Were you adopted in a closed adoption?

[NotAnAverageGuy]

Originally Posted by apocalipstic

I checked them both out.

Link one makes more sense to me than link 2 and has a lot of good info I found in the books I have been reading.

Link 2 talks in part about myths of adoption and how it is a myth that adoptees have problems often. I do not agree with that at all.

If there must be an adoption, I side for Open Adoptions where there are zero secrets.

I am not totally for open adoptions due to the fact they can be tested in court, I recall the story of an open adoption where a child was adopted out and then the real mom changed her mind and got the kid back.

But I am not fond of closed adoption either due to the records being sealed

Originally Posted by apocalipstic

Logically we know we will die of old age, but every time I have a pain, I wonder if it is because of some disease I don't know about.



Did it change your life when she told you? Are you angry about any of it?

I agree I wonder if its a disease that I don't know about