times in 187 Posts Rep Power: 11507408	Hey there - Wow, great question - I'd love to hear your answers (feel free all you generous souls to PM me as well!). I'm right with you - I really thought single life after the break up of my 10 year marriage would be ... at least not this bad. Or lonely. I'm fine alone, in fact I do need alone time. But I have taken on this feeling sort of like a tree falling in the forest. If nobody's with me with whom to share the experience, what's the point? I end up feeling more alone than if I just fart around on the internet, find obscure stuff on cable, and rotate between the three dinners I usually eat. I'm 45 - I wrote before about age and my area. It IS very queer friendly, but whatever Western Mass would like to think of itself, it is not open to guys way post physical transition. I spend most of my time when not working trying to avoid the sinking feeling of unresolved heartbreak - I lost both of my kids - I bought a great house after the breakup so the three of us could heal, and then was hammered with lawsuit after lawsuit over custody. Wah wah ... anyone, overshare. But I feel you. I wish I had some insight. I've had a little luck on one of the mainstream dating sites, so little it's pathetic but I have had a few exchanges. I have this ... feeling. It's very vague and I can't always access it, that someone is out there. I wish I had more to offer, but you're not alone in this. [QUOTE=Darbonaire;677470]As a guy who is an FTM / male.....living, being seen, & IS male.....it's really tough being in the mid- 50's to find anyone...much less a woman who is attracted to guys like us. I live stealth except for a few close friends & that's how I like it. I do have a question that has come up from my last relationship however & I would love to get some totally honest answers......you can send them in PM or not...but, honest is the key.

10-17-2012, 07:50 PM	#857
Duchess Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Absolute Femme Preferred Pronoun?: She Relationship Status: Toe curling :-) Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Atlanta Posts: 2,382 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 1,792 Thanked 5,592 Times in 1,521 Posts Rep Power: 21474854	*Good evening everybody* __________________ *無料のライブ*

10-18-2012, 04:37 PM	#858
Darbonaire Timed Out How Do You Identify?: MALE Preferred Pronoun?: He Relationship Status: Working on myself, thank you Join Date: Jul 2011 Location: Virginia Posts: 186 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 343 Thanked 552 Times in 145 Posts Rep Power: 0	Hey Hominid Good to meet you ^5 ! Yes, the young guys are out there but truly, I believe as you do..there IS someone out there for me. I really thought I had found her in my last relationship & she was SO much of what I wanted...& I for her....but, things change, people change, & paths change.......so we move forward & wish each other the best. So, western Mass eh? Pretty country up there. I was thrilled to move back here to VA for the beauty of the Blue Ridge Mtns.....Alabama was too flat for me..& too damn hot & muggy too! So, maybe being on this site will help your energy get "noticed" & appreciated. I personally think a more mature woman is better for me at this stage in life. I believe there are women out there who want the same.....so maybe if we both jump up & down they'll see us.....LOL Anyway, if you ever want to chat just email me at Darbonaire@aol.com.....would like to talk to other guys for sure. Enjoy your night ^5 Jonathan

10-18-2012, 08:04 PM	#860
Hominid Member How Do You Identify?: Male with interesting historical perspective Relationship Status: Taking Applications Join Date: Jul 2012 Location: In perpetual Wonder. And Western Mass. Posts: 254 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 417 Thanked 753 Times in 187 Posts Rep Power: 11507408	Hi Duchess - WV is really beautiful, and much better fishing ...