Personal Space -- In Your Face

rlin · 10-28-2010, 09:04 PM

i do okay in crowded spaces... its like my psyche knows it just has to deal with it...
but... in a normal environment... nope... i have a pretty good idea of my space... i think it is deeper than 18"...
and... even hugs from folks i like are iffy... i think i need a real physical relationship with the person...
i think that personal space is the lesson i beat into my kid the most...
even when he was 2 or 3 and had no idea of personal space... i was teaching him... now... he has hangups with it... so... i think i created a monster... its few and far between that i get a hug from him unless he wants it... of course... he is 21... so i consider myself lucky that he ever wants a hug...
damn...
i think i got off topic...
hmmm
yeah...
space is really flipn important...

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10-28-2010, 09:04 PM	#8
rlin Member How Do You Identify?: human Join Date: Mar 2010 Location: nomad Posts: 712 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 1,450 Thanked 1,189 Times in 451 Posts Rep Power: 1004849	i do okay in crowded spaces... its like my psyche knows it just has to deal with it... but... in a normal environment... nope... i have a pretty good idea of my space... i think it is deeper than 18"... and... even hugs from folks i like are iffy... i think i need a real physical relationship with the person... i think that personal space is the lesson i beat into my kid the most... even when he was 2 or 3 and had no idea of personal space... i was teaching him... now... he has hangups with it... so... i think i created a monster... its few and far between that i get a hug from him unless he wants it... of course... he is 21... so i consider myself lucky that he ever wants a hug... damn... i think i got off topic... hmmm yeah... space is really flipn important...