What do you prefer to be called on the site?

[oneye]

i always get a little hesitant to answer these things because, in another place (okay...site) at another time, i was hassled a great deal about identity and my identity specifically. but, you can't be a wuss forever.

as for names, i am cool with oneye, one or nick, which is the name i've gone by for the last 22 years. i do not like to be called by my given name at all, and i LOATHE being called and have come close to committing homicide when addressed as 'nikki.' DO NOT DO IT!!!

pronounically speaking, i prefer he/him. no, i don't feel that i'm male, and i'm not transitioning and won't likely do so. however, i've never in my life felt like a female really...from the time i can remember. honestly, i've often felt like i've been floating around out there in a sea of gender labels without a life preserver. i ask to be referred to with male pronouns because i feel most closely able to relate to them.

now, if you have gathered up tomatoes to hurl, have at it. i'm ready!!