What TO DO in a relationship.....

Martina · 02-26-2012, 05:42 PM

Yeah, eventually it comes out because how could it not? i guess i know that some people are on best behavior for a long time and some develop new interests. But no one could really pull this off. It's not to the rest of our credit that we do not. Making the attempt is immature at best. And success is simply impossible unless one is Chauncey Gardiner.

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Originally Posted by deedarino

You would be surprised how many people hide or change who they really are inside trying to "be" what you want. Eventually it all comes out, usually attached to resentment.

girl_dee · 02-27-2012, 07:38 AM

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Originally Posted by Martina

Yeah, eventually it comes out because how could it not? i guess i know that some people are on best behavior for a long time and some develop new interests. But no one could really pull this off. It's not to the rest of our credit that we do not. Making the attempt is immature at best. And success is simply impossible unless one is Chauncey Gardiner.

Yup, or maybe one realizes that they did this, molded their whole life to be someone's perfect fit, and realizes that was a mistake because i feel, a relationship based on anything other than 100% truth will not make it.

WomenMoveMe · 02-27-2012, 07:48 AM

Be present in all manner and matter.

girl_dee · 02-27-2012, 07:57 AM

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Originally Posted by WomenMoveMe

Be present in all manner and matter.

i agree with this so much, undivided attention when it's asked for is important.
i want to be heard, and to hear.

girl_dee · 03-11-2012, 08:08 PM

learn from mistakes from the past
have a picnic together, that was awesome
see the world together!

girl_dee · 03-23-2012, 07:15 PM

if you want it, make it happen.If you don't let it go.

justkim · 03-23-2012, 07:17 PM

Ask questions... lots...
Communicate with each other in all forms... little notes, text messages, emails... you get the point...
As always... little things...

thedivahrrrself · 04-11-2012, 11:22 AM

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Originally Posted by Cajun_dee

see the world together!

Ah, yes... Travel together as often as you can. There is nothing like experiencing something new together!

03-23-2012, 07:17 PM	#7
justkim Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Me... Preferred Pronoun?: ... Relationship Status: <3 myself Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: ... Posts: 2,023 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 3,062 Thanked 6,799 Times in 1,553 Posts Rep Power: 21474855	Ask questions... lots... Communicate with each other in all forms... little notes, text messages, emails... you get the point... As always... little things... __________________ Kim "A word of encouragement during a failure is worth more than an hour of praise after success." - Unknown -

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02-27-2012, 07:48 AM	#3
WomenMoveMe Member How Do You Identify?: I just wander about and be! Relationship Status: Caution: Dead End Join Date: Oct 2011 Location: Kentucky Posts: 561 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 1,473 Thanked 2,100 Times in 417 Posts Rep Power: 21474851	Be present in all manner and matter.

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girl_dee Practically Lives Here How Do You Identify?: Femme Preferred Pronoun?: dee Relationship Status: Hitched up Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Livin’ the Dream Posts: 24,079 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 30,560 Thanked 54,819 Times in 13,908 Posts Rep Power: 21474874	if you want it, make it happen.If you don't let it go.