Single FTM's & Femme's

Darbonaire · 10-17-2012, 06:21 AM

As a guy who is an FTM / male.....living, being seen, & IS male.....it's really tough being in the mid- 50's to find anyone...much less a woman who is attracted to guys like us. I live stealth except for a few close friends & that's how I like it. I do have a question that has come up from my last relationship however & I would love to get some totally honest answers......you can send them in PM or not...but, honest is the key.

My ex-wife of 10 years said to me "again" very recently that my "lower region " was a mind f*ck for her because it is not anatomically "correct. I am male except for the nether regoins.....she said that "squigged" her & that she was uncomfortable making love to me because of this.....

My question is this then.......I know she was being totally honest & I respect that completely. There is nothing short of surgery that can "correct" that.....so.....truly & honestly....how many of you ladies / women / femmes find that to be the case for you?

Believe me, it can be a mind f*ck for me too at times....lol....but, maybe because I KNOW what's down there in my soul I am able to overlook the discrepency.

Anyway, being in your mid 50's & being FtM is really tough....you begin to realize how old you really are.....LOL

I look forward to reading all replies...<warm smile>

Enjoy the day !!!!

10-17-2012, 06:21 AM	#11
Darbonaire Timed Out How Do You Identify?: MALE Preferred Pronoun?: He Relationship Status: Working on myself, thank you Join Date: Jul 2011 Location: Virginia Posts: 186 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 343 Thanked 552 Times in 145 Posts Rep Power: 0	Age As a guy who is an FTM / male.....living, being seen, & IS male.....it's really tough being in the mid- 50's to find anyone...much less a woman who is attracted to guys like us. I live stealth except for a few close friends & that's how I like it. I do have a question that has come up from my last relationship however & I would love to get some totally honest answers......you can send them in PM or not...but, honest is the key. My ex-wife of 10 years said to me "again" very recently that my "lower region " was a mind fck for her because it is not anatomically "correct. I am male except for the nether regoins.....she said that "squigged" her & that she was uncomfortable making love to me because of this..... My question is this then.......I know she was being totally honest & I respect that completely. There is nothing short of surgery that can "correct" that.....so.....truly & honestly....how many of you ladies / women / femmes find that to be the case for you? Believe me, it can be a mind fck for me too at times....lol....but, maybe because I KNOW what's down there in my soul I am able to overlook the discrepency. Anyway, being in your mid 50's & being FtM is really tough....you begin to realize how old you really are.....LOL I look forward to reading all replies...<warm smile> Enjoy the day !!!!