The House of Stone...

[Hollylane]

Originally Posted by SilverStoneFemme

Those stonebutches who do not want their genitalia to be touched find lesbian sex to be offensive to them PERSONALLY.

Those stonefemmes who do not want to touch the genitalia of their stonebutches find lesbian sex to be offensive to them PERSONALLY.

This is the reality for those stonebutches and stonefemmes who are NOT female genital receptive. We don't do lesbian sex. It's the way of many, many stones and we do NOT need anyone's permission or acceptance to be so.

For those people to come into OUR house and tell us we're wrong for how we think, what we feel about our OWN personal sexual activity, is beyond arrogance.

This is the way for many, many stones. You don't have to like it.

If anyone is being demeaned here, it's us.

I certainly don't mean to seem like I'm jumping on the bandwagon here, or viewed as the semantics warden. I just want to point out that the term you're using, "lesbian sex", is the sticking point for me.

There is diversity in every ID, and I know from getting to know people throughout the years, that not all Stonebutches/Stonefemmes have identical sexual preferences, and many of them ID as lesbian. So, the term "lesbian sex", in the manner you used it in, IMO, could be viewed as offensive, without a deeper description detailing that this is what Stone means to you personally.

I don't feel like any of us are saying your personal preferences are wrong. I just feel like the way that phrase is being used, implies that most or all Stones share your preferences, if they ID as Stone. In addition, I do think it may be off putting to those who view their Stone ID differently than you do, to feel welcome to join a discussion.