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Ok, I used "antiquated" as a way to parse the term "OLD" into what I was feeling was being said. I should have been more clear. My bad. The verbatim, word-for-word was "Old Terms". and just as a sidenote: whether you were talking to me or not about something being "ignored", I have been up since 6am cleaning house and have been on and off of this site all day answering emails, reported posts, and private messages, so if something is asked or said and I dont respond or reply, its prrrrooooobbbbbaabbbbblllyyyy because I just didnt see it. |
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11-22-2009, 07:23 PM
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And I got it, too, that, when You put the term in "quotes", that COULD have been interpreted as Your word...... |
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11-22-2009, 07:26 PM
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I'm just trying to follow the conversation.
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11-22-2009, 09:19 PM
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11-22-2009, 08:59 PM
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I presume BF.com That was not what was said, on BF.com, using that word or any other word I have no issue with some general Thread, discussing whether or not Butch & Femme, are antiquated Terms, though why one would think they were, I don't know. I do object to trashing of and falsely representing, the "other" site. Call me old fashioned and antiquated, but I object to falsehoods. |
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11-23-2009, 12:40 PM
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11-23-2009, 01:07 PM
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I have never put much energy into thinking about other people's choices unless they directly affect me. I think growing up in a multicultural home taught me tolerance for diversity as I exited the womb.
Femme fits perfectly for me because the term is a HUGE umbrella. There are so many layers to me, I can't simply identify as Transensual Femme, Stone Femme, etc....Being Femme or Butch is complex. There's no one way to do it. If this ideaology doesn't work for the next person that's cool, because there's only one Duchess (thank God) and there's only one you. The important thing is to follow your instinct and not stay within the lines for definition's sake.  Duchess
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11-23-2009, 01:21 PM
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And actually, the more I thought about it I shouldnt even have said "parsed" because that implies that I changed the meaning somehow. I think I should have said "used the word as I interpreted it". And just for the record: From Dictionary.com antiquated - 4 dictionary results an⋅ti⋅quat⋅ed /ˈæntɪˌkweɪtɪd/ Show Spelled Pronunciation [an-ti-kwey-tid] Show IPA Use antiquated in a Sentence See web results for antiquated See images of antiquated –adjective 1. continued from, resembling, or adhering to the past; old-fashioned: antiquated attitudes. 2. no longer used; obsolete or obsolescent: The spinning wheel is an antiquated machine. 3. aged; old: -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- This is why I couldnt really wrap my head around the idea of intentionally misrepresenting something as "antiquated" when it essentially means the same thing as "old" in the context in which I presented it. Language, a tricky tricky thing. |
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11-23-2009, 01:34 PM
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