Ask a trans person!

[SelfMadeMan]

Originally Posted by J. Mason

I am dating a femme who ID's as lesbian and some friends and others have come to her voicing their opinions about the fact she is dating me. They ask why would a lesbian date a transman? Has anyone else encountered this and what did ya'll do about it?

Been there. I agree with Thinker that it is her situation to deal with since they're her friends... however, my .02 on that way of thinking.... we don't necessarily choose who to be attracted to or who we fall in love with. She's likely not dating you based on what you are as much as WHO you are...