How did you know?

[blush]

Originally Posted by kassykit

and if you ask anyone who "knows" me, they say i'm a girlie girl..... no idea why.... how does someone who is confused at this point, define themselves if the definitions themselves seem to be changing?

Doesn't it sometimes seem that the femme "label" is bestowed upon us like some gift? I've been called every version of femme in the book. And after awhile it irritated me. Who gave anyone permission to decide who I was? Or what "type" of femme I was because it suited their definition.

If femme resonates with you, make it your own.