The Love list.

Passionaria · 11-20-2011, 07:54 PM

*chemistry and connection*
tenderness and fineness
loving and expresses it freely
emotionally honest but kind
when they kiss me or touch me, I melt and get weak in the knees
Passionate ~ a believer in senseless acts of passion in the name of love or lust
sexy (yes it's high on the list)
must be sex positive / tender and expressive but very naughty, edgy
expressive with well developed communication skills
Loves them self and their body
Has a Spiritual base ~ respectful
creative ~ intelligent
generous of spirit
*must have a sense of style and know how to dress*
high emotional quotient (EQ)
and lots of points if they can dance well enough to make my jaw drop

These are the qualities I can't live without......

chai~ · 11-20-2011, 09:33 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Passionaria

*chemistry and connection*
when they kiss me or touch me, I melt and get weak in the knees
lusty
sexy (yes it's high on the list)
must be sex positive / tender and expressive but very naughty, edgy
expressive with well developed communication skills
Loves them self and their body
Has a Spiritual base ~ respectful
creative ~ intelligent
generous of spirit
*must have a sense of style and know how to dress*
high emotional quotient (EQ)
and lots of points if they can dance well enough to make my jaw drop

These are the qualities I can't live without......

I like this....!
I would like, "lots of points if they can dance well enough to make me want to take my clothes off with them!!!" Just sayin!!!

Mr Nice Guy · 01-25-2012, 04:35 PM

Ok I'm bumping this for all those looking for love. Now I need to go back and read what I missed.

Mr Nice Guy · 06-14-2012, 04:26 PM

Ok I'll bump this thread. If you want me to.

thedivahrrrself · 06-14-2012, 06:23 PM

Not looking for a relationship, but I'm glad you bumped this thread.

Maybe a list will help me over the next few months.
YSK I reserve the right to amend this from time to time.

MUST-HAVES:

Compassion
Sincerity
Decisiveness
Honesty, even if it means sacrificing a little tact
Intelligence
Must be a geek/wonk about something, even if it's something I think is lame (like the reproduction habits of spiders, or how to build a transmission)
Healthy Sex Drive (sorry, but it's true)
Gentleness - must make me feel safe
Protectiveness - see above
Butchiness - that certain je ne se quois
Likes dogs
Treats people well, this includes the waitress and the bus driver

MUST-NOTS:

Excessive Insecurity
A need to control me (I rebel; I can't help it)
Meanness
Lying
Manipulative
Paranoia
Smokers (sorry, I just don't think I can live with that again)
Chronically unemployed
Laziness

JUST ICING (because who doesn't love cake?):

Driven, goal-oriented
Might want kids
Good conversationalist (this is a must in an LDR, but icing otherwise)
Good grammar
Semi-obsessive hand-washer (it's good to have things in common)
Values education and the pursuit of knowledge
Loves museums
Will go with me to the opera
Doesn't think my girl music is lame ♪♫♪

thedivahrrrself · 06-14-2012, 07:09 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by thedivahrrrself

Must be a geek/wonk about something, even if it's something I think is lame (like the reproduction habits of spiders, or how to build a transmission)

Apparently you only RE-build transmissions. (Doesn't someone build them somewhere? Or do they just appear built?)

I stand corrected.

And I know geeks who are geeky about their cars. I'm just sayin'

Mr Nice Guy · 06-14-2012, 07:10 PM

Great list!!!

11-20-2011, 07:54 PM	#1
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06-14-2012, 06:23 PM	#5
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01-25-2012, 04:35 PM	#3
Mr Nice Guy Timed Out How Do You Identify?: Kind, sweet, loving, romantic and a rare Butch. :) Relationship Status: I don't drive a Uhaul. :) Join Date: May 2011 Location: Another New Englander Posts: 1,768 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 2,035 Thanked 4,894 Times in 1,307 Posts Rep Power: 0	Ok I'm bumping this for all those looking for love. Now I need to go back and read what I missed.

06-14-2012, 04:26 PM	#4
Mr Nice Guy Timed Out How Do You Identify?: Kind, sweet, loving, romantic and a rare Butch. :) Relationship Status: I don't drive a Uhaul. :) Join Date: May 2011 Location: Another New Englander Posts: 1,768 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 2,035 Thanked 4,894 Times in 1,307 Posts Rep Power: 0	Ok I'll bump this thread. If you want me to.

06-14-2012, 07:10 PM	#7
Mr Nice Guy Timed Out How Do You Identify?: Kind, sweet, loving, romantic and a rare Butch. :) Relationship Status: I don't drive a Uhaul. :) Join Date: May 2011 Location: Another New Englander Posts: 1,768 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 2,035 Thanked 4,894 Times in 1,307 Posts Rep Power: 0	Great list!!!