What do you prefer to be called on the site?

Toughy · 09-03-2010, 02:42 PM

T or Toughy works for me.

Isa calls me by my given name because........well..........because she can..........laughin

I actually don't really care about the given name part. It's funny, for the most, part people relate to me differently if they use my given name or if they use T/Toughy.

betenoire · 09-03-2010, 04:02 PM

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Originally Posted by Toughy

T or Toughy works for me.

Isa calls me by my given name because........well..........because she can..........laughin

I actually don't really care about the given name part. It's funny, for the most, part people relate to me differently if they use my given name or if they use T/Toughy.

Oh please. A Toughy by any other name would smell just as much like popcorn.

Arwen · 09-03-2010, 04:37 PM

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Originally Posted by Toughy

T or Toughy works for me.

Isa calls me by my given name because........well..........because she can..........laughin

I actually don't really care about the given name part. It's funny, for the most, part people relate to me differently if they use my given name or if they use T/Toughy.

It actually feels weird to me to hear anyone call me Stephanie outside of work and older family members. I've been called Arwen as a nickname since high school...and since that was my freshman year...that was a few years ago. LOL

Isadora · 09-03-2010, 05:25 PM

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Originally Posted by Toughy

T or Toughy works for me.

Isa calls me by my given name because........well..........because she can..........laughin

I actually don't really care about the given name part. It's funny, for the most, part people relate to me differently if they use my given name or if they use T/Toughy.

lol at my "stepdown" I thanked (insert real name) and until she actually came up and got the award no one knew who I was talking about...hahahahaha. Yes, because I can.

nowandthen · 09-03-2010, 05:33 PM

Tee By most
My birth name by relatives :-(
In reference to T or Toughy I am the other White meat

Toughy · 09-03-2010, 05:53 PM

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Originally Posted by nowandthen

Tee By most
My birth name by relatives :-(
In reference to T or Toughy I am the other White meat

<snort>

and the things we have in common as white meat is plum scary.................laughin....

Isadora · 09-03-2010, 05:55 PM

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Originally Posted by Toughy

<snort>

and the things we have in common as white meat is plum scary.................laughin....

and then there is

nowandthen · 09-03-2010, 05:58 PM

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Originally Posted by Toughy

<snort>

and the things we have in common as white meat is plum scary.................laughin....

Yes They should be scared! sneaks away with an evil laugh!

Toughy · 09-03-2010, 06:01 PM

A story about who calls me what.

Many years ago, during the 'courtship' phase (if you want to call it that....it was like bees to pollen), my now ex wife (16 years) spontaneously called me by my family nick name. I had never told her that and she had not at this point met my bio-family. How the hell did she do that....laughin....many folks have come close, but no one outside the bio-family ever nailed it before or after her.

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dang it potty............you just reminded me I should have done the 'popcorn' in a thread instead of replying with words........

Bit · 09-03-2010, 08:22 PM

What I prefer to be called is Cath or Cathie, but I've used Bit as a screen name for more than a dozen years now, so I understand when people call me Bit. At one point I actually answered to it--had a partner who preferred using it instead of Cathie--but these days I feel more comfortable with Cath.

T D · 09-03-2010, 08:36 PM

TD or Stevin here. Since Stevin is still a relatively new name for me, I still get TD a lot. Either one is fine with me.

However I introduce myself as Stevin to new people I meet.

09-03-2010, 02:42 PM	#1
Toughy Senior Member How Do You Identify?: pervert butch feminist woman Preferred Pronoun?: see above Relationship Status: independent entity Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Oakland Posts: 1,826 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 4,068 Thanked 7,654 Times in 1,523 Posts Rep Power: 21474854	T or Toughy works for me. Isa calls me by my given name because........well..........because she can..........laughin I actually don't really care about the given name part. It's funny, for the most, part people relate to me differently if they use my given name or if they use T/Toughy. __________________ We are everywhere We are different I do not care if resistance is futile I will not assimilate www.butchfemmesocials.com/

09-03-2010, 05:33 PM	#5
nowandthen Member How Do You Identify?: Queer Butch Preferred Pronoun?: S/he Relationship Status: In a realationship with my PhD. Dissertation work for the next 3 years Join Date: Jan 2010 Location: West Coast Posts: 508 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 400 Thanked 947 Times in 325 Posts Rep Power: 6580600	Tee By most My birth name by relatives :-( In reference to T or Toughy I am the other White meat __________________ "Real isn't how you are made," said the Skin Horse. "It's a thing that happens to you." "Does it hurt" asked the Rabbit, "Sometimes", said the Skin Horse, for he was always honest. " It's a Kind of testing, The kind of testing that spiritual warriors need in order to awaken their Heart" PC

09-03-2010, 06:01 PM	#9
Toughy Senior Member How Do You Identify?: pervert butch feminist woman Preferred Pronoun?: see above Relationship Status: independent entity Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Oakland Posts: 1,826 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 4,068 Thanked 7,654 Times in 1,523 Posts Rep Power: 21474854	A story about who calls me what. Many years ago, during the 'courtship' phase (if you want to call it that....it was like bees to pollen), my now ex wife (16 years) spontaneously called me by my family nick name. I had never told her that and she had not at this point met my bio-family. How the hell did she do that....laughin....many folks have come close, but no one outside the bio-family ever nailed it before or after her. ----------- dang it potty............you just reminded me I should have done the 'popcorn' in a thread instead of replying with words........ __________________ We are everywhere We are different I do not care if resistance is futile I will not assimilate www.butchfemmesocials.com/

09-03-2010, 08:36 PM	#11
T D Member How Do You Identify?: Person of the trans variety Preferred Pronoun?: He, Sir, Bro, TD, Stevin Relationship Status: On occasion Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: SF Bay Area Posts: 1,165 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 1,428 Thanked 1,125 Times in 311 Posts Rep Power: 3570340	TD or Stevin here. Since Stevin is still a relatively new name for me, I still get TD a lot. Either one is fine with me. However I introduce myself as Stevin to new people I meet. __________________ “Don’t ask what the world needs. Ask what makes you come alive, and go do it. Because what the world needs is people who have come alive.”

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09-03-2010, 08:22 PM	#10
Bit Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Stonefemme Relationship Status: married to Gryph Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Wichita, KS Posts: 2,177 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 1,126 Thanked 3,770 Times in 1,264 Posts Rep Power: 10778871	What I prefer to be called is Cath or Cathie, but I've used Bit as a screen name for more than a dozen years now, so I understand when people call me Bit. At one point I actually answered to it--had a partner who preferred using it instead of Cathie--but these days I feel more comfortable with Cath.