When Your Boss Says Inappropriate Things--

Soon · 03-26-2010, 10:12 PM

It happens so quickly that I am digesting what is said and she is already on a different point. I am in a state of WTF!?!?! And she is still blah blah blah--ing.

She is rarely there, so the times that we do have an informal discussion, she rambles, inserts shit, talks fast, move on; it seems that the time to SAY something has already passed, and it would be really awkward to say--at the end--oh, well, um, you know when you said THIS?!?!--well, that is wrong, inappropriate...etc.

But, maybe I should just insert my thoughts after she is done her end of the conversation?--trust me, there are NO pauses for me to say, "Wait a minute..."

And, this is the person who WILL (or won't) be writing me a reference letter when I move on; doesn't that play into people's minds when calling their bosses on their behaviour and/or language?

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03-26-2010, 10:12 PM	#4
Soon Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: femme Relationship Status: attached Join Date: Dec 2009 Location: . Posts: 6,896 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 29,046 Thanked 13,094 Times in 3,386 Posts Rep Power: 21474858	It happens so quickly that I am digesting what is said and she is already on a different point. I am in a state of WTF!?!?! And she is still blah blah blah--ing. She is rarely there, so the times that we do have an informal discussion, she rambles, inserts shit, talks fast, move on; it seems that the time to SAY something has already passed, and it would be really awkward to say--at the end--oh, well, um, you know when you said THIS?!?!--well, that is wrong, inappropriate...etc. But, maybe I should just insert my thoughts after she is done her end of the conversation?--trust me, there are NO pauses for me to say, "Wait a minute..." And, this is the person who WILL (or won't) be writing me a reference letter when I move on; doesn't that play into people's minds when calling their bosses on their behaviour and/or language?