Femmes: How do you like to be treated on a date?

[kittygrrl]

31% of both men and women agree that 15 minutes of a date is all it takes to decide.

[Gemme]

Originally Posted by kittygrrl

31% of both men and women agree that 15 minutes of a date is all it takes to decide.

I can make that decision in less than 2 minutes.

[Kelt]

Originally Posted by kittygrrl

31% of both men and women agree that 15 minutes of a date is all it takes to decide.

Originally Posted by Gemme

I can make that decision in less than 2 minutes.

Annnnd... It takes me a month.

<<< Hence the status.

(I know, not a femme and not even the thread question, just struck me)

[DapperButch]

Originally Posted by Kelt

Annnnd... It takes me a month.

<<< Hence the status.

Yeah, you're even slower than me...when it comes to the "maybes". The "maybes" always trip me up. As I've gotten older I have put more newly met people into "maybes" because I thought maybe (ha) I was judging people (as a non-match), too quickly.

I am feeling retired too when it comes to relationships. At least at the moment and the foreseeable future.

[DapperButch]

Originally Posted by imperfect_cupcake

Please don't date me. Let's just go hang out - no rules, no formal behaviours, no formulas to follow. Just hang out as friends and enjoy each other.
After we hang out for a while, we might wind up in bed together at some point.
If we do that again, and it's agreed it's fabulous for us both, *then* we can go on dates.
This is how I grew up dating in the straight world and with non North american Butch-femme queers.
This is what I feel most comfortable doing.

Thanks for asking!

One of these days I am moving to Canada.

Originally Posted by Gemme

I can make that decision in less than 2 minutes.

Gemme, I never knew you were so superficial!

Is that just deciding a "no" or can you also decide a "yes" to dating the person in two minutes?

I need probably 5 minutes for a no (in some cases), but more time to determine if it is a yes (to dating).