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ruthie14 · 05-28-2012, 10:29 AM

Having a rough day. Too much stress... Friends think that my job is going to force me out somehow because of all the recent events. Workmans comp I have NOT heard from. Surgery is suppose to be june 13... worse case is that workmans comp and ins company refuse to pay which means I will have to pay for all the tests up to this point and cancel the surgery I need. I HATE my job! Aunt is giving my mom a hard time about moving into an assisted living place nearby. She is driving her room mate crazy, falling a lot, yelling etc. My mother has had to take over her finanaces and has been traveling to her place way too often. It's too far for her and I can't help her much. We want to place her closer to us, but she is going to fight it tooth and nail. I feel like I can't talk too much about my job and maybe losing it bc my Mom is under enough stress. Not sure if I can get a different job with my hand and arm the way they are. Going to have to try though. When all is settled with work/arm situation... I am sooooooooooooo out! Sigh... so wishing I had a partner right now. I am usually ok with my single status... but right now, I could use cuddle!!!

Ruthie

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05-28-2012, 10:29 AM	#11
ruthie14 Member How Do You Identify?: femme Preferred Pronoun?: she Join Date: Feb 2010 Location: NJ Posts: 844 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 1,904 Thanked 1,245 Times in 461 Posts Rep Power: 5946335	Having a rough day. Too much stress... Friends think that my job is going to force me out somehow because of all the recent events. Workmans comp I have NOT heard from. Surgery is suppose to be june 13... worse case is that workmans comp and ins company refuse to pay which means I will have to pay for all the tests up to this point and cancel the surgery I need. I HATE my job! Aunt is giving my mom a hard time about moving into an assisted living place nearby. She is driving her room mate crazy, falling a lot, yelling etc. My mother has had to take over her finanaces and has been traveling to her place way too often. It's too far for her and I can't help her much. We want to place her closer to us, but she is going to fight it tooth and nail. I feel like I can't talk too much about my job and maybe losing it bc my Mom is under enough stress. Not sure if I can get a different job with my hand and arm the way they are. Going to have to try though. When all is settled with work/arm situation... I am sooooooooooooo out! Sigh... so wishing I had a partner right now. I am usually ok with my single status... but right now, I could use cuddle!!! Ruthie