What do you prefer to be called on the site?

[Lynn]

I go by my name, which is Lynn, really and truly. Some people call me Lynnie, which is OK, but not really how I see myself.

Don't call me "dear" or any other sugary endearment unless you mean it. Used as a sarcastic preface to a criticism or reprimand, it will not win you any points.

I started using my own name when I realized how uncomfortable I was, trying to engage with anyone on a hopefully meaningful level, using an alias. Also, I've learned that privacy is an illusion on the internet. The people I try to avoid always find me anyway, so I figure, fuck it.

[Apocalipstic]

Originally Posted by Arwen

Awwww, you make me swoon when you say that. I loved that one.



What about Pink Fondant?

Oh yesssssss! Any reference to Fondant is loved, and Pink Chuckie Thank you for reminding me.

Originally Posted by Diva

~Diva. (Candace calls me 'Licious". Or "Divalicious", too.)

~Janey. (That's JanEY.....not JanIE, please, and thank You.)

~I'm not fond of being called Jane, as that's what my Mom used to call me. And only Mr. Moon calls me Miss Jane. It's a 'thing' with us.

~I loathe my first name and even in jest, I just will not like it.

~For those Southern nicknames.....It depends on who is using them, but as a rule, I don't care for "Dear" or "Sweetie". They remind me of my former mother-in-law, who thought I was neither 'dear' OR 'sweet' & used them with dripping sarcasm............bless her heart.

~I enjoy being called "baby" or "girl" by the right one......"Honey" or "Darlin"? Again....depends on the user.

~And I find "Mujer" to be rather hot....but again...coming out of the correct mouth.

~Edited to add: ALso very hot: a boi sayin' "Yes Ma'am"..........oh hellz yeah..........

Randomly....

I agree, "Dear" sounds patronizing...I quite hate it!

Mujer is indeed hot!

and Yes Ma'am? love it!