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09-12-2011, 09:41 AM
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My advice would be sit down and make a budget. See where it will leave you financially if you make this move.
If you can make it, i'd say go for it. If you can't, maybe save more for awhile and get a nice nest egg to live off of while you adjust and pay off as many bills as you can. Before i went to college i made very little money and made it just fine. Now that i make more money, i still try and live modestly. All the money in the world won't make you feel secure if you have more going out than coming in. Budget budget budget. Set your priorities on paper, the pros and the cons...including time together. See where you are at that point. But above all, as others have said, make sure you have excellent communication. Don't let resentments grow...for either of you. Good luck.
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